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I, Aloofus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
38 year old from the East Coast US. I'm a former fat guy, and have been quite successful with women too (hit 100 several years ago, and haven't kept track since). I've been working on being the best version of myself for about 4 years now.

I found this site and see a lot of similarly between Andy's story and my own. I also enjoy helping men struggling with some of the same issues I've faced.

Goals:
Setting better goals and seeing them through.
Having a more active social life.
Living the best life I possibly can.
 
I, Thebastard, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:

* Joined GLL in December 2013 after lurking for almost a year. Before I was an Incel. 5 years later I was not and have mostly sorted out the woman area of my life.
* I work as an offshore oil/gas/windfarm consultant on a freelance basis. Looking to phase this out.
* Started my business log on GLL (https://www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/members-only/143982-thebastard-s-triumvirate-project) - a 5 year campaign to become financially free and live life as a global citizen with flags all over the world.
* While my no. 1 priority is to open the throttle on my financial goals, I realise that in order to remain on cruise control with girls I need to still be active in this part of life. So I will make a log on this awesome forum detailing my endeavours to master retention and open relationship skills with women. And help anyone here who needs it as much as I can, particularly those who are really at the bottom and struggling to get their shit together

My goals for this year are:

* Launch my first business and make £750/m consistently
* Save 66% of all earnings toward emergency fund and property mortgage, ultimately paying the latter off by no later than December 2022
* Sort out my hormone problems once and for all. May involve TRT.
* Become an expert in the field of marketing
* Outsource my dating life and focus on maintaining FB and long term open relationships
 
"I, Tristan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

tell us what your goals are, what you want to achieve, and make a commitment to improving yourself. Stick your goals in your signature too.

Hey guys I'm Tristan and I'm Canadian ehh.

I want to get to 10k subs on youtube before the end of 2021.

Made a thread already, sorrryyy!! But going to be posting in there outline what I'll be doing in order to achieve that goal!

Great looking forum Andy, looks good.
 
KillYourInnerLoser said:
I've seen you hustling on youtube man, 10k is super doable. Put your Youtube link in your sig and advertise that shit, spread it around.
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Thanks brotha will do!

Won't stop, can't stop.
 
Hi,

I'm Chris.

I, Christopher, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I recently turned 22 and I'm starting to realise that I have no good direction in my life. I feel like I'm letting myself coast through life without ever putting in the work I know I have to do to feel accomplished. I have to take steps to get my shit in order and firstly I'm going to focus on my body and health.

Current Height: 5'8
Current Weight: 49kg (about 7.7 stone)

Goal: Get in shape, at all costs. Intend to set a more specific goal once I know what i need to do.

Longer term goals: 25 lays in 3 years, £50k salary, be on a strong platform for further improvement.
 
Hello everyone!


I, Ben, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I got divorced at the beginning of the year and am turning 30 next week, so it's time for me to start living life. I've had sex with 4 different women in my life and I'm looking to improve my sex life dramatically.

Goals:
[*] Have 2 FBs by the end of the year.
[*] Reduce body fat to the point where I am visible abs without flexing.
[*] Upgrade my online dating photos.

Question for you all, do you ever delete your online dating profiles after improving your photos? I don't really like the photos I have now, but I signed up for Bumble last night and have 50+ likes. I'd like to get the lifetime subscription for Boost, but am concerned that I'm going to want to delete the account later in order to reset my matches.
 
What's up killas!
I'm bustanut from W.A

"I, bustanut, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

November last year was the end of my 7yr adventure with now EX . Im 37 she's 26 we have a 4 yr old son a Mortgage
I took it pretty bad to say the least. Lost frame , purpose , my job and self respect .
February this year got my shit together back working Fifo doing better I guess.

