SUP GENTLEMEN!
In London, got in at like 4am last night, feeling good, still did my morning practices of sungazing and earthing, walking around a park in bare feet for 30 mins lol. It was early but also no one cared. I am meeting a guy at 12pm to do some approaches with him!
So, last night was solid. Met @TimmyTurner, who is a great dude, Londoner by roots Columbian by heart as I would go on to find. We met at around 830pm and got to work right away.
Venue #1
1. Talk to two girls at the bar, one is super nice, one is just very uncomfortable lol. I move on (2)
2. Same as above, talked to 2 chicks sat at a table, and we end up having a great time. We chat, and then Timmy and I take them on a speed date! We are with the girls for 5 mins, and then swap, and we quiz them, tell them about ourselves, it was very fun and they had a good time also. They had to leave but we all had fun. (4)
4. Approaches 4 more women, outside at bar, bantered back and forth and had a good laugh – they were bantering with me about my sales skills and it was great. Some guys were watching, we talked to them after, and they said some great stuff about my pitching skills LOL They said, mate we were watching your approach there and it was absolutely solid, but for you to develop your sales skills, you need to learn to listen. He dropped a pearl of wisdom, dude was cool. (8)
Venue #2
5. Just approach a girl, go for a high five, shes unreceptive (9)
6. Smoking area, talk to a lady for a while, ask if she’s single, ask for her number, she was chatting and was nice, but she said sorry no. I was cool with it but def felt a bit weird because we were having a good convo. (10)
7. Talked to 2 girls sat at a table, Timmy talked to one I talked to the other. We had a decent chat, she was not really receptive, but I asked for her no and she gave it to me! I was happy after the low of 5 mins before. However, the chick was making out with a different dude every time we saw her on the dancefloor so I just deleted her no lol. (11)
8. Opened three girls, on the dance floor, unreceptive (12)
11. Just complimented a nice girl on her hat, she was cool, but I think she was gay she was with another lady and they were dancing quite intimate (13)
12. Approached a group of really pretty girls, saw a really gorgeous Indian girl, approached her: “Hey, how are you, nice to meet you I’m MAC”, she got MAD! “WE’RE HAVING A GIRLS NIGHT!”, I didn’t flinch at all, with age comes confidence, I just said “Oh OK, cool, enjoy!” and then she like instantly calmed down. She then said “You can’t talk to me, but you can talk to this beautiful lady” and pointed to her friend, who was looking quite nervous, but to be honest this Indian girl was so pretty I just wanted to talk to her. So, I tried introducing myself again, and this time she was a clear that she didn’t want to talk, so I wished her a good night and she said the same to me. (14)
13. Approached another, just for fun, she was nice. (15)
14. Approach 2 pretty girls from Glasgow, they’re nice, chatting, and I choose one to go for – we chat for a while, she tells me she is gay, and with her girlfriend, we chat more and I tell her have a great night. (16)
15. Approach some girls in the smoking area, chat briefly (17)
16. Approach another girl in the smoking area, then talk to some guys for a while (18)
17. High five a chick (17)
18. Smoking area, talked to 2 absolutely stunning women from Ireland, one tried to recruit me as a Project Manager, she is a recruiter and was interested in seeing if she could get me into Pharma or Tech as a PM. I laughed it off, but she did say from my presence and comms style it was very clear I am a PM LOL. They were awesome and also very stunning women. (18)
19. Approached a nice Indian girl, put my hand out for her to grab, she smiled and walked off (19)
20. Same thing again, ballsy approach, I made her shake my hand, her friend cock blocked lol (20)
21. Approached a few in the smoking area was fun (21)
22. Approached a girl from earlier, basically she was nice but then went to the bar. She was so gorgeous, she had the prettiest face, just the sort of structure of it lol. So, I asked for her number and she gave it to me. However she didn’t put her last name in, and it shows up as not being in WhatsApp - fake number I think lol. Still texted her because she was so pretty, but yeah won’t expect a response
VENUE #3
We leave at 2am. We went to a Reggeaton night, which was PACKED, 3 floors of madness, and, basically Timmy resurrected himself the second he heard the beats and just became a beacon of energy. I worked hard approaching all the night before and at this stage just got tired and leave at 330am.
I don’t actually like venues like this, where there are so many people, so close to each other, it’s like a rave – I hate approaching there as you can’t talk at all. I got tired and left at 330 like I said.
Got home at about 420/430am. Hit the pillow knowing I did my best and wow I socialised and talked to soooo many people and we had fun.
Now, just hanging out, will go do some daytime approaches and see how that goes…..
I woke up feeling a little negative, thinking, fuck man the ladies were not really feeling me in truth. I HAVE to lose my weight because right now, they are not attracted to me and I am not passing the looks threshold. Then, I caught myself, and am seriously focused on stopping any negativity. I said to myself, dude you worked your ass off and approached all night, you are not allowed to feel bad about yourself. Just keep grinding. The future WILL be amazing. I was laying in bed watching the ceiling fan, listening to some cool music thinking, my god wouldn’t it be soo good to have a nice lady laying in bed with me listening to this, with her head on my chest, I would love that. The truth is, that can happen for me, but as Andy tends to say to me, I WILL HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.
Keep hammering,
MAC
