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Hey Guys,

Dan here. 24, originally from Brisbane, Aus, but been living in Germany for the last year, and will be floating around the EU for the next 8 months.

Could go on for a while, but I'll try to compress a bio in to a TLDR:
- spent entire adult life trying qualify for the Olympics in a niche sport
- began and just got out of a 3 year relationship with a German girl from said niche sport
- completed uni in a relatively well paid/in demand field, but realised I have no interest in pursuing a corporate job
- founded and manage online company selling equipment for niche sport
- built a 'side income' playing online poker.

Goals:
- transition events within niche sport and qualify for 2024 Olympics
- get in to the best shape of my life - sub 10% BF
- create a life in which I can live anywhere I want, and do things on my own time
- improve my social life, and have a wide range of experiences socially and sexually

Cheers for reading, I'm looking forward to diving in to the community.
 
I,Ajax Extreme, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Here are my goals-
1. Lose my virginity
2. Master Visualization techniques
3. Become a millionaire
4. Have sex with 200 girls
 
Whatup whatup! I'm SAS for the forums

I, SomethingAboutStars, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Basically I googled foursomes, read Andy's article, and signed up for group coaching like 2 days later.

I've done decently well for myself over the last year (crossing 6 figures in an arts-based career, working on projects of notoriety including one dream project), but felt like I wasted a lot of the year working on dead-end projects. I'd been working to make a change for the last couple of months, but everything came to a head when I started an amazing, open and honest, open relationship with the most emotionally mature woman I've ever dated... and proceeded to get way too anxious about it. We're still together and I'm upfront about it and everything, but that was the perfect tipping point for me. (and we'd talked about having threesomes and foursomes, which is how I found that article in the first place)

I'm still working out my goals (better goal setting is one of my goals), but some big picture life stuff is:

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I want 8% body fat.
I want 100,000 followers across various social media platforms, including Instagram and Twitter.
I want to have sex with someone I met on Instagram.
I want enough money to fully support several people at an upper class quality of life.
I want a sugar baby and a serious partner.
I want to pick up a girl at a bar and bring her home for sex within 5 minutes of meeting her.
i want to read a hundred good self-development books.
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I also need an accountability partner! I'm not sure where to post that yet but I'm about to do some digging.
 
Welcome

somethingaboutstars said:
I want 100,000 followers across various social media platforms, including Instagram and Twitter.
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Either delve into ads or reach out to people with bigger accounts and pay for reposts/retweets. Growing social accounts organically sounds dandy in your 20's but in your 30's (and since you have money) you can pay to play. I remember buying a few RT's back in 2019 and my Twitter grew a lot, fast. Even though I love Twitter, I hate social media so I'm no longer active there.

Have you read any growth guides, like the one from LifeMathMoney?

somethingaboutstars said:
i want to read a hundred good self-development books.
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Advice from one of my mentors: Instead of reading 100 books one time, read the best 10 books, 10 times. Here's one of his podcasts that drilled this concept in my head and made me stop, ahem, "downloading" stuff and instead paying for everything (even songs) : https://thepodcastfactory.com/bsa118/
 
Hey Forum, I'm Alex. Just moved to the city and getting a handle of the much deeper dating pool. Currently trying to get lower body fat, a better tan(MT2 up in here) and just learning better photography and posing skills. Lets fucking get after it together.

I, Alex226, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

-Go on a date once a week.
-Hit 1/2/3/4 For 5 reps a piece
-Learn better photography skills and posing and be more confident when taking them.(I get fuckin self conscious as hell if people see me taking selfies with a full dslr tripod setup)
-Learn to stop giving a fuck and approach
 
Hey all - glad to be here. I'm 18 and just started university. Had a few exclusive relationships in high school + some friends with benefits, but since starting university, I haven't been doing as well as I would like. There's a few main reasons for why I think so (i.e. a few things I'm working on):

:arrow: There's more competition - I've started going to the gym 6 days a week + I am slowly resetting my wardrobe as I learn more about style + buying what my budget allows. Going to read Radical's guide - I just found out about it.
:arrow: I didn't really talk to girls during COVID because I couldn't leave the house + I was pretty focused on work/school. I feel Iike I've lost my touch (e.g. I'm making dumb mistakes like being too forward too soon, not reading signs as well as I used to, etc). Hoping that this will just come back with more practice.
:arrow: All the girls that I've been with, I've known/talked to for a while before getting sexual with. I don't have any experience meeting people at parties and going home with them, but I am gaining experience and learning from what others do (this is what I need the most advice on I think)

Advice on the above is super, super appreciated (especially if you think I might be focusing on the wrong things). My goals are:
- Sex with 5 different girls by the end of December
- Sex with someone that I meet at a party
- Get at least one consistent FWB
- Get laid via a dating app (I've made an account - now I need to get good pictures)

And of course:
I, dropout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
"I, Noself, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

About me:
-I’m 23 years old from Dover, DE, USA currently working in USAF.
-Studying to become an artist
-Meditate daily

Short term goals
-Build a better Tinder profile
-10 lays in a year
-Run everyday/study running technique everyday
-Finish the Approach Anxiety Program(on Day 23)
-Cold Approach 1000 girls in one year
 
Hi, my name is Mihailo, I am from Serbia, small country in the Balkans, southern Europe (you might know it for Nikola Tesla or Novak Djokovic), but you can call me Mike, since that is the English version of my name.