Underground miner
Currently $139k per year


My goals
# catch up on financial side things
land rates , Mortgage
# self improvement physicaly and mentally
# dramatically improve my sex life
 
Ive been training while at work . I work 2 weeks on 1 off.
50 push ups every day
25 when I wake up
25 before bed
Gym every 2nd
Rowing , bench lift , dumbel flys, bicep curls , 7 7 7 bicep work out finish with sit ups . 3 sets of reps on all weights
Been doing pushups for 2 months now. Gym workout has been 2 weeks. They have been closed due to covid
First goal is to get fucken shredded
Lose the puppy fat from my gut
6 pack instead of 4
Fix myself up first
then move more comfortably and confidently towards goal two the ladies
 
I, Logan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

19 from Washington
5 Lays total

Goals:
- I want to fix my Tinder
- I want to get better at talking to women
- I want to build up muscle
- I want to get laid 10 times within a year
 
Cold approach more, i find it a lot harder to walk up to somebody and start a conversation then to start one on an app or online
 
I, Vadim, commit on working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 24, I'm from Paris. Moved from Russia to France three years ago.

I'm around 1,74-1,76. So a not very high comparing to other guys who are around 180. I'm 72-73 kg

I have to wear bracers for another year.

I have never approached girls in real life. I only did only if they were my neighbors and we had common friends or something.

My tinder results really suck. Really. People say that I'm more fat on photos than in real life but I don't care basically about these comments. I just do photos.

I had around 7 lays in all.

Goals:
1. To get 10 lays till the end of the 2020.
2. To earn 5k €/month.
3. To express myself better. I speak English, French and Russian well but I say bullshit almost every time and it's really my weak point. The quality of my oral expression is really bad.
3. To dress better.
3. To lose fat. And to eat better eventually. I don't know how much percentage of fat I have so I will send a photo.
4. To learn the Chinese for 45 minutes every day. I have been doing it for two months.
 
Hey all,

My name is Andrew. I'm 20, I go to uni in the US.

My goals are the following:
  • Get laid from apps and approaching.
  • Look the best I can by following the Tinder guide. Cut fat then gain muscle.
  • Practice guitar daily, maybe buy a camera and learn photography

I, Forticks, commit on working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hey guys, many of you know me as MarkVegas from GLL. I'll likely maintain a presence on both forums now.

"I, Mark, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."


My long-term goal is to simply get laid a lot (preferably about 50+ lays), and I want at least 20 of these girls to be quite attractive (7/10+) and at least 10 of them to be HOT (8/10+). So far I'm at 11 total lays, four of them 7/10+ and 2 of them 8/10+. I would also like some of these (say, at least 10) to be from cold approach. I will achieve these goals by eventually improving my Tinder/Bumble photos, getting in good shape, and getting better at talking to girls during the daytime. These however are not currently on my to-do list.

My current, short-term goals include whitening teeth more, getting back into shape i.e. 8% body fat with some muscle mass (this should be happening soon when gyms open up), jerking off/porn less, and getting a tan. I'm in school right now so I haven't been doing much besides that, but I graduate soon.
 
Hi, I'm FerWhitmore7733, from Buenos Aires, Argentina.

I'm an ambitious guy with a really strange past that I shared with very few people. I'm really into self improvement. My first goal is to get laid a lot. I'm a kinky guy with a really high libido. I've been a porn addict, but I'm finally starting to get rid of that. I went through some depression in my past, but I got rid of that by now (giving up porn helped me a lot).

Had sex with hookers 6 or 7 times, but I never had the guts to approach any real girl, because of a fragile ego and strong fear to rejection. I want to be able to have sex with girls that are into me.

My achievements so far:

• 41 days of No Porn so far (happy of finally abandoning porn addiction!!!)
• Understood that in order to get laid, I have to go out there, and get rejected. (this was hard for me to accept, so yes, I percieve it as a little achievement, at least.)

