Thrice said:
they are disgusting, you know those type ofguys, they do the same and insult evrybody on their forums, they're jokes are always racist too. You can also notice they never show their faces, so they are troll. I admire for having the balls to show your face from day one and still not ashamed of putting on social media your journey. They unfallow because they felt some negative emotions, man woman are so nasty, the part of me that used to love and respect woman died years ago for this exact reason. I used to be fat too and noticed the difference in treatment too, i approached young girls and got numbers from club, than i remembered how they used to treat me when i was fat and just blocked them without asking for a date. I agree thats trauma that makes snap and it's nt very studied because society dont really care about man.
Thank you brother, i will keep pushing i promise, i'm one those guys,people come and go and i'm always here after many years. no plan b and burned the bridges years ago. Nowhere to go actually.I love you brother and feel your pain, we will make it
Thank god when i have a mental breakdown dosent last much, i also noticed that benzos really work to calm myself down immediatly, i know that stuff is bad but it really work. Letting the angry brain activity shorten your life is bad also, perhaps way more than benzos
Yeah they are idiots tbh, it doesn't even register to me though, remember, the forum here is totally mixed. White, black, Asian, brown. No one gives 2 fucks. They just value hard work. Most of my mentors and advisors, who got me to where I am today, look different from me. Pancake, The Dom, and Rags are white. Well, Pancake is technically brown. But the point still stands. Dante, is brown, sure. Timmy Turner, was black, and he was the one who took a MASSIVE gamble on my autistic ass and let me move in with him.
Andy and Radical, opened so many doors for me in my life, it's insane. They insisted that I was worthy, that I had value, and they demanded that I be able to succeed in life also. They did a lot for me.
Scotty, if you know who that is - he is the reason GLL exists, has proven to be an incredible ally to me. He has opened doors for me, and he backs me, believes in me, and wants to see me have epic abundance. He is a very, very great dude. For instance, he welcomed me to come on the RxMuscle show with him, man, all these little things, add up, and build your brand and image. We're going on some other big shows soon, also. Without Scotty, do you think I would be allowed in these rooms? No. He, is a man of true integrity - "my biz partner is with me, and unless he can come on too, I won't". That, is a true bro.
Men who are of substance, do not care, We value hard work. You only need a few solid men in your corner in this life to fucking slay. I show my face and am open with the whole world that I am a self improvement guy, and I cold approach. I will always stand firm to my beliefs and will apologise to no one for trying to find a quality woman to start a family with. Period.
Fortunately for you, you have us at Winner Within, we have your back.
Yeah, you are even spotting how you are having trauma responses. I now know, you are definitely healing. This was how it was for me and in my log.
This stuff, has probably left deep scars, like it did for me, I can't promise you they go away, but I can promise you, that the pain does subside a lot, and you find more healing and love for humanity. I still have, a tonne of love, for people, animals, nature. All that. You will find, in your core, you were never a hateful and hurt person at all. You just got wounded. And when that wound starts to recover, you will see, that you are just a person like everyone else.
Dating, and women, in today's market, is definitely a very sticky situation. Where you are now, tbh, is just self sabotage. Sorry man. But you will overcome this roadblock.
You will start learning text game, and convert so many more of these leads.
I have to be persistent AF to get dates. I am a true bonafide hustler and though I have less than 1% of your matches, because I am a very, very hard man, I am able to push those small number of leads into dates (~200 dates so far) and lays.
So, there is no evidence to suggest you will not be able to do the same.
This, can take a while to nail down. Just to get my first fucking matches, took 6 months of grinding. Not for a date or a lay. A match. I whined a little, but I worked my butt off, and stayed with it.
This persistence has produced outcomes.
I share this, to allow you to work on your own underlying thinking, and ingrain some better persistence and consistency.
Your blocks and self sabotage behaviours, you actually understand. You will, hence, start to heal. I know, because I had these. In my own case, they took a long, long time to start to weaken.
Just being honest.
Thanks for the kind words brother, all things that are worthwhile in life, bring challenges.
The guy who will succeed, is the guy with true pain tolerance.
Believe it or not, people with tough backgrounds, have some advantages in this game of success. They are strong and resilient. I have seen so many men, just quit. This is an action oriented forum, and I have seen, very few have true fortitude. Most, get some results and outcomes, and just stop pushing themselves. Fold into comfort.
It is possible to take another avenue, the warriors path, where the training of darkness, actually becomes a great strength.........
-Ravi
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