Jhoe's log

Tomorrow before the date I have to do 5 approaches which I have to ask for the number.

I scheduled two dates for tomorrow and I think one will absolutely flake on me as I had this same interaction before hand. The other one is almost certain she will come. We will watch a movie and after that I will bring her to my car. While in theater I easily escalate so the girl knows it is on very early.
 
Hello guys,
I didnt do ano cold approach today because of logistical problems and also I had scheduled two dates. One flaked and the other one confirmed.
Note: I will never waste my time going to the movies again. It is easier to escalate but unnecessary. I need to think about a good game plan where I will pick the girl up from the mall, bring her to my car to escalate, leave the place to a quieter..
Prototype:
- Talk with the girl
- 5 minutes later(hold hands)
- shit chat for 15 minutes and go for the kiss
- after kissing escalate more 10 minutes and ask her to follow me to my car
- escalate in my car until I get to touch the kitty
- escalate more and go to a quieter area
Tomorrow I have to do 10 cold approaches. I know I really need volume to get to see new girls more often than in two months from now
 
caico11

Good work man.

Here’s something you can try… when you next introduce yourself and shake her hand, try holding her hand until she takes it back.

This changes everything. Girls that give you a number after are in my experience much less likely to flake (they’ll know what the deal is, and actually respect you and your time by leaving if they’re not interested)
 
Thanks brother. I got really encouraged by your log SpicyBoi yesterday. I will definitely try this one. I will do at least two of those tomorrow when I try to hold her hand for 2/3 seconds before asking for the number.

So, tomorrow I have to cold approach 10 girls where I will need to hold hand or at least try to hold of 2 girls instead of bumping fists to implement screening on my program
 
I did the ten approaches today. I don't remember it all but I will try my best to put all in here.
Note: before I joined kyl I really was struggling with the approaches and even to do one approach started to take a good time and long laps around the mall. The reality is that I am actually serious now and positive thinking helped me a lot more than just the small doses of anxiety theraphy. The mentality you have before, during and after approaching is crucial to crush your goals. If your goal is to beat anxiety it is a lot harder to beat it if you don't fix some words, some thoughts and how you respond after you didn't take action rather than only trying to go out and do the approaches.
Note: I only shake hands with one girl today as I was supposed to do two.
Tomorrow I will do 5 and then I will do ten again because I will be traveling for the next days.
1. Approached a very cute girl that was using sunscreen on her face. She smiled before the interaction and said hi to me and I complimented her and asked for her number. She thought I asked why she was using sunscreen in an embarrassed way but I was actually trying to get those digits hahahah.
2. She was sitting waiting for the train and I quickly asked for the number again
3. Rude girl lost her shit after I dared to ask for her number. Good thing that a small thing like this ruins her day. I wonder what if she poops today how bad she would be
4. Very very hot girl that was using a friend's shirt. I said that I am the Joey's son. She was giggling, eyes blinking. It was very pleasant to see it. Asked for her number but she said she had to go. Next interaction I will certainly talk more with these types of scenarios.
5. Got her instagram. I said I was nervous and she giggled. Got her instagram
6. Follow a girl in a different path I was used to and approached her
7. Talked to a black girl that didn't seemed so happy to get my compliments haha
8. Talked to another girl next to her and got her jnstagram but she said she has a bf so I didn't write it in
9. Girl from elevator. Asked for her number
10. Chubby girl. Nothing really worth saying
Note: never say you will try. Just do it. Hahaha Nike's advice
 
Hello guys. Just did 5 approaches today
I got instagram from what it seems to be a girl with a boyfriend. She seems responsive and didn't mention her bf while he had our conversation. I tried to schedule a date but she seems to be on the fence about it. I find it better to not insist I wonder how many guy put all their heart on one women so she will blow me behind their back
1. Girl from my condo
2. Don't remember
3. Girl with boyfriend
4. Girl from my gym.
5. Ugly girl and old too. Just did it for the fun of it and probably it should be the best time of her life for sure
 
It seems that the girl I went out two days ago seems to be down to hang out again. That means I will push the interaction further as we really progressed on the first date. She is not as attractive as the girl I went out in the first week but she is cute too
 
Hello, guys, just did my 11 approaches today.
Tomorrow I am going to do 15

1. Cute girl. I complimented her and got her instagram and she followed me back to later say she has bf
2. Thick cute girl. She said she was married
3. Cute girl shopping clothes. Rejected
4. Girl waiting with her dog. Rejected
5. Amazing approach. I was having a conto with my friend nearby the gym and a Cute black girl passed by me. I quickly decided I was going to approach her. She has a bf. But I really like the boldness of the interaction.
6. Girl from my gym. Asked for her instagram and she said why I want it. And I said to her I wanted to get to know her. She declined
7. Rude girl. Asked for the number anyway
8. Really cute cougar. Declined.
9. Black girl. Rejected
10. Got her instagram - she didn't followed me yet
11. Got her instagram - same
 
Hello, guys I forgot to report the 15 approaches but I did it.
Weekend I had to go to the countryside to visit my father and only did a small set of approaches there.
Today, I did five in my college and got 3/5 numbers and one seem responsive.
Tried to scheduled a date again from a girl I cold approach last semester and she is always making damn excuses. For now on, I will never talk to her again. Or only after I get at least one fuckbuddy or two.
Good thing though, she saw me hitting on a better looking girl than her and even got her contact information hahah.
 
