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Lusty's 5'4 fat to fit looking for love log

81.5kg

After some time to process and think about stuff, I realised I have let fear hold me back a tonne. One thing I learnt when I was overseas was the missing piece of adventure in my life. Was a lot of fun when I went on my first date ever outside of my own country, went to a nice rooftop bar, I didn't close but made out and stuff.


After I sort of realised yeah I want to have fun and get up to antics, I noticed that there is a lot of fear but I decided to step in as an opportunity came up my mate is getting a Villa in Bali and just wants to pick up women and have fun for 10 days so I said fuck it, I am going to do offline from my business for 10 days which will be fine and just join him, booked my flights, business class was crazy expensive so I used my platinum status to just get the dividing row between business class and economy which on that aircraft has more leg room than business for my short 5'4 legs haha but $950 is much better than $2,800 for a shitty business class seat or $4k or 220k points if I did a 12hr flight overnight via Singapore although it would have been lay flat beds, but I will focus my cash on a nice Villa.

If anyone wants to come in the second week of February 2025 please hit me up!

Also had another friend invite me to come see him in Dubai now he lives there so that might be the other travel plan, I want to travel more next year that isn't me going back and forth to Melbourne and staying with a dysfunctional family, as much as I love them and do business with them too much time together and in their presence just causes me to go into old patterns of behaviour and coping mechanisms which I still need to do some inner work on.

I am trying to get some clarity around what my life moving forward will look like, I had a realisation that with my wealth and money strategy, I need to prioritise short-term cash flow over long-term wealth as my net worth is on track long term along with the fact I will inherit a large amount of assets when I am older, so I think my focus needs to be on growing and making the business profits higher to draw more profits/salary from the business short term then start to live a little with my cash. I did just dump $145,000 AUD towards a new house but I have a good buffer in savings for some fun trips and my current income will easily cover off the loan to the investment.

I really hate that I couldn't do a points hack to Bali or have such surplus funds to just purchase business but I will use that flight as a reminder for now and after of one of the many reasons why I am pushing the business hard. With cost of living in Australia, I feel like I am just making it by with 100k AUD income so I ultimately want to push this to $250,000, that way I can live a little more and still put money into savings and investments.
 
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