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  1. Hawkins

    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Yeah haha. I was more being facetious about it. Obviously you're completely correct. I just struggle with concepts of "Dominance"/"Submission". The BDSM world and lingo carries a lot of baggage that I'm not sure suits me or the kinds of relationships I would like to build. I'm still struggling...
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    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Hey guys! Been a wild week. Leaving the tiny little town where I was at to come to a bigger place sure has done wonders for my dating life. I've got some date reports and some thoughts about the last week. I've been on 4 dates in the last six days. Which is absolutely wild. That's an INSANE...
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    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Life is fucking crazy. So after a mammoth road trip I have arrived in the city where I'll be spending my summer interning with a law firm. Man it feels nice to be out of the tiny little town I am attending school in. But moving is stressful and I'm pretty tired. But nonetheless, I am determined...
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    Tinder Pic Review

    What's up guys? Finals season is over so I'm back on the photo taking train. I'm taking some feedback from the legend himself MILFandCookies (appreciate you as always man) and trying to incorporate that "blurry background effect" into my photos. I walked downtown to a fun area that has lots...
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    Hawkins Gets Serious with Tinder: Photoshoot 2

    MILFandCookies Thanks as always for the feedback man. I very much appreciate it. I meant to go out and take more photos today but I'm rocking a bit of a sunburn and didn't think doing a cherry tomato impression was likely to turn into good tinder photos haha! So instead of that, I've tried to...
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    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    What's up guys. Back again and continuing with the month of trying to improve my tinder photos. I've made a separate post for feedback on the ones I took today. I want to write out some of my thoughts on the process of taking them though. First off, it was FUCKING STRESSFUL. Jesus Christ man...
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    Hawkins Gets Serious with Tinder: Photoshoot 2

    What's up guys. If you've been following my recent posts I've set myself the goal of getting damn serious about getting some good Tinder pics over the next month. I posted my first photo shoot earlier this week and got some great feedback so here's round 2. I took a fuck ton of photos with a...
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    Photo Feedback: Is a headshot like this even a good idea?

    Not too harsh at all. This is exactly the kind of feedback I was hoping to get. I'm not gonna get emotionally attached to any of my pictures lol. If they're bad, that's totally fine. I'll just fix them. I didn't and don't expect that this photo batch would actually wind up on my tinder profile...
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    Photo Feedback: Is a headshot like this even a good idea?

    What's up guys. I'm picking up my camera to try really hard on upgrading my Tinder profile. It's my project for the next month. I barely know how to work the thing, so I'm giving myself permission to suck and take a zillion photos until some of them turn out good. I took a photo shoot today...
  10. Hawkins

    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    What's up guys. Getting back down to things. I think I've been stretching myself a little thin over the last little while, but I'm coming back in to this log because I want to try to focus myself. First off, I want to give a grateful shoutout to Manly Cockfellow Bman and MILFandCookies ...
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    Brandon Builds - #38 Poly Girl

    Holy shit dude those are some damn good pics! You're killing it and it's inspiring to see. Those photos are the kind of quality I'm hoping to get someday. Keep up the good work and know that there's people here who admire the hell out of what you've accomplished.
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    Looks feedback

    I agree with MAC. It's limiting beliefs, not reality. I can relate as well since I have many of the same thoughts. But it sounds like you know that, which feels like the first step. Here are the things I'm working on to deal with my limiting beliefs. First off is actual concrete improvements...
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    Haircut and Facial Hair Feedback

    MILFandCookies I appreciate the feedback. I'll trim the neck up immediately. That's a quick change to make. As for trimming the beard to accentuate sharp edges, does that just mean to trim it shorter along the cheeks and leave it longer along the jawline and chin? Bman Thank you as well. Its...
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    Haircut and Facial Hair Feedback

    Hey Guys. I'm trying to level up my looks game. It's something I've never been happy with and I want to make some changes. So I hit up the barber the other day and got a fresh cut, and came home and trimmed my beard up. I want so honest, raw, feedback from guys who take this shit seriously. I'm...
  15. Hawkins

    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Hey Man. I know i've been MIA. Life's been very up and down. I've been very discouraged with self-improvement goals lately and I find it makes me too ashamed to even bother checking these forums. Being surrounded by people who are working hard and achieving throws a long shadow over my own...
  16. Hawkins

    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Day 9: I got out for a run today. Otherwise, not a great day. I'm allowed to suck. I'll try again tomorrow.
  17. Hawkins

    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Day 8: Today I gave my 3 hour presentation for law school. Today I spent time hanging out with a friend to watch the Super Bowl. It seems like the friendship is really solidifying with this guy and It's really nice to have a buddy to hang out with. He's cool and we have good conversations and...
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    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Day 7: First off, My thanks as always to those of you who have reached out with thoughts and feedback. It is deeply appreciated. I am feeling more comfortable with the advice given. I think the advice to focus on confidence, not get immediately thrown for a loop by the first irregularity in an...
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    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Day 6: Yes. i missed yesterday. I shouldn't have but i did. But that's no reason to let myself miss today. I'm allowed to suck. And I'm also allowed to keep trying. Today I went for a run. 30 minutes Today I did a back workout. I lifted more this week than last week Today I met my calorie...
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    Hawkins Self-Improvement Adventure: 4 Dates in 6 Days

    Thanks so much all of you for your feedback. I plan to try it out and report back to you as soon as possible DAY 5: Today was not my best day. I'm really struggling with my workload in school and it's cracking my mental health badly. I didn't get near as much work done as I should have, and I...
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