Hard2Focus said:Old thread but fuck it:
Is there any point in disclosing that you're not into social games, like suspending replies intentionally etc, prior to meeting girls irl?
pancakemouse said:
Adam said:For those who are seeking something casual with the girls you're dating: If you meet a girl through social life or cold-approach, how do you usually let her know that you're looking for something casual and do you do it on the first date? Do you make it explicit or just assume that she'll get the picture when you invite her back to your place on the first date? On Tinder/Bumble I always use Andy's template and tell girls I'm not looking for anything super-serious. Do you do the same when texting a girl to meet up for a first date?
Hard2Focus said:pancakemouse said:
Why not? My reasoning would be that "hardcore honesty" is something to strive towards, but I realize it might be counterproductive before the girl has even bothered to meet up.
Girls can tell from my behavior and style of dress. And if they've been on my IG for a while they'd literally see me with other girls.colgate said:Adam said:For those who are seeking something casual with the girls you're dating: If you meet a girl through social life or cold-approach, how do you usually let her know that you're looking for something casual and do you do it on the first date? Do you make it explicit or just assume that she'll get the picture when you invite her back to your place on the first date? On Tinder/Bumble I always use Andy's template and tell girls I'm not looking for anything super-serious. Do you do the same when texting a girl to meet up for a first date?
Has anyone actually answered this question in this thread? I'd like to know as well.
Holden said:Girls can tell from my behavior and style of dress. And if they've been on my IG for a while they'd literally see me with other girls.colgate said:Has anyone actually answered this question in this thread? I'd like to know as well.
An extreme example: do you think Scotty GLL needs to convince girls he's not boyfriend material? They just know he's a scumbag who will fuck them good and that's it.