Thrice log. weird saturday night

[colgate / bulldog]

can we stop having reddit-tier arguments about random ideology on people's progress logs. this thread is about thrice.

psmasher go figure out your goals so it's not embarrassingly "unsure", make a progress log, and you can discuss whatever you want there

 

[MakingAComeback]

Master Andy checking in with some insightful thoughts. I hear you legend, and I think we can respect it but I feel bad right now for derailing this thread.

It is our mission to help Thrice enjoy a woman. We are determined to see him succeed and its time for baby steps.

I agree with The Brown Shogun: our boy needs our full attention and lets focus on him.

I apologise if I derailed the discussion, this was in part my fault, and I am sorry for that.

LETS GO MOHAMMAD

Ravi

 

[Thrice]

@Thrice, I dare you to create a profile with just this photo to prove to yourself that you are attractive enough to be having sex with women right now. Because I guarantee you will get matches.

i did it and got zero matches

thank you guys for the advice, i had to deal with some anxiety so i didn't update, also it's raining here and always cloudy so i didn't practice photography, i'm thinking of practicing in parking lots

next week i will have the money for some clothes

 

[pancakemouse]

@Thrice, I dare you to create a profile with just this photo to prove to yourself that you are attractive enough to be having sex with women right now. Because I guarantee you will get matches.

i did it and got zero matches

thank you guys for the advice, i had to deal with some anxiety so i didn't update, also it's raining here and always cloudy so i didn't practice photography, i'm thinking of practicing in parking lots

next week i will have the money for some clothes

Zero matches in what period of time? How many swipes? Which app, Tinder?

Make sure to put your name as Mo instead of Mohamed.

Clouds are optimal for photography because they provide diffuse light: https://www.howtogeek.com/738438/why-do-photographers-say-cloudy-days-are-the-best-for-photography/

 

[Thrice]

i did it and got zero matches

thank you guys for the advice, i had to deal with some anxiety so i didn't update, also it's raining here and always cloudy so i didn't practice photography, i'm thinking of practicing in parking lots

next week i will have the money for some clothes

Zero matches in what period of time? How many swipes? Which app, Tinder?

Make sure to put your name as Mo instead of Mohamed.

Clouds are optimal for photography because they provide diffuse light: https://www.howtogeek.com/738438/why-do-photographers-say-cloudy-days-are-the-best-for-photography/

i swiped for like 40 mintutes until tilder started showing girls farther away than what i set, i even saw different girls that know me, they are all online, i live here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parma so it dosent take much...i could wait for new girls to be in the rage i set and start swiping again but i don't to do it for now

i will practice when it's cloudy as long as it doesen't rain, i have to protect the camera, also thinking about parking lots like this guy does

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qam2hn6Jdpk&t=200s

 

[pancakemouse]

Zero matches in what period of time? How many swipes? Which app, Tinder?

Make sure to put your name as Mo instead of Mohamed.

Clouds are optimal for photography because they provide diffuse light: https://www.howtogeek.com/738438/why-do-photographers-say-cloudy-days-are-the-best-for-photography/

i swiped for like 40 mintutes until tilder started showing girls farther away than what i set, i even saw different girls that know me, they are all online, i live here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parma so it dosent take much...i could wait for new girls to be in the rage i set and start swiping again but i don't to do it for now

i will practice when it's cloudy as long as it doesen't rain, i have to protect the camera, also thinking about parking lots like this guy does

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qam2hn6Jdpk&t=200s

What percentage of girls are you swiping left or right on? Anything else strange about your profile?
When was this? Give it a few days.

 

[Squilliam]

Give it a few days.

Shouldn't he be getting at least a few likes due to the noob boost? I feel like not getting any likes on the first day is a red flag.

I agree that he needs to give it more time though before being certain that he is not getting any results.

Then again, I live in a huge city and I only have like 22 matches and 3 numbers after a few days. Plus a bunch I unmatched after carelessly swiping, so I imagine if Thrice is in a smaller city then there is a lot less volume on Tinder. This is with a bunch of boosting too.

Thrice, is this with free Tinder? Tinder Platinum is kind of a necessity nowadays, because the priority likes from other guys will sink your profile.

 

[Thrice]

What percentage of girls are you swiping left or right on? Anything else strange about your profile?
When was this? Give it a few days.

It was in the evening, about 3/4 hours ago, i swiped on every girl and they were all online(almost) and only got 3 matches with little princesses about 5 in looks that didn't even reply so i unmatched

Thrice, is this with free Tinder? Tinder Platinum is kind of a necessity nowadays, because the priority likes from other guys will sink your profile.

Yes bought platinum

 

[pancakemouse]

What percentage of girls are you swiping left or right on? Anything else strange about your profile?
When was this? Give it a few days.

It was in the evening, about 3/4 hours ago, i swiped on every girl and they were all online(almost) and only got 3 matches with little princesses about 5 in looks that didn't even reply so i unmatched

Thrice, is this with free Tinder? Tinder Platinum is kind of a necessity nowadays, because the priority likes from other guys will sink your profile.

Yes bought platinum

If you swipe on every girl, your account will be penalized. Don't do that.

Even so, with a profile that probably looks fake with one photo on it, it sounds like you did get some matches on the very first evening. I'd call that a win for now. Even if girls are online, you don't show up in their "liked you" queue right away.

 

[Thrice]

Even so, with a profile that probably looks fake with one photo on it, it sounds like you did get some matches on the very first evening.

