SamJ_
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- Apr 15, 2021
This is something I struggle with a lot. I'm getting to the point where if a girl is sitting/standing by herself, I can usually force myself to approach and start a conversation and express interest and ask for a number/snapchat. But these are actually rare scenarios unfortunately. The majority of girls I see are on the move somewhere. But girls who are walking somewhere, especially outside, is much harder for me. I usually say hi, and so do they, and then usually that's it, there's literally only like a 1-2 second window of opportunity to express interest. Should I say like "hi, I like your shirt" or something lol? I just have a ton of anxiety about trying to do these approaches that have to be really quick and aggressive. I've done like 3 or 4 of them, but they were usually in an environment where it was expected, like around bars, and I had been drinking, which made it easier for me to say something really quick and impulsively. But I feel it's much harder during the day in a regular environment. How do you guys do this?