Crimson
Member
- Joined
- Apr 2, 2021
- Name
- Brandon
- Goal
- Get Laid
- Age
- 21
- Location
- Germany
MakingAComeback said:Crimson said:Update
Feels like I’ve been gone for a while again. Definitely haven’t been as active as before.
Anyways, I’ve had quite a lazy week, laying in bed the whole day (not every day, like 2-4 days out of 7), not doing anything dating-wise. But I’m back now.
There are some positive things I’ve done though. I’ve had two coaching calls with the coaching client of Andy so far. They’ve been super helpful and he’s given me a ton of value.
I also have one with Andy coming up next week, which I’m looking forward to.
Crimson
The best thing you can do is get coaching with Andy.
One or two calls a month.
Take extensive notes, clarify your next steps.
You will have to work.
A lazy week, not doing much, this was me at your age.
It totally derailed my life.
Totally destroyed me and made me a loser for so many years.
You will not repeat my mistakes. By the time you are my age, you will be a success.
Just take it one step at a time. It's OK to take time. We are willing to invest time in you, be patient, and see you grow over years.
You will need a solid GAME PLAN. You are a guy who needs process and structure, Brandon. You are like me. You will need to develop rituals.
It won't happen overnight, it'll take time, but you WILL get there.
Just keep working with Andy. Put money aside and continue coaching with him.
If I had to max out 5 credit cards and sleep in my car to do coaching with Andy, I would have done it.
I spent a disgusting sum of money to do The Phoenix Project. I pretty much ran through my life savings,
And guess what? Next year, I will make all my money back, and then some. You'll see...........
Fortune favours the brave. No matter how small the action, just doing SOMETHING every day, will make you a damn God in this world.
Here is what I like to tell people:
Most human beings on planet earth do not do shit. Just getting up each day and doing what you can is enough to kill 99.999% of people on earth.
You will get there. Don't put pressure on yourself, you need work, and to change your brain, develop focus and consistency. I struggled with this at your age too.
Now who is more consistent than me?
No one.
MAC
You’re the real Top G. Congrats on Lay #9.
I’ll keep doing the best I can, Andy’s coaching will definitely help. Thank you for rooting for me as always.