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You need something more social
good idea, but at a bar with the waitress it would get cringy very fast, I can do it both at the skate park and at the
basketball court. There's always very cool guys there and I can tip them. I also like some solo pictures if it's very cool like this
will train my facial expressions, there's no point if I look sad

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Haven't paid attention to that, good you noticed it! It's a a bag of chewing gum which I always keep with me, cuz dry mouth. I will keep only a few with me from now on.


I can track my matches/swiping ratio from now on, how many weeks is needed to get good data?

I opened Tinder on 5th Dec 2023 and right now I have 123 matches, 37 from those are something Im actually interested to meet and only 13 looks GF material. I dont delete anything, I just let them stay there.

I've only had 4 dates from those. I think around 5 more dates were accepted as well but I wasnt interested enough after all so I ghosted those girls.

Right now 187 likes, most girls below average. Couple entrepreneur stunners but I havent even liked back. A few models too but the height is a problem so I havent liked back.

Rest of those matches came probably from drunk swiping or being horny.

Population in my swiping area is 492k people.
Are you paying for Tinder? You need to be paying for Platinum in order to 3x your matches. Otherwise one "good" match per week doesn't sound too far off in a city that small.

Not liking models back because of "height" is insane. And not liking entrepreneurs? Makes me question if you're even trying?
 

These are the pictures I currently use for tinder, It got me 35 likes and 8 matches (of which only 1 got me the Instagram of the girl) in 2 months. I don't have premium, just a regular account and I live in a medium city.
I know I can do better, any advice?
 
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These are the pictures I currently use for tinder, It got me 35 likes and 8 matches (of which only 1 got me the Instagram of the girl) in 2 months. I don't have premium, just a regular account and I live in a medium city.
I know I can do better, any advice?
peccato sei dell'umbria se no potevamo vederci. La prima foto è buona, la seconda lo sarebbe se tu fossi stato in un posto migliore, si vede la colonna di cemento che regge la pianta, non è un'immagine sexy per colpa di quello, ma la tua posa lo è.
 
Are you paying for Tinder? You need to be paying for Platinum in order to 3x your matches. Otherwise one "good" match per week doesn't sound too far off in a city that small.

Not liking models back because of "height" is insane. And not liking entrepreneurs? Makes me question if you're even trying?
I only have gold. I just dont want to believe that Platinum is needed...I dont use boosts or anything neither.

I dont want to go on dates with girls who are taller than me. Theres that certain feeling I get when girl is next to me looking up, because she is shorter. I want that, not other way around
 
I only have gold. I just dont want to believe that Platinum is needed...I dont use boosts or anything neither.

I dont want to go on dates with girls who are taller than me. Theres that certain feeling I get when girl is next to me looking up, because she is shorter. I want that, not other way around
Gold is completely worthless. Platinum has a feature called Priority Likes that increases your match rate by 2-3x. There is absolutely no reason to have Gold ever. Just buy Platinum.

You are welcome to have your preferences. Except that what you're also not allowed to do is complain about not getting matches when you're not doing what's optimal.
 
I'm keen to kick back up the online dating. Atm my hinge profile is doing really poorly and I haven't had a match in over two weeks. I tend to get about a match a week which is also pretty poor but this is a new level. I'd really welcome some feedback on pictures. I can also provide convo screenshots too if anyone interested.

Here is my current hinge profile - And here is a selection of pictures I have -
 
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I'm keen to kick back up the online dating. Atm my hinge profile is doing really poorly and I haven't had a match in over two weeks. I tend to get about a match a week which is also pretty poor but this is a new level. I'd really welcome some feedback on pictures. I can also provide convo screenshots too if anyone interested.

Here is my current hinge profile - https://www.flickr.com/gp/199506397@N07/HU96PW9u56
And here is a selection of pictures I have - https://www.flickr.com/gp/199506397@N07/y7Pi424nc1
Picture 1 doesnt clearly show your face, 3 looks posed. Pictures 2 and 4 are kinda vague in what they are supposed to convey; you are at some social event but the vibe is not there.