Hello, guys. I don't even remember how many approaches I did yesterday I will remark some good stuff that happened though
1. Approached a girl that was with her friend and the guy cockblocked me. Very funny to see how almost all guys choose this route of friendship as a "free attention" whore that probably won't get anything because his attention is so much valuable than his dick.
2. Got rejected in front of security and he laught at me. I proceeded to show him all the dates I got scheduled for this week and his face everything I needed to know. "He didn't get laid"
3. My friend proceeded to tell me advice about girls. The same guy whose best story is from a girl with a bf he met on omegle and didn't even hook up with her. In his mindset being a little bitch counts as being Don Juan
 
caico11 said:
Got rejected in front of security and he laught at me. I proceeded to show him all the dates I got scheduled for this week and his face everything I needed to know. "He didn't get laid"
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lmaoooooooooooooooo you're a savage

can't wait to hear your date reports soon
 
colgate I got a date tomorrow with a girl I met two weeks ago. The other ones went cold or just aren't sure enough yet. It seems I will be meeting 3 girls in a few days though.

Guys, I am not even counting my approaches anymore. I know I did only four inside my campus and it is something I will work on tomorrow. My goal is at least five there. And did probably 6-7 at the mall. I will only talk about the most remarkable ones.
1. Approached an influencer and got her instagram but no follow up. It was funny though because the interaction could clearly go way longer but I finished. I know that someday my goal is to be in those kind of interactions. Next time I will ask the girl on a insta date
2. Approach one girl that was with her coworker. He asked me if I wanted any help and I laught and left the interaction
3. Approached a girl that said she is married. And I said to her :" how am I supposed to know that" as she seemed disgusted.
4. Approached a cutie and got her insta. But unremarkable approach. She is responsive though.

I am getting a lot of numbers but a lot of no follow ups or girls responsive in the beginning to go cold the same day. It might be because I am being too direct. But I will keep doing this to see how it goes
 
Hello guys
Got ghosted today but did 8 approaches
5 inside college- where I could have done way more
3 at the mall - but I wasn't feeling it
I figured my goals changed for a bit and it hindered my progress as I wasn't trying to perform but to get numbers and get some action. Though it would really be a good idea.
For now, I know that next week I will be crushing my next goal that is talking with groups. I will start small (3 groups) but slowly I will interact with 10 groups. I really think that after this I will be way more comfortable doing ca while in big crowds and that will be very helpful.
Also, in the weekend I am planning to ask 3 girls from insta dates and add one every week until it gets to ten girls on insta dates. I am going to do this with Fuckboy Aspirant .
The goal is not to get better results as it's statistics have been proven everyday by veterans. But I want to get the experience needed to get through the nonsense faster
 
caico11 said:
2. Approach one girl that was with her coworker. He asked me if I wanted any help and I laught and left the interaction
3. Approached a girl that said she is married. And I said to her :" how am I supposed to know that" as she seemed disgusted.
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These are the kind of interactions KYIL needs lmao, I LOVE hearing shit like this. It what makes this game so comical

Keep it up bro, killing it rn.

Fica à vontade
 
Hello guys.
Just did my 15 approaches yesterday.
I will only say about the most comical ones as Mimbe393939 suggested.
1. I asked for the girls instagram and put it on the dial so she can put her number in. So funny because I explained to her how instagram search engine is done by numbers.
2. Approached a lesbian chick. She said her love was a really jealous person and I straight up asked her if she has been beaten by her lover before. Before I left the interaction I was feeling like running away from her as the relationship she described seemed so toxic.
3. Approached 3 girls inside my gym and I think all of them noticed I was asking numbers hahhaha. Even one of them sounded mad about it
4. Approached another girl from my gym. She lost her credit card and I was laughing because I would ask for her number. "Oh my God... I hope you can find your credit card. Let me get that numba" . She rejected me though
5. Approach a girl that was shopping with her sister and her mother. She got really red as I asked for her number but she declined. I felt like I could insist way more. Certainly, I will be doing that next time
6. Approached a married woman and she seemed clueless by the whole interaction. I felt like no men have never approached her ever. And I said to her that was how her grandparents met.
7. Approached a girl and quickly asked for her whatsapp like the police. I love that if you are more demanding instead of asking you can get a lot of more numbers. But it doesn't lead up to something more meaningful in most cases. Probably I will have better answers for that in the next 2 months.
 
Today I have to ask for 3 insta dates.
I am doing this with Fuckboy Aspirant and we will be performing this every weekend and add one until it get to 10 insta dates asked.
Game plan:
1. Compliment
2. Name
3. Ask her what she is doing(logistics)
4. Tell her what you are doing( it will be the location of the insta date)
5. Ask more questions
6. Ask her to join you
 
I did the 3 asking for insta dates guys
Fuckboy Aspirant and I were really excited to perform this task. Saturday ar the malls might be especially difficult if you don't have you shit together. I always felt how many couples were there enjoying themselves but you can find some single girls too.
1. I started talking to a girl and she got really nervous about the situation and got really nervous. Even the security approached us and stand nearby. I was in awe how I got her number and how comfortable I was
For the next two I had to call my friend and we both decided to do the rest while on the phone. So, it was really easy to perform the second and last one.
It was fun
I also got 4 numbers. 3 I got while going to the gym. It was 3/3 100% ratio. How important experience is. A beginner would probably start to expect these kind of results.
It seems I got two dates scheduled for next week
One from a girl I cold approached last semester and other a girl I found on bumble
 
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