Sisyphus
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- Nov 26, 2020
MakingAComeback You shouldn't read that book, or any books for that matter. What you need is to get some coaching/feedback on your vibe dude. Sorry if this sounds too harsh but nothing that you try in game is going to work unless you have a good vibe first.
Idk what Dante or Scotty told you, but either they aren't giving you enough feedback or you aren't applying what they told you. Applying coaching advice is 100000 times more important than reading books.
Maybe you aren't receiving enough feedback. Maybe people don't want to offend or hurt you. Or they simply don't want to spend energy in you. Even if they are getting paid, coaching is a lot of times a pain in the ass and you probably know this as a coach yourself. Or maybe they are just kinda used to you being you. Your friends sort of ignore your quirks and are like "Oh that's just Ravi" (it's not just you btw, I also needed to learn social skills from scratch, maybe not as bad as you, but still bad). But women you don't know are going to be totally unforgiving to this type of stuff.
But you need to go the extra mile to get people to be 100% honest with you, otherwise they have no reason to, as I said, it's a pain in the ass. It's hard to get raw, harsh, unfiltered feedback, but it's also hard to give that kind of feedback. Nobody is going step up and be like "Ravi, I know you can totally kick ass with women". You need to be the first one to buy into the idea that you can be a total killer with this. Everyone else is kinda going to let you be,.
I could make a list of all the things you could improve, but I just want you to notice how different your vibe is from Scotty's (he's a very good example of a good vibe). It's like night an day. I also want you to notice that your vibe is way better in your videos with Scotty than in your podcasts. This is because vibe is contagious, if you are around Scotty, you'll get some of his vibe. And also you were out there, approaching, in state.
This is to say that you can improve this, but you need to be around people with a good vibe and practice a lot.
Idk what Dante or Scotty told you, but either they aren't giving you enough feedback or you aren't applying what they told you. Applying coaching advice is 100000 times more important than reading books.
Maybe you aren't receiving enough feedback. Maybe people don't want to offend or hurt you. Or they simply don't want to spend energy in you. Even if they are getting paid, coaching is a lot of times a pain in the ass and you probably know this as a coach yourself. Or maybe they are just kinda used to you being you. Your friends sort of ignore your quirks and are like "Oh that's just Ravi" (it's not just you btw, I also needed to learn social skills from scratch, maybe not as bad as you, but still bad). But women you don't know are going to be totally unforgiving to this type of stuff.
But you need to go the extra mile to get people to be 100% honest with you, otherwise they have no reason to, as I said, it's a pain in the ass. It's hard to get raw, harsh, unfiltered feedback, but it's also hard to give that kind of feedback. Nobody is going step up and be like "Ravi, I know you can totally kick ass with women". You need to be the first one to buy into the idea that you can be a total killer with this. Everyone else is kinda going to let you be,.
I could make a list of all the things you could improve, but I just want you to notice how different your vibe is from Scotty's (he's a very good example of a good vibe). It's like night an day. I also want you to notice that your vibe is way better in your videos with Scotty than in your podcasts. This is because vibe is contagious, if you are around Scotty, you'll get some of his vibe. And also you were out there, approaching, in state.
This is to say that you can improve this, but you need to be around people with a good vibe and practice a lot.