My goals:

• My first and most important goal: Getting laid a lot. Creating a tinder account and later, doing cold approaches. It's hard though, given the current situation. Here in Buenos Aires, we are at the peak of this corona shit and under a strong lockdown, so I'll have to wait till the end of this mess in order to improve my dating life. (or in order to create it, because I have NO fucking dating life so far) In the long term, I want to explore my sexuality, I want to try lots of new stuff with women, BDSM and lots of other things.
• Gaining weight. I'm 60 kg, I want to build, at least, 10 kg of muscles. Used to go to the gym regularly before the corona thing, Been lifting with dumbells that I have in my house since then. I'm developing better eating habits.
• Getting a few tattoos.
• Improve looks (would love some feedback on my looks)

Long term goals:

• Getting a job, and moving from my parents crib. (hard, because of the economic crisis we're facing in my country, but is doable if I work hard, and I will.)

It's great to find a community of like-minded guys.

I, FerWhitmore7733, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
FerWhitmore7733

FerWhitmore7733 said:
Getting a job, and moving from my parents crib. (hard, because of the economic crisis we're facing in my country, but is doable if I work hard, and I will.)
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Hey man, we're pretty similar. I am currently also am looking for a job, but the economy's making it much harder than usual. Also looking to get laid more and have my own place, because it's hard to get laid when we're still living with our parents.

Let's hit our goals together.
 
Hi, I'm Kratos. From Melbourne, Australia.

I, Kratos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I have 61 lays to date, excluding prostitutes. About a third of those I actually really enjoyed. The remainder weren't enjoyable and was purely out of wanting to increase my notch count no matter what.

My goals for the remainder of 2020
- Revamp my Tinder/Hinge/Bumble with photos and specifications suggested by Andy.
- Continue building my skillset in BDSM by attending skill classes and connecting with like minded individuals in the community.
- Have my first threesome (MFF).
- Stop chasing the notch count, focus on quality of lays over quantity.
- Clean & Jerk 130kg, Snatch 100kg (both to be PB's)
- Continue my weight cut into being lean while maintaining/minimising strength loss. A likely target will be ~75kg. Currently 85kg. Down from 92.5kg on New Years Day this year.
- Continue along with my new found interest in photography.
 
SIGMA_1234 said:
@FerWhitmore7733

FerWhitmore7733 said:
Getting a job, and moving from my parents crib. (hard, because of the economic crisis we're facing in my country, but is doable if I work hard, and I will.)
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Hey man, we're pretty similar. I am currently also am looking for a job, but the economy's making it much harder than usual. Also looking to get laid more and have my own place, because it's hard to get laid when we're still living with our parents.

Let's hit our goals together.
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Yep, it's hard, but at least we still have love hotels though, I don't know the situation in your country, but here they're pretty common, we call them "telos", and they are really cheap here.

But still, we need to work hard. We can do it buddy!
 
KillYourInnerLoser i'm one of the guys on reddit that saw your post took a look and have been tearing through a bunch of posts trying to learn as much as possible and i got a first date tomorrow because of the tinder guide
 
Hey guys. Happy to join a community with like minded people.

I, MarvinTheAmazing, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

About me:
- I am 24 years old
- I'm living in Denmark
- Dropped out of university twice
- Self employed, doing amazon online arbitrage since november 2018
- Started in April 2020 getting involved with facebook and instagram ads, with the purpose of helping companies as a marketing consultant.
- Became single after almost 2 years relationship in april 2020 (feeling very rusty now)
- Currently on 18 lays

Long term goal:
Working while traveling abroad - being location independent
100% living on selling online or at least helping others doing that
Feeling sexually abundant with 100 lays

My goals for 2020:
Becoming super productivity: Sticking to my to do list, optimizing my workflow.
Becoming more assertive, persuasive and flirtatious in social settings.
Get 3 happy customers as a marketing consultant = 5K/month income
Exersize regularly at least two times a week.
Outsource amazon arbitrage making it an almost passive income.
Improve online dating for getting at least 2 DTF leads throughout tinder and instagram every month.
 
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