Number 34 is a decent first picture and the dog picture with you looking away is decent in my opinion. Overall I think your style needs more edge and your facial expressions can be more dominant.
 
Hey, wondering if someone can let me know which of these looks better for a casual walking shot for tinder. First one I’m currently using, second one in green shirt was taken more recently on a hiking date. They look similar enough that I was thinking I probably wouldn’t use them both
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Also in case the second one is better and you have any suggestions for editing that would be awesome. Thanks guys
 
Hey, wondering if someone can let me know which of these looks better for a casual walking shot for tinder. First one I’m currently using, second one in green shirt was taken more recently on a hiking date. They look similar enough that I was thinking I probably wouldn’t use them both
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Also in case the second one is better and you have any suggestions for editing that would be awesome. Thanks guys
Second one is way better imo, but it portrays you more as a adventurous backpacker instead of a guy that has money. So it possibly depends on what youre going after.
 
Hey, wondering if someone can let me know which of these looks better for a casual walking shot for tinder
Either are fine. What's the vibe of the rest of the photos? Though the remote in your hand on the first one annoys me, but no one is really going to care. Lol
 
@Bman the overall vibe… here’s an idea of some of the other photos. Also have a couple travel pics

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Pretty outdoorsy I guess
 
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Hey, wondering if someone can let me know which of these looks better for a casual walking shot for tinder. First one I’m currently using, second one in green shirt was taken more recently on a hiking date. They look similar enough that I was thinking I probably wouldn’t use them both
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Also in case the second one is better and you have any suggestions for editing that would be awesome. Thanks guys
I def like the green shirt one. And yeah, good instinct on only using one of them. With walking shots I tend to opt for 1 max... 2 if they're both in an interesting place, or if they say something deeper about you (like if one of them is you travelling and the other is you hiking for instance)
 
I lost a lot of weight recently, trying to take some pics and get back on OLD. Looking for feedback on this shirtless pic. Specifically if it’s worth using or not, I know the bar is high lol. Thanks. I posted it cropped 2 different ways bc I wasn’t sure which was better
 
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I lost a lot of weight recently, trying to take some pics and get back on OLD. Looking for feedback on this shirtless pic. Specifically if it’s worth using or not, I know the bar is high lol. Thanks. I posted it cropped 2 different ways bc I wasn’t sure which was better
I like the pics G. I think they’re usable. If you play around with the light settings u can make urself appear more cut. Just gotta make sure any filter u use isn’t obvious. I’d also straighten the picture vertically because it’s titled (but that’s just my autism). Even though u look like u’re clenching your fist, I think they’re good pics. Use the one with the skyline visible if rooftop pools are prestigious where u live.
 
I'm keen to kick back up the online dating. Atm my hinge profile is doing really poorly and I haven't had a match in over two weeks. I tend to get about a match a week which is also pretty poor but this is a new level. I'd really welcome some feedback on pictures. I can also provide convo screenshots too if anyone interested.

Here is my current hinge profile -
And here is a selection of pictures I have -
Pic 1 is too stiff, replace it with #20, that one is certified kickass.
Pic 3 communicates nothing, and is also stiff. Brick wall photos are one of the biggest mistakes guys make when they start putting effort into their profile. They say nothing about you.
The coconut photo is also kickass. Replace the second to last one on your profile with this one.
 
whats up guys, my profiles have been sucking ass lately where they used to be half decent, think i have just been picking some bad pics recently while trying to improve over the old ones, which ones are the best? looking for at least 6 i can use, but 9 would be great. thanks

 
whats up guys, my profiles have been sucking ass lately where they used to be half decent, think i have just been picking some bad pics recently while trying to improve over the old ones, which ones are the best? looking for at least 6 i can use, but 9 would be great. thanks

6, 8, 12, 16, 17 are all good... I didn't look too far past them.

Some feedback in general though - you're looking directly at the camera in most of the photos. Try to look away from the camera, and try not to pose so much. It's a bit much. Easing up on that will make your photos much more useable.
 
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