Update House of Brothers: Moved in, massive action, 4 people announced visits

[CainGettingLaid]

STOP BEING ALONE – it’s what’s keeping you back

Yes I’m talking to you. Yes, you. How do I know?

Because almost all guys who get into dating forums are lonely. Not only in terms of women, but usually in general. Brutal, sad, but true.

Why?

If you had a big social circle, if you had cool friends with good social skills or if you had a big brother who you were close with and showed you how to to this, then you would have probably never stumbled across this forum. Because you would somehow have found a solid girlfriend, would have led a good relationship with her and never gone down this rabbit hole.

But you didn’t have that social environment.

And that’s why you’re here.

This forum is a great place, don’t get me wrong. Loaded with men who are hustling on their goals and who give solid advice. But it’s just not the real thing.

There is only so much you can learn from online advice. It’s not like seeing a guy in real life do the work and showing you how.

There is only so much you can get feedback from online people on your appearance. People here can rate your pics, but they can’t rate what you look like in everyday life, how you use your mouth, how you gesture, how you hold your posture.

And most importantly, there is only so much online people can motivate you. They aren’t really there to pick you up when shit goes south. They aren’t really there to give you a hug when you need it. They are not really there to push you that first step. They are not there to pat you on your back when you succeed and give your self esteem the continuous improvment.

Until today you thought that being alone is simply the way the world works for you. It is who you are.

You’re lonely and this forum is the best thing you have found so far to help you with your goals. You never really considered that there is an alternative.

Gamechanger​

But that’s not true anymore. You don’t have to be alone. We are building a real life community right now and you can become part of it. It is your chance to really change your life's trajectory.

You think you don’t need this? You are LYING to yourself

Research shows that people who live with 4-5 others are the happiest. You are probably living on your own or in a shared flat with strangers you don’t socialize with.

Human beings are social animals.

YOU spend the vast majority of your free time ALONE.

Fucking think about that for a moment please before you continue reading. STOP. Think.

Do you want to live like this?

If you think that this is an acceptable state of existence, I gotta give you some straight news mate. YOU. ARE. COPING. You have no idea how happy you could be. You have no idea how good you could be at achieving your goals. And you refuse to accept the thought that there is a much better life waiting for you so you don’t have to get up and change something big.

Find or build a community for yourself. It’s what is holding you back.

We are building one right now and we have two open spots. You are invited to join. This post about the House of Brothers has all the details.

We’re looking forward to your message

 

[Svadhishthana]

Great post. Everything I'm hearing indicates that you're making an amazing place, and your points about community are 100% correct. I'd sign on in a second if there weren't 8 different things keeping me tied to another continent.

 

[Zug]

All the guys debating getting a coach or lamenting their lack of progress would change their lives overnight if they found 2-3 other guys from this place and got an apartment or airbnb together for a few months and just be immersed 24/7. I never thought of it early, but if I somehow had to startover it is what I would do.

 

[CainGettingLaid]

Update House of Brothers: Moved in, massive action, 4 people announced visits

Massive action

T. and I spent three full days on moving our stuff and fully equipping the place with furniture for four people.
Besides the stuff we already owned, we bought (incomplete list)

• A kitchen with oven, dish washer, two fridges
• Washing machine
• A huge leather couch for the living room
• Another couch
• A solid wood table and chairs for the living room
• Kitchen table and chairs
• 3 queen size beds
• 5 wardrobes
• 5 shelves and dressers
• 3 desks and office chairs
• lamps

Basically, the place is fully equipped, we are now working in putting everything in the right spot.

The action was MASSIVE, we were riding around non-stop for three days with a sprinter van, picking up furniture. I still got a leftover muscle ache. Gained even more respect for T., who is less muscular then me but pulled through the entire three days and showed great endurance. We didn't remember to take pics of everything we moved, just a small selection here:



The place

It is amazing with 4 private rooms, a bathroom, a separate restroom, a kitchen and a large living room, separate rooms for storage and drying clothes. It has high ceilings, wooden floor, it's well-lit, has a balcony and a huge garden for barbecues.

It's located near local transport to the center, within walking distance to the teachers campus (mainly chicks studying there), of course grocery shopping nearby, a cafe with couches on a rooftop terrace that is in 4 min walking distance and which is perfect for dates.

When we have put everything in the right spot, we'll share pics of the living room and the available rooms.


Visitors

Interest on the project is solid, as four people have announced their visit and I'll be happy to have them

Pure visits

• @Lord Rey will come from Switzerland with his girlfriend for a weekend visit in May
• @coffeetable will fly over from the United States to visit us for a week in summer

Mid-duration stay

• @Holden will come and stay for 2-3 months in July-September. He might briefly visit sooner beforehand, but since he already visited for a week and we got to know each other, the green light is already there. He will use the time to get super focused and create an additional product for his online business that will give him a new passive income stream and he'll get some lays on the side

Potential mid-duration stay

• @Chamele0n from Sweden will visit for a week in May. An unlimited stay isn't possible for him because his family relies upon him heavily. It's not yet clear whether he can get other family members to fill in so he can carve out a few months to focus on himself and join for that time. If he can, he will use the time to focus hardcore on his main priorities health and getting laid

We are ideally looking for people to join us for longer periods of time, but as long as not all the spots are filled, medium term stays like the two above are also welcome. Pure visitors are always welcome, we are happy to meet new cool people, take action together, see new perspectives and learn something from each other.

Check out THIS POST to understand what this project is about and reach out if you are interested

Action steps done:

• finalized my goals, which I'll share in my personal log
• bought boxes
• packed all my stuff in boxes
• blocked the strip in front of my place so the rental sprinter van has space to park
• signed the electricity contract
• had the first call with the coach
• arranged around a dozen deals for furniture
• contacted the last few furniture sellers
• picked up the rental truck
• drive to Munich, pick up T. and his stuff, and drive back
• moved my stuff
• moved the kitchen
• pick up all the furniture, washing machine, lamps etc.

Action soon:

• put all the furniture in the right place
• keep posting here and elsewhere to inspire men to join
• set up regular meetings with the brothers
• go hard on my own goals
• support the brothers in achieving their goals
• host visitors
• much, much more!!

Lets goooo, ACTION

 

[wave]

Go Cain!