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  1. notAndy

    Rate my tinder pics and give me advice on new ones

    The first one is indeed a killer pic. #2 is okay. Keep the general idea but reshoot it with better lighting and framing. I would bin #3. It's probably hurting you more than helping. Have you looked at kyil_andy 's photo inspiration part in his tinder guide...
  2. notAndy

    Picture Feedback

    I don't want to sleep with you, so take this with a grain of salt: You do look good with glasses in the first outfit but not so much in the second. I don't know if a different frame would help or if that type of style simply doesn't work with glasses. However the first outfit has very little...
  3. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    I wouldn't say that I haven't lost any momentum (after all I didn't do anything for months). But rather, the anxiety was not any worse than before I took a break. As soon as I did my first approach I was back. Maybe a bit rusty at first, but I definitely didn't feel like I felt before starting...
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 46 "I know this random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi", Leave. "I know this random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi", I'm [Name], Leave. "I know this random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi", I'm [Name], Handshake, Leave. "I know this random...
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 45 Walk up to a group of girls and give BOTH/ALL of them a high-five, Leave. Walk up to a group of girls and give BOTH/ALL of them a high-five, say "You guys are cute,", Leave. Walk up to a group of girls and give BOTH/ALL of them a high-five, say "You guys are cute,", I'm [Name], Leave...
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 43 High Five, Hey- you're cute, Leave High Five, Hey- you're cute, I'm [Name], Leave High Five, Hey- you're cute, I'm [Name], Handshake, Leave Repeat this 7 times, you will speak to 21 girls. Took me three days to finish this one. On the first one I only finished one rep. After that one I...
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 42 done. Nothing noteworthy happened. Did set a timer again. It really helps to get me out of my head. I will tackle day 43 next week. https://youtu.be/0uuq0_vN1bI
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 42a - Hey- you're cute, I'm [Name], Leave - Hey- you're cute, I'm [Name], Handshake, Leave - Hey- you're cute, I'm [Name], Handshake, Time, Leave - Hey- you're cute, I'm [Name], Handshake, Time, Directions, Leave 16/20 done. I set a timer for 1h and got 13 reps in. Wanted to finish but...
  9. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    It's been five months since I finished day 40. That drill took me god knows how many weeks. I never recorded another vlog and pretty much dropped the AA Program after that (or approaching in general). Until today. Day 41 done. I was somewhat concerned that I would be back to square one. Much...
  10. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    First of all I want to thank bonzo34. He noticed that I hadn't posted in a while and last week sent me a message, offering to get on a call and help me get through this. I really fucking appreciate that man, you're an absolute legend! Thank you. So, for the past few weeks I've been kinda...
  11. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Thanks man, I appreciate that. Good luck and have fun (seriously, this is mostly fun). I suggest you don't look ahead. Just take one drill at a time and don't worry about what will come tomorrow (or a week later).
  12. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Sooo, I've taken an (unplanned) break but I'm back. Did a few short sessions on Saturday, yesterday and today. I think I'm at 14 out of 40. Today I felt weird during the approaches. I was hyper-aware of my facial musculature and couldn't really relax. The three approaches I did felt rather...
  13. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 40a Walk up to and stop 10 girls and say "Hey, wait a second- you're cute." say your name and leave. Walk up to and stop 10 girls and say "Hey, wait a second- you're cute." say your name and put your hand up for a high five. Leave after you get a high-five. ♥ Refer to "Do What You Want...
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 39b I made a beautiful discovery today. When a girl is really receptive and I give her a compliment, for a split second or so, something in her cracks and she just melts. It is absolutely heartwarming to witness. Other than some really good reactions I - again - got some lukewarm and some...
  15. notAndy

    Prove me wrong

    About half of your excuses I understand because I had (still have some) them myself. I am biased but my short answer is: Do the AA Program. I think many of your excuses are due to a lack of exposure and by doing the program you circumvent many of your worries and can focus on tackling your...
  16. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 39a Walk up to and stop 10 girls and say "Hey, wait a second- you're cute." and Leave. Walk up to and stop 10 girls and say "Hey, wait a second- you're cute." say your name and leave. ♥ Refer to "Do What You Want Principle" below (IMPORTANT) Repeat this 2 times, you will speak to 40...
  17. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    The completionist in me wants to, I'm not sure if I really need, though. During the week there's not much of a night life in my city so I'll probably do it on Friday or Saturday unless I have better plans. Day 38b Today I did the remaining 38 reps. And man, was it a difference from yesterday...
  18. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Thanks man! It is really encouraging to see other guys who work on themselves acknowledge the effort I put into this. I really appreciate that. Day 36 Time, Leave Time, That's a nice shirt, Leave Time, That's a nice shirt, Those are cool shoes, Leave Time, That's a nice shirt, Those are cool...
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    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 35 Hey Bro, Time, U Mad Bro?, Leave Hey Bro, Time, U Mad Bro?, Non-Sexual Compliment, Leave Hey Bro, Time, U Mad Bro?, Non-Sexual Compliment, U Mad Bro?, Leave Hey Bro, Time, U Mad Bro?, Non-Sexual Compliment, U Mad Bro?, You really helped a Bro out, Leave Challenge: Say "U Mad Bro?" after...
  20. notAndy

    notAndy's AA Program Log - Day 46. Finished :)

    Day 34c Didn't do any drills for the last two days because ... well, honestly I just didn't want to. I was really worried this drill would be another one that would take me a long time and I guess I was putting off failing to finish it (air tight logic, isn't it). Anyways, today I went out and...
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