CainGettingLaid
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KYIL community challenge: Deliberate acts of social defiance
What‘s up dudes. A big aspect of reaching any significant goal is ignoring naggers and normies. You oftentimes have to break social norms to get what you want.
The retardo stuff you do during the AA program is a superb example of this. Anyone who has done it can attest that after doing some of the weirder days, one‘s social freedom skyrocketed and one's view on the world fundamentally changed.
However, humans are very much prone to re-adapt to social norms, to mentally subordinate to the group. You might have broken your mental blocks temporarily in one area, but this does not mean that you have forever broken the general habit of social obedience. Having this habit will continue holding you back from reaching your goals.
Staying mentally/socially free requires repeated acts of deliberate social defiance.
The purpose of this thread is to collect ideas for such actions and challenge one another to go through with them.
I think it would be most fun to pick 1 idea per month by vote and then everyone who is down does it and documents it here on this thread.
((I’m tagging a bunch of people who I think will love or hate this challenge. You should do it either way.))
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Shoot your ideas down in the thread. Make sure it‘s things that scare you shitless. It should be the kind of ideas that if you go through with them, others will either think you are insane or will think you are a god.
Current idea collection. Occasionally updated with your ideas in this thread. I remove the ones that get zero votes in a vote.
I will make a vote every month. If I fall off the train of self improvement or forget, someone else can create the voting link.
To be nobody but yourself – in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you someone else – means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.
– e.e. cummings
What‘s up dudes. A big aspect of reaching any significant goal is ignoring naggers and normies. You oftentimes have to break social norms to get what you want.
The retardo stuff you do during the AA program is a superb example of this. Anyone who has done it can attest that after doing some of the weirder days, one‘s social freedom skyrocketed and one's view on the world fundamentally changed.
However, humans are very much prone to re-adapt to social norms, to mentally subordinate to the group. You might have broken your mental blocks temporarily in one area, but this does not mean that you have forever broken the general habit of social obedience. Having this habit will continue holding you back from reaching your goals.
Staying mentally/socially free requires repeated acts of deliberate social defiance.
The purpose of this thread is to collect ideas for such actions and challenge one another to go through with them.
I think it would be most fun to pick 1 idea per month by vote and then everyone who is down does it and documents it here on this thread.
((I’m tagging a bunch of people who I think will love or hate this challenge. You should do it either way.))
KillYourInnerLoser Radical Manganiello Toast Sprezza offwego Crisis_Overcomer chocolate colgate Suave1 Thebastard Holden Noself RogerRoger Master pancakemouse Vice lacroix Adrizzle SamJ_ Dewm goldfish
Shoot your ideas down in the thread. Make sure it‘s things that scare you shitless. It should be the kind of ideas that if you go through with them, others will either think you are insane or will think you are a god.
Current idea collection. Occasionally updated with your ideas in this thread. I remove the ones that get zero votes in a vote.
- wearing a borat costume on the most crowded place in the city
- tell your parents (or even grandparents?) about the last five people you have slept with
- ask 20 strangers to give you 5$ (begging)
- write "pussy please" on a cup, and go out with it and approach 20 chicks telling them you are desperate and need some pussy and whether they would like to donate (pussy beggar challenge)
- Cut the line to the club
- Cut in front of people waiting at the bar and command the bartenders attention better.
- interrupt some guy poorly hitting on a girl
- Hard stop a group of girls going the opposite direction on the street
- Ask someone to carry something for you as if you’ve known them (coworker-like rapport levels)
- give 3 people genuine complements. Not just “hey I like your hair”. More like “hey your curly red hair is gorgeous it reminds me of the wind at night”. Really get your creative language going
- give 5 girls a flower/rose. A friend of mine did this ages ago. No explanation “this is for you”
- for all the camera boys, ask 5 people to take their photo and send it to them. If they ask why say you like their style. Also when you do this direct them a bit.
- walk backwards towards a girl WHILE approaching and scream/shout loudly "Bwuoh" before approaching, just to get that social adrenaline rush going.
- go to a city centre wearing a diaper
- go door to door offering to clean windows, declutter rain gutters, lawn care, pressure washing, etc. shit that you need 0 skill/education and could start doing today
- screening/hitting on girls while they are with their boyfriend
- find a girl sitting alone in a mall/food court etc. Sit down across from her and say "hey, sorry I'm late." Have an instadate from there
- Stop 10 strangers and tell them one of your insecurities
- Ask strangers to take a photo with you
I will make a vote every month. If I fall off the train of self improvement or forget, someone else can create the voting link.
To be nobody but yourself – in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you someone else – means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.
– e.e. cummings