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What's up,

My goal is to hit the beginner advanced level for cold approach by Spring 2025.

Started DG 18 months ago, and after a false start recommitted this spring. Haven't been on dating apps for over 6 months. All my dates and lays come solely from DG.

Currently, I'm on the cusp of beginner-intermediate + as defined by manhattan daygame criteria.

I'm active in NYC and regularly wing with several of the guys in this forum.
Warm welcome to you, bro!

Excited to have you, have heard a lot about you from C.

Looking forward to learning more about you, and connecting with you.

-Ravi
 
What's up,

My goal is to hit the beginner advanced level for cold approach by Spring 2025.

Started DG 18 months ago, and after a false start recommitted this spring. Haven't been on dating apps for over 6 months. All my dates and lays come solely from DG.

Currently, I'm on the cusp of beginner-intermediate + as defined by manhattan daygame criteria.

I'm active in NYC and regularly wing with several of the guys in this forum.
Happy you decided to join the forums dude. Want to see you hit your goals and kill it
 
I, Milton, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

- 39 born and raised in the USA Midwest, indian descent, very late bloomer - found game at 25, laid at 30
- Have been with several dozen women since starting dating at 30, but have never reached my dating goals
- Late bloomer in life -- decided for premed at 27, now an MD finishing my fellowship after 5 years training
- Moved to NYC less than 3 months ago, East Village
- Have worked with several reputable dating coaches in the past and been an assistant coach in workshops
- Have opened probably 1000+ sets
- In summary, 39 yo Medical Doctor/ Surgeon new to NYC. Started dating at age 30, limited by lack of wingmen and being in the midwest throughout all medical school and training. Looking for help and wingmen to grow to my best self and get the dating life I deserve and help my fellow bros too.

Goals:
- Get the dating life I want -- to be dating multiple hot young women and have active sex life

Short term goals:
- Get laid in NYC. I don't use dating apps bc they don't work well for me

Sticking Points:
- Getting stuck at numbers that don't lead anywhere
 
I, Ron, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

- 29 years old from Melbourne, Australia
- Currently working in Emergency Services

My main goal at the moment is to improve my social skills and make some new friends

I've come to realise that I am quite agoraphobic and I constantly limit myself due to the fear of the judgement of others, which is something I want to fix.

I have dipped my toes into Self-Improvement before, I usually commit for a few months, lose motivation, my discipline drops and I stop. Joining the forums to keep myself accountable.
 
Hi lads. Reposting here since it looks like the forums got a makeover.
I, MFBag, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Since I was last on the forum a year ago I hit my goal of getting a remote developer job. Making 85k a year through my LLC working an hour or two a day. Current goals are as follows:

1 - Get my German passport and leave my city. Made an oath with myself I wont turn 30 here. Got an appointment with the consulate to apply for a German passport and from there will look into places in Europe.

2- Independent passive income. Currently working on an app for a contest due December 18th. Ideally it'll allow me to earn passive money every day.

3- Find a girlfriend I respect and admire. I dated a girl for 7 months this year and it was pretty good but there were a lot of things that bothered me. We broke up two days ago. I want a top tier girlfriend. Currently on Bumble (banned from hinge and tinder). Looking into MeetUp or other places to meet women irl.

4- Resolve sexual performance / ED issues. Last night I was fucking an ex from college and lost my boner halfway through. Likely related to porn or other things. Not the first time its happened.

5- Good mobility and cardio. Im already about as jacked as I want to be and want to get flexible.

6- Happiness, inner peace, and all that good stuff.

Cheers lads.
 
Hey everyone

I, bryah.neno, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

43yo from Belgium.
Having a fun sex life with casual partners is the main goal in this context.
But I'm afraid the limited focus and energy needs to go to getting my income sorted.
It's pretty bad.
For the short term:
- Get €7k of debt out of the way
- Raise my income to €2800 net/month
- Have a circulation of 5 casual partners

Looking forward to improving and working
 
Hi there it's PjAwesome . My goal is to become powerful seducer
 
Hi there it's PjAwesome . My goal is to become powerful seducer

Welcome lad! Love to see new guys here.

Please upload a real avatar of yourself, within the next 3 days - can have your face blurred, but it must be you.

We ban accounts within 3 days if they don't. Nothing personal buddy, just the rules - you & all other new recruits are the life blood of this place. Let's keep the new guys coming.

-Ravi
 
Banned them. Please follow my forums rules and seek to be a member of the community.
 
Hey guys.

Happy to be here. Married but interested in all the self-improvement aspects here plus general social aspects with woman. Want to improve frame and standard within marriage. Also big interest in improving fitness.

Looking forward to learning and interacting with everybody.
 
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Im Dan
I, Dan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm an old user who's returning here (I lost my account though). I was a user here in 2021/2022 but I had a mental breakdown from dating failures (suicidal thoughts, heavy depression, etc) and spent the last 2 years doing therapy and building myself up mentally to handle dating. I believe I'm ready to return to dating now. I never quite quit dating but I mainly dated within known friend groups.

What I will commit to this time is be open about my insecurities here. I couldn't do it before, too much pride, but I can do it now.

I'm not the fastest person at self improvement, but I don't give up.

Goals for 2025:
- Lay 10 girls this year
- Online dating profile success. I want to have a girl messaging me at any given time on my phone.
- Return to cold approach
- Deal with Erection Anxiety
- Explore BDSM

Previous Successes:
- Finished Approach Anxiety Program on GLL (2021)
- Learned of and fixed social anxiety (how I did the AA program while having social anxiety, I do not know) (2022-23)
- Quit porn/masturbation for 100 days (2023)
- Solo traveled for the first time to Europe (2023)
- Can go out to bars alone (2024)
- Learned how to flirt/game (2024)
- Emotionally connected to others better than ever in my life
- Recently fucked the hottest girl of my life (2024)
 
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