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I, Wayfinder, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 22 from Australia and have recently excited a toxic relationship of 1.5 yrs. I am a Uni student finishing in 2 years and want to make the most of Uni life.

Goals
Sleep with hotter girls
Expand my social circle and find some cooler friends
Get shredded
Take better pictures for tinder etc.
 
Wayfinder said:
I, Wayfinder, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 22 from Australia and have recently excited a toxic relationship of 1.5 yrs. I am a Uni student finishing in 2 years and want to make the most of Uni life.

Goals
Sleep with hotter girls
Expand my social circle and find some cooler friends
Get shredded
Take better pictures for tinder etc.
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Warm welcome!

Please start a progress log, and lets get to work
 
I, Steppenwolf, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 26 from Canada and have always struggled with girls and socializing my entire life. I'm currently going through some life transitions and will be moving very soon. After things settle I will give it all to improve my dating life.

My goals are:
- Develop genuine connection with girls of all backgrounds and have amazing sex with them
- Being comfortable in my own skin and obtain true confidence
- Work on my business to escape 9-5 rat race
- Try out new hobbies
- Meet cool people and develop genuine friendships and brotherhood
- Continue my self improvement journey and become better everyday
 
I, Faded, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 23 from Spain, student, i had a troubled youth (bad companies and drugs) wich ended up with me slaking for several years and ending up in a bad mental state that lead me to be quite isolated and being stuck in a small town.

Goals:
-Lean out (currently 80kg goal being 75), once i am lean get my gains back and bulk to 90kg, then once i am buff get back into martial arts.
-Once i looksmaxxed (bodybuilding) get into tinder.
-Finish high school and move to the UK (new country and big city) to study a career and build a new life. 🫡
 
Faded said:
I, Faded, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 23 from Spain, student, i had a troubled youth (bad companies and drugs) wich ended up with me slaking for several years and ending up in a bad mental state that lead me to be quite isolated and being stuck in a small town.

Goals:
-Lean out (currently 80kg goal being 75), once i am lean get my gains back and bulk to 90kg, then once i am buff get back into martial arts.
-Once i looksmaxxed (bodybuilding) get into tinder.
-Finish high school and move to the UK (new country and big city) to study a career and build a new life. 🫡
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Join the club my man. Many of us are former slackers who had horrendous youth.

But we've turned it around.

You will too.

Start a log, and lets go!

-MAC
 
I, Sinusoid, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
26yo from Estonia. Been through some ups and downs but feel like it's really time to get my shit together. Hope that other people's journeys will help keep me motivated and grinding hard.

Goals
Take gym more seriously
Finish uni and enter job market
Get girls (duh)
 
I, Argo, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

38 from NYC, living there too. Fell into the abyss after my last relationship in mid 20's. Prior to age 18, I was overweight and felt absolutely worthless and undesireable, had a glowup, got relationships, but they all fell into my lap so I never had to learn any skills with women(hence why they all fell apart). This caused me to internalize all the prior insecurity and fell into depression/anxiety paralysis. Only recently I've begun to climb out, and I will attack life until I kill it or it kills me.


I want to have regular sex, it is ridiculous how long I've gone without sex.
I want to move out, I've lived in the same apartment with my aging, abusive mother.
I'm going to cultivate the skills of attracting a woman.
I'm going to pay all of this forward and help others who thought it wasn't possible.

Short term goals
- Get leaner, continue feeling more and more satisfied with my body
- Develop dating app profiles
- Start working(i've been unemployed during my entire depressive phase)
- Get laid as quickly as possible. It's seriously been an absurdly long time.
 
Hello everyone,

26 from Poland. I focus on: building a career, losing fat and taking better and better photos.

I want to build a really attractive tinder profile. Meet young girls and milfs.

Yes, I love hot moms. :D
 
Hello everyone,

I am 24 and recently moved to New York city. I've been on my self improvement journey for years now, I started at a really dark place and worked myself up towards someone I am proud of.

My current goals are:
- Work on my mindset and bad inner belief
- Increase my levels of energy and performance
- Improve my dating life

Future goals:
- Start a business

After being the lurker for many years, I have decided to join the forums to follow the footsteps of some of my close friends here. @MakingAComeback and @Squilliam

I will use it for accountability and keeping track of performance/goals on the day to day
 
JourneyToOptimal said:
Hello everyone,

I am 24 and recently moved to New York city. I've been on my self improvement journey for years now, I started at a really dark place and worked myself up towards someone I am proud of.