I am 22 years old and I have many goals.
I want to become the best medical doctor I can be and make the world a better place.
My main other hobbys are archery ( shooting with bow and arrow), hiking, spending time in nature, climbing mountains and I also want to write a great medieval fantasy novel one day (I have already started) that even Tolkien would be proud of.

I also want to start going to the gym and build a perfect body (I am pretty slim right now), and I want to get my dream girlfriend for a long term relationship.
I don't want to have many girlfriends, just one for life if possible, and have many children with her, but she has to be very special. If possible my dream phyiscal and mental type at the same time.
We would live in the nature, in small village somewhere, far from the crowded cities, I would have a natural healing resort as a good medical doctor there, we would have 4-5 kids and plenty of dogs, cats, horses, other animals, lot of plants too.
That would be my dream life.

All of this sounds great and wonderful, but I have many insecurities which I would like to overcome. But as I said in my motto, being positive and productive are my two main driving forces.
There Andy, hopefully you like my introduction, I should be posting a profile photo as soon as I figure out how, since I am not very good with cellphone and cyber tech (another goal is to get better there too, since the future seems nearly impossible without properly using tech).
 
I, StanleyYelnats, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

How's it going KYIL users? I'm Stan, age 23.

Currently, I'm a virgin that has never had a girlfriend and I'm going to change that. I was always told that "you don't have to worry about it and it will happen when it happens", but I'm tired of pretending that I'm okay with that! I have had some serious self-esteem issues since puberty (horrible acne that ruined my self-image) that I have been working on and will continue to work on. I'll probably start making some threads to go more into depth with my fitness goals and online dating photos (hopefully posting about it on here will give me more motivation to make it happen consistently).

My goals are:
- Lose my Virginity (The big goal, basically the one that keeps me up at night, wallowing in self-pity)
- Improve my tinder/dating app game. Get better at taking higher quality photos with my new camera.
- Continue Improving style. Buying things on occasion that I think will complete an outfit or make a new look. (Still new to this, but I'm better than I used to be)
- Start Reading Self Improvement Books (I have just ordered "You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought")
- Post here regularly
- Continue to gain strength and size in the gym. (Probably going to buy a workout plan to really keep myself honest)
- Finish my cut and get down to a 6-pack. (I've been lifting for 2+ years now, currently at a "4 pack") (Hopefully 3 months away, will continue until I get there)
- Continue on nofap/noporn. Today is day 50!
- Continue my skin care regimen to keep my acne in check (Turns out, it was mostly a dietary issue) (simpleskincarescience was the site that helped me most, highly recommended)
-Meet new people from meetup.com (I joined a couple of groups that seem promising, this is mostly just to get more comfortable speaking to strangers)

Things I've accomplished recently (Making notes of these to remind myself that I'm not hopeless):
-Graduated with a 4.0 in College
-Got a simple job that pays well enough
-Made a habit out of lifting (Can't imagine not going anymore)
-Maintained a great set of friends for many years
-Bought a nice camera (Canon M50 Mark II) to improve my photos. (actually got my friends to split the cost and we're doing a joint custody thing)

Excited to hear from other like minded people!
 
I want to be total and complete player, not just one that relies on his looks and persistence to close.

I am giving myself one year to do this.

I will be writing daily field reports, analyzing my weaknesses, and hoping to improve with each passing day.
I will be favoring cold approach and the uncertainty of in-person seduction over the familiar comfort of Tinder.
I will be moving to New York City in April to accelerate my learning.

On November 1, 2022, I will check in and re-evaluate my progress.

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My current lifetime stats as of this post:

Daygame:
1510 approaches
356 numbers
24 dates
11 instadates
4 lays

Batting average: 1 lay per 378 approaches

Nightgame:
~100 nights out
4 pulls (2 couldn’t get hard, 1 LMR, 1 lay)

Batting average: 1 lay per 100 nights out

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My goals for November 2022:

Daygame: 1 lay per 100 approaches, minimum rating 6.5
Nightgame: 1 lay per 20 nights out, minimum rating 6.5

_

I, pancakemouse, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hey everyone, I am SacredScout from Germany and I am 22 years old. I am process-oriented and will not even mention past results or outcomes; because I believe that the focus should be solely on the process. I am here to get a better person in *all areas of life*, not just in dating.

