Apologies for not posting here in a while.
Quick update—I’m down to
75.7 kg now. I spent some time in Bali, focused on pushing forward with business, and stayed consistent with my approaches.
Lately, I’ve been using a
30-point system instead of just counting 30 approaches per week. I want to
play to win, not just
play not to lose. The point system works like this:
- Number or Instagram = 2 points
- Instant date = 3 points
- Second or third date lay = 5 points
- Same-day pull = 10 points
I need to double-check my full metric, but that’s the general structure.
Life’s actually been going
really well, which is probably why I haven’t posted much. Funny how people tend to post when they feel like shit and need advice. But yeah, if anyone has questions about my journey, feel free to ask.
That said, I
do need to work on my day game. I’ve been doing it consistently since
late November, apart from travel periods, but I think I hit a rut. There were times when I did
30 approaches and barely got one or two numbers, which isn’t good enough. I need to
level up my skillset and
push through this plateau.
On the fitness side, I can
finally start to see my abs, but only in good lighting. I’m probably around
18% body fat and aiming to drop to
10% (about 68-69 kg) to get fully lean.
Also, I
quit coffee, which has been intense, but I’m optimizing everything—fitness, mindset, and overall life. I’ve been doing a lot of
deep inner work, still working on breaking patterns like
external validation and approval seeking. I’ve come a long way since my last post, but there’s still a lot of growth ahead.
One challenge I need to address is getting banned on
Hinge no idea why, and my appeal got rejected. So now,
my main dating source is day game, which means I
can’t afford to be sloppy. If I’m doing
30 approaches and only getting two numbers, that’s just not good enough.
I need to improve, period.
At least I’m staying consistent. Time to step it up.