My current goals are:
- Work on my mindset and bad inner belief
- Increase my levels of energy and performance
- Improve my dating life

Future goals:
- Start a business

After being the lurker for many years, I have decided to join the forums to follow the footsteps of some of my close friends here. @MakingAComeback and @Squilliam

I will use it for accountability and keeping track of performance/goals on the day to day
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Welcome to a legend.....

Lets fucking GO

SUCCESS IS THE ONLY OPTION

RISE TO TOP 1% NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES

BASK IN VICTORY FOREVER

-Ravi
 
Hi.

I, N(dot), commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 25 and a student with just about 3 and 1/2 semesters left. My primary goal is to graduate but I also wish to achieve a B-average. That might be a bit unrealistic, though.

I wanted to join a forum because I felt having a "public" diary might boost my performance. I am also something of an introvert irl, so I often don't allow myself the opportunity to talk about my issues. Whether I am this way because I actually want to be by myself, or because I am self-sabotaging is yet to be uncovered.

Regardless, I am happy to have taken this necessary first step in improving myself.
 
N(dot) said:
Hi.

I, N(dot), commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 25 and a student with just about 3 and 1/2 semesters left. My primary goal is to graduate but I also wish to achieve a B-average. That might be a bit unrealistic, though.

I wanted to join a forum because I felt having a "public" diary might boost my performance. I am also something of an introvert irl, so I often don't allow myself the opportunity to talk about my issues. Whether I am this way because I actually want to be by myself, or because I am self-sabotaging is yet to be uncovered.

Regardless, I am happy to have taken this necessary first step in improving myself.
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I've seen major performance upgrades from students

Seen guys go from very mediocre grades to graduating at a high level

If you get truly focused and take your performance from a 3-4 to about a 7, that is enough to achieve far better results.

Daily logging. Deep focus. Resisting distractions.

Simple. But not easy......That's where the forum comes in.

Start a log. Set your goals. Get to work & today is day #1

-MAC
 
Hi all,

Andrew, 30, from NZ. Avid reader of Andy's website. Looking to maximize my Tinder results.

Looking forward to meeting you all!
Cheers
 
Azdgari said:
Hi all,

Andrew, 30, from NZ. Avid reader of Andy's website. Looking to maximize my Tinder results.

Looking forward to meeting you all!
Cheers
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Awesome, welcome mate!

Let’s get a log going and enjoy the journey

Ravi
 
I, Fixati0n, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 26 in San Francisco. Work in tech.

In a sentence - I want the respect I deserve. I am a young, eligible, financially secure bachelor, with a high paying remote job I worked intensely hard to obtain. I am very well-traveled and have many interesting hobbies and stories. I want the respect I deserve. But that starts with me first.

Goals
Obtain control over my addictions
Form a social group, and be a leader within it
Rework my entire dating app profiles
Leave SF for a better dating experience, likely to NYC
 
Fixati0n said:
I, Fixati0n, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 26 in San Francisco. Work in tech.

In a sentence - I want the respect I deserve. I am a young, eligible, financially secure bachelor, with a high paying remote job I worked intensely hard to obtain. I am very well-traveled and have many interesting hobbies and stories. I want the respect I deserve. But that starts with me first.

Goals
Obtain control over my addictions
Form a social group, and be a leader within it
Rework my entire dating app profiles
Leave SF for a better dating experience, likely to NYC
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I love the motivation and energy.

But it only means something if you start a log & work.

We've got a user base of 2000+ men here, and only a small handful have an active log. That is the state of men in 2024, unfortunately.

Because most men, truly aren't it............

But if you are actually going to be one of those who are. Do the work. Make a log. Show up.

-MAC
 
What's up,

My goal is to hit the beginner advanced level for cold approach by Spring 2025.

Started DG 18 months ago, and after a false start recommitted this spring. Haven't been on dating apps for over 6 months. All my dates and lays come solely from DG.

Currently, I'm on the cusp of beginner-intermediate + as defined by manhattan daygame criteria.

I'm active in NYC and regularly wing with several of the guys in this forum.
 
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