Maybe, i think they bother looking if the profile has other pictures only if they like the first

I matched like 2 4's and 2 trans

i found woman disgusting to be honest but i bought a 1k camera so I'll keep doing this to see what happens, thank you for your advice

Edit:

This is the only girl replying for now, not really my type but asked her out and she said yes, problem is i only have this shitty jacket you see in my tinder pictures, i wanted to buy a cooler jacket from zara but i finished the money fpr this week, what do you think? I can use the other jeans jacket, i will frease but it's better than this one at least

 

[klondike]

Maybe, i think they bother looking if the profile has other pictures only if they like the first

I matched like 2 4's and 2 trans

Read some of the logs here--nobody went from zero to hero overnight, it took time, effort, and patience. If you're getting more matches than you did before, it counts as a win.

 

[pancakemouse]

Even so, with a profile that probably looks fake with one photo on it, it sounds like you did get some matches on the very first evening.

Edit:

This is the only girl replying for now, not really my type but asked her out and she said yes, problem is i only have this shitty jacket you see in my tinder pictures, i wanted to buy a cooler jacket from zara but i finished the money fpr this week, what do you think? I can use the other jeans jacket, i will frease but it's better than this one at least

molta simpatica la ragazza!

How about the jean jacket and the Decathlon jacket over it? Clothing doesn't really matter too much once you get to a date from an app, it's more about your behavior at that point, being confident, leading, etc.

 

[MakingAComeback]

Even so, with a profile that probably looks fake with one photo on it, it sounds like you did get some matches on the very first evening.

Maybe, i think they bother looking if the profile has other pictures only if they like the first

I matched like 2 4's and 2 trans

i found woman disgusting to be honest but i bought a 1k camera so I'll keep doing this to see what happens, thank you for your advice

Edit:

This is the only girl replying for now, not really my type but asked her out and she said yes, problem is i only have this shitty jacket you see in my tinder pictures, i wanted to buy a cooler jacket from zara but i finished the money fpr this week, what do you think? I can use the other jeans jacket, i will frease but it's better than this one at least

FUCK YEAHHHHHHHHHHH HAHAHHA

Dude do you know it took me like 4-5 months here just to get a date? LOL

WELL DONE

FUCK

 

[kratjeuh]

Even so, with a profile that probably looks fake with one photo on it, it sounds like you did get some matches on the very first evening.

Maybe, i think they bother looking if the profile has other pictures only if they like the first

I matched like 2 4's and 2 trans

i found woman disgusting to be honest but i bought a 1k camera so I'll keep doing this to see what happens, thank you for your advice

Edit:

This is the only girl replying for now, not really my type but asked her out and she said yes, problem is i only have this shitty jacket you see in my tinder pictures, i wanted to buy a cooler jacket from zara but i finished the money fpr this week, what do you think? I can use the other jeans jacket, i will frease but it's better than this one at least

I have my most success on dates when I dress casually. Nice fitted tshirt with jeans and good sneakers.

Funnily I’ve been rejected every time I wore a shirt or something more fancy. It’s like girls don’t want to have a feeling that I tried to look good for them.

 

[Thrice]

Asked for tomorrow, she said she's busy this week, just one robotic phrase, without adding nothing else.
At 21 years old she must be very busy saving the world, strangely they're never busy for chad and want to meet him same day.

I guess i'm supposed to chase after a 5, and maybe even teach her how to speak ... Not gonna happen, i unmatched.

I will keep improving my photography skills and improve my style and see what happens.

 

[Thrice]

So another girl agreed to meet, she said tomorrow, she's also giving me indirect compliments, the only problem is that she's 32 and looks like she hit the wall face first and i still don't have a decent jacket but i want to do this "experience"

I have my most success on dates when I dress casually. Nice fitted tshirt with jeans and good sneakers

Agree! That's why i was thinking of a simple black jacket like this, the jacket i have now is more for work, very worn out

Dude do you know it took me like 4-5 months here just to get a date? LOL

5 months of swiping? Fucking hell man, and even when you match they have to "punish" you for beign not attractive enough talking like fucking robots... Not sure if my brain is ready for this

 

[Thrice]

Dude do you know it took me like 4-5 months here just to get a date? LOL

5 months of swiping? Fucking hell man, and even when you match they have to "punish" you for beign not attractive enough talking like fucking robots... Not sure if my brain is ready for this

 

[Squilliam]

5 months of swiping? Fucking hell man, and even when you match they have to "punish" you for beign not attractive enough talking like fucking robots... Not sure if my brain is ready for this

Yep, you need a strong mindset. Most guys on online dating are expendable to women.

Inevitably, you're going to deal with girls who are unresponsive, girls who mock you, girls who fake their location, girls who pretend to be interested until a few hours before the date, etc. Really just tons of scenarios where girls disrespect you and/or your time. Sometimes I just need to take a break because the anger within me can be too much to bear.

I can relate though, sucks when it feels like you have to chase after girls you barely even like in the first place.

Go on the date if you have some level of attraction to her. If you wouldn't want to do anything physical with her, then I wouldn't go personally. I mean, I suppose you need experience, but it's kind of a waste of time (hers, and yours) if you already think she's unattractive.

 

[natedawg]

So another girl agreed to meet, she said tomorrow, she's also giving me indirect compliments, the only problem is that she's 32 and looks like she hit the wall face first and i still don't have a decent jacket but i want to do this "experience"

First off - Congrats, man! You're going to crush it.

Second - Just to help protect your confidence, try to view the women in a more positive context even if they're not your ideal. I say that because it's a quick way to feel bad about yourself, especially if things don't go well.

Excited to see how these dates go man. Keep us posted!

 

[Thrice]

She asked for ig and i don't have one, she has only one pic but still at least she has an ig and i don't, this another problem i have to solve, without ig they sense you're a weirdo without friends