SamJ_
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- Apr 15, 2021
This is the biggest thing I struggle with with cold approach. I've proven to myself I don't have crippling approach anxiety that actually prevents me from approaching because now I've done full blown sober approaches during the daytime, which I'm proud of. But these have only been when there was an obvious conversation starter that I thought of that pertained to the environment or the girl was smiling and looking at me already. I don't approach 95+% of the hot girls I see walking by or sitting/standing near me and I think the reason is I can't think of a way to do it in a way that has any decent chance of working. How do you guys do it? Do you force yourselves to ignore the fact that you might look socially retarded and go out of your way to walk over to girls and interrupt their conversations? Do you walk around outside or in stores shouting girls down and complimenting them? I'm not tryna come across condescending here or anything, I'm just genuinely curious whether you guys try to wait for the right time to approach or if you just force yourself into super awkward approaches.