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STOP BEING ALONE – it’s what’s keeping you back

STOP BEING ALONE – it’s what’s keeping you back

Yes I’m talking to you. Yes, you. How do I know?

Because almost all guys who get into dating forums are lonely. Not only in terms of women, but usually in general. Brutal, sad, but true.

Why?

If you had a big social circle, if you had cool friends with good social skills or if you had a big brother who you were close with and showed you how to to this, then you would have probably never stumbled across this forum. Because you would somehow have found a solid girlfriend, would have led a good relationship with her and never gone down this rabbit hole.

But you didn’t have that social environment.

And that’s why you’re here.

This forum is a great place, don’t get me wrong. Loaded with men who are hustling on their goals and who give solid advice. But it’s just not the real thing.

There is only so much you can learn from online advice. It’s not like seeing a guy in real life do the work and showing you how.

There is only so much you can get feedback from online people on your appearance. People here can rate your pics, but they can’t rate what you look like in everyday life, how you use your mouth, how you gesture, how you hold your posture.

And most importantly, there is only so much online people can motivate you. They aren’t really there to pick you up when shit goes south. They aren’t really there to give you a hug when you need it. They are not really there to push you that first step. They are not there to pat you on your back when you succeed and give your self esteem the continuous improvment.

Until today you thought that being alone is simply the way the world works for you. It is who you are.

You’re lonely and this forum is the best thing you have found so far to help you with your goals. You never really considered that there is an alternative.


Gamechanger

But that’s not true anymore. You don’t have to be alone. We are building a real life community right now and you can become part of it. It is your chance to really change your life's trajectory.

You think you don’t need this? You are LYING to yourself

Research shows that people who live with 4-5 others are the happiest. You are probably living on your own or in a shared flat with strangers you don’t socialize with.

Human beings are social animals.

YOU spend the vast majority of your free time ALONE.

Fucking think about that for a moment please before you continue reading. STOP. Think.

Do you want to live like this?

If you think that this is an acceptable state of existence, I gotta give you some straight news mate. YOU. ARE. COPING. You have no idea how happy you could be. You have no idea how good you could be at achieving your goals. And you refuse to accept the thought that there is a much better life waiting for you so you don’t have to get up and change something big.

Find or build a community for yourself. It’s what is holding you back.

We are building one right now and we have two open spots. You are invited to join. This post about the House of Brothers has all the details.

We’re looking forward to your message
 
Great post. Everything I'm hearing indicates that you're making an amazing place, and your points about community are 100% correct. I'd sign on in a second if there weren't 8 different things keeping me tied to another continent.
 
All the guys debating getting a coach or lamenting their lack of progress would change their lives overnight if they found 2-3 other guys from this place and got an apartment or airbnb together for a few months and just be immersed 24/7. I never thought of it early, but if I somehow had to startover it is what I would do.
 
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