My Goals:

- Never ever PMO again (trying t o quit forever since 2016)
- Get laid a lot
- hit the gym every day
- Improve myself as much as possible
- Maximize my style as much as possible
- Get on with my psychology studies properly; do not procrastinate around.
- Be happy and not depend on others for my happiness.

I, SacredScout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
SacredScout said:
Hey everyone, I am SacredScout from Germany and I am 22 years old. I am process-oriented and will not even mention past results or outcomes; because I believe that the focus should be solely on the process. I am here to get a better person in *all areas of life*, not just in dating.

My Goals:

- Never ever PMO again (trying t o quit forever since 2016)
- Get laid a lot
- hit the gym every day
- Improve myself as much as possible
- Maximize my style as much as possible
- Get on with my psychology studies properly; do not procrastinate around.
- Be happy and not depend on others for my happiness.

I, SacredScout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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hell yeah, welcome dude. looking forward to your log
 
SacredScout said:
Hey everyone, I am SacredScout from Germany and I am 22 years old. I am process-oriented and will not even mention past results or outcomes; because I believe that the focus should be solely on the process. I am here to get a better person in *all areas of life*, not just in dating.

My Goals:

- Never ever PMO again (trying t o quit forever since 2016)
- Get laid a lot
- hit the gym every day
- Improve myself as much as possible
- Maximize my style as much as possible
- Get on with my psychology studies properly; do not procrastinate around.
- Be happy and not depend on others for my happiness.

I, SacredScout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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WELCOME BROTHER
 
SacredScout Like Colgate mentioned, start a log. It will get you on track for your goals
 
What's up everyone.

"I, Spanish Tortilla, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm a 23 guy from Spain that's trying to become a network technician and be serious about fixing my sex life. Until now I've gone through all self-improvement gurus on the internet without applying to the fullest their advice: I was big on red pill during a time, black pill (that almost turn me hopeless), all kinds of pick up artists until the day that I discover GLL (Chris site). That changed my life, now I think I have under control my style and looks, I dress as sexy as possible and hit the gym 4-5 days a week.

My biggest problem is that I don't get myself to cold approach, I've done it 2, one with a really cute girl in the gym and the other time with a chick that I encounter while I was working. But when I try to do it in the middle of the day while being in the street my body freezes.

I have joined the forum to start being accountable with someone and be around people with the same
goals and mentality. I'm sorry in advance if something isn't clear enough, English isn't my first language.

Short term goals:
-Set a God-level online dating profile with good pictures
-Losing my fear of cold approach

Long term goals:
-Fix my sex life
-Get buffer, I'm currently 75Kg and 183cm
-Finish my studies and work abroad
-Become a player
 
Hey Bros,

Here am I :) I'm 22yo soon to be engineer in 6 month.

I just went of a 4y relation with my ex-gf, she let me down really heart broken. Also she was kinda (physically) my dream girl, so i'm very afraid of not finding such a beauty again.

I actually don't care that much getting laid A LOT, i'm willing to do it only to gain experience, confidence, and find the right girl (if such things exist)

BIG Goals :

- Find a valuable girl ( Pretty, Smart, willing to raise Children with), ideally she has to be same heigh as me (5'5) or taller, so next generation won't get my smaller size issues lol

- Getting more muscles bc i've embrassed the gym path

- Be financially free as soon as possible

Smaller Goals (to attain the big one):

-Upgrade my tinder game

-Lose a lil bit of fat without losing my hard gained muscles

-Do some cold approach

Before ending this message, I've got to mention something : Thanks andy from the bottom of my heart, with your vids and posts on the r/TRP, you saved me from a really deep hole.
 
KillYourInnerLoser said:
On another note, the red pill reddit just banned me yesterday for "spamming my YouTube channel", so that'll be the last time I post there unfortunately.
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dude that blows that’s how I found out about you. At this point Reddit has gone to such shit consider it an honor. I had my account banned from r/funny for spamming my channel even though I followed their letter to the T. They said I wasn’t following the spirit of the rule.
 
Hey everyone!

Love the site and the forum! I used to be a member of GLL from the very beginning and happy to see this place as a very worthy successor!

My major goal right now is fitness. I’m 5’10 or 5’11 and 178lbs. Not sure what my body fat is but you can just barely kinda see my top abs in good lighting. I look in better shape than what I am when wearing slim fit shirts.

My goal is 180lbs at around 12% body fat or so.

I, warped mindless, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Look forward to chatting with you all!
 
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