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I, Nic, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

24, from the midwest USA.

I'm here to because I'm sick and tired of missing the girl due to my own hesitation. I'm a skinny twig mf that's shy, afraid of taking to women, and self conscious with regard to my looks and stress-induced ticks that come with Turret's Syndrome. I'm currently in law school, and kicking ass in it - education/intellect is really the only area I have any confidence. Dated one girl seriously in my life, slept with approximately 10. I work in cannabis and would like to an ancillary goal in me being here is to get the motivation/confidence to start a company in that industry.

6 Month Goals:
#1 - Sleep with 3 women
#2 - Tone my skinny-ass body
#3 - Develop some level of comfort in flirting w/strangers

(profile pic should be up like 15min after this post)
 
Gday,

I, Mike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Will browse the forum after this and start a log with some more personal info/circumstance etc.

Looking forward to meeting you all and kicking ass at my goals.

Cheers
 
I, Tyler, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals
- Get out of debt and put $5k in the bank in next 6 months
- Get laid
- Get 2 attractive fuck buddies
- Get over AA
- Start approaching in person
- Get abs back
 
I, AC, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

24 from USA

Current Goals
-Get rid of Approach Anxiety
-Get abs by June 2022. Currently body fat percentage 22%
-Go on a date
-Get laid
 
"I, i-dude, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm here because I want to see how others get successful with women and I also want to do things for myself, the thing I want to master the most is cold approaches that leads to a date.

I've read the Game (honestly I don't really believe it) and a book called how to succeed with women by Ron Louis and David Copeland.

I'm from Canada, I have pretty much no experience with women and I want that to change, hope this page can help me and that I can help others eventually as well.
 
I,Lee, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
my goals consist of losing fat, making more money and getting laid. i have an injury that effects my hand so I'm not going to type a novel in here.
 
I, [Grant], commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
I want to achieve money from online work that I do myself.
As well I want to be able to get laid when I want to/ get less social anxiety (secondary to money, for now)
Bulk to 190 at least
 
I, Rem, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I want to lose the weight I put on after quitting smoking.
I want to be able to have video games as a background hobby, instead of the one thing I do all the time.
I want to get back out into the world and feel confident talking to people.
I want a personal image/style I'm happy with.
 
I, Aviv, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My current goals:
-get laid.(Willing to do whatever it takes.)
-go from 15%~ -> 10% bf

Hey. Let's get shit done.
 
What’s up, I’m Paw and I’m currently in Andy’s group coaching. I’m 26, European. I’m working on social skills, getting laid, business, fitness and health. I am doing fairly well in all areas but want to improve way, WAY more.

I’m not showing my face, I work with a fairly big website and my photo has been abused before for scams and I don’t want to risk any bad press for the business. You get a body shot instead;)

I have never read or participated in this forum or any other forum for that matter, so thought it was time to start.

I’m currently in Mexico City. If anyone is here, hit me up and I’m super happy to meet up and hit on some chicas together.

Goals:
  • Have sex with 50 girls who are my personal 8 or higher by the end of 2022.
    Make +10k per month from my business by the end of 2022.
I have more goals, but health and fitness comes fairly easy to me, so want to focus on those two.

I, Paw, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Let’s gooo
 
Hey all.
I'm Elior from Tel Aviv, Israel. 31 YO
I've been facing approach anxiety to beautiful women throughout my life.
I'm successful in my work, I've had plenty of women, done BDSM, Polyamory, you name it.
The one thing that I still feel like I haven't really accomplished is to beat approach anxiety and the ability to act freely next to beautiful women I just met at bars clubs restaurants etc.

I, Elior, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hi I'm m Pollop. Im committed to sexual abundance, (my goal) and taking myself seriously.
 
I, TerranBill, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

What up gentlemen; 32 year old IT boy here. I've been a lurker in these communities(GLL, RSD, etc.) for 10+ years. I've built up a bad habit of jumping headfirst into a long-term relationship with the first girl that reciprocates intimacy/affection with me(scarcity mindset - fear I won't be able to find another); repeating this pattern a few times in the past decade. Time to break the cycle.

Goals:
  • Enjoy being social.

    • Classic case of introverted programmer syndrome - some people don't believe me when I tell them I'm introverted. I feel like I can be charismatic at times but it feels.. fake? Just something I need to put the reps into and the mind will follow. This will bleed over to all other aspects of life which is why it's at the top.
  • Get a better job.

    • I tend to get comfortable when I'm working a job that pays me enough to survive and doesn't involve a lot of work. I don't necessarily recommend this, but I recently moved to an expensive apartment in my city downtown as a way to "motivate myself" - i.e. better find a way to make more money soon or it's time to start eating ramen. Also gives me an excuse to be more social with everything in walking distance.
  • Hit ~13% bodyfat(visible abs).

    • Playing videogames and drinking booze were my main hobbies in my 20s leading to chronic skinny-fatness. I've actually made a lot of progress toward this goal, losing 15 pounds in the past few months. I'm on track for summer abs for the first time in.. ever 8-)
  • Date 5 girls(CASUALLY THIS TIME)

    • Most(all) of my dating experience has been as a serial monogamist. I do want to settle down with a chick one day, but I need to chill the fuck out and get some abundance/experience. This is something that's always been in the back of my mind throughout my life, even during relationships.
 
I, Andrew, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey y'all I'm Andrew, I'm 25 and my main goals are to build more confidence in myself and get out of my own head, and the take better care of myself both psychically and mentally.

I've been reading a lot of the material on the site, and I look forward to continuing to push myself to be the best version of me. I look forward to gaining more confidence, going on more and better dates, and doing more cool things I've always wanted to do!
 
I, Ali, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey everybody I'm Ali, I'm 23 and my main goals are to make online dating work for me and build more confidence in myself and get out of my own head.
 
Hi I'm Dom,

and I, Dom, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

-My goal is to commit to having and sticking with goals (a real big issue for me)
-To start and finish the AA program (I'm already pretty good with girls, I just want to be able to walk up to anyone) << this one feels really scary
-To earn $5k a month in a new profession
-To post here at least 3x a week. (and to move into a 365 commitment)

Super pumped to be here- I've been lurking in the shadows for about a month and am ready to go all in!
 
Hey y'all,

I'm Dan, aka Sugartooth.

I, Dan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 28, from New York originally, but in New England for the time being.

GOALS:
- Lose 120 lbs of fat
- Build a copywriting business to a consistent $10,000/month
- Sleep with 1 new girl by the end of the year
- Reach 1 year completely sober

I've struggled with alcohol addiction for most of my 20s and it's basically made dating impossible for me. It's been about 6 years since I've dated/got laid, and I'm tired of putting off what I want to a future that will never come.

Discovering this blog has been huge for me and serves as proof that it's not too late for me, provided I put in the work. I'm ready to crush the rest of my 20s and build a life I love. Happy to be here with you fine gents.
 
I, sml987, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi everyone. I'm gonna go right into my goals.

Short-term goals:

- Do well in school
- Meet new people & make more close friends
- Stay consistent in the gym
- Improve fashion

Long-term goals:

- Build a body I like
- Lose my virginity
- Have many casual relationships
- Develop a sense of confidence that isn't dependent on how much girls like me
 
I, Rice, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

Goals:
Get laid
Improve fashion and style
Get better pictures for online dating
Talk to more girls
Make new friends
Continue fixing insecurities
Get an abundance mindset / healthier view on relationships
Gym consistently

I ultimately want to settle down in a good relationship eventually, but to get there I need to feel like I am dating a girl because I actually like her and not because she is kinda cute and accepts me. I have never really felt like I had options, being in computer science field, and not having social hobbies.
 
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