Recap and action plan from here+First dg lay
Small recap of between last post and now.I have been semi consistently closing in ng but for the longest time now dg has pretty much gotten to the point where either I get stopped once I get to my closing spot I have or me getting instas with girls on a platonic frame.I took a little bit of a break for straight daygame and did only consistent ng for a time(about 5-6 weeks) during which time I took coaching(a counter proposal for my bet with pancakemouse) but by then whatever dg skills I had pretty much deteriorated and I also showed up late to my session so the coaching wasn’t the best roi for me at the time.
At this point I realized that I excessive ng will give me lays but at the cost of dg skill(cuz I won’t come out) and also just a general disruptor in my life.I started consistently daygaming for a week.I then fell back into ng for 2 weeks and then sort of came up with an agreement for how I’ll do ng going forward which is as follows.
- [ ] Can only ng once a week until I consistently dg 5-6 a week for a month(only 2 ng day max per week after)
- [ ] I can stay out as long as u want for the for the first ng day but when I get the second one I have to be heading home by 2 but can stay longer if train has excessive wait time or I pull on the way to train
- [ ] Ng day will probably be Friday
- [ ] I can ng with no limits during special weeks like welcome week parties or halloweekend etc
- [ ] No longer counting sets so no approach quota per day
- [ ] If I fail to hit the first point I gotta skip ng or atleast be at 4 so I can make up for it on Sunday
- [ ] Day after I ng will probably my rest day and will be used for things outside of game that require full attention
I never wrote a clear outline of how to conduct ng but I think this way is most successful.I believe dg AND ng and both essential because at the very least they both create momentum.
Now my current weaknesses for dg as pointed out by a wing are
- [ ] Bad tonality
- [ ] Conversational skills have declined
- [ ] Vibe is very dependent on my mood
- [ ] Off way of sexualizing verbally
Now for the dg lay.I was doing solo dg waiting for my wing to ng with and got rid of my aa in less than 10 mins.The problem was that there were no good sets that were solo so for the first hour I was just opening throwaway working on trying to rebuild my funamental.I started getting the body language things down after a few approaches. My wing hit me up and we were about to start ng when I saw a set that I thought was good. Short 1/4 white 3/4 equadorian girl with a medium to large size ass. I opened and since I was practicing I managed to get her to natural stop.she hooked after I told her she looks like an La girl says no but she visited and asked me what I was doing.I told her I was meeting with a friend but he was an hr late so I didn’t think so anymore.she told me she was just coming off of work and that she was just heading home now.I think it was her that asked if you I wanted to do something at this point and I suggested wine.she made a face that was compliant so i just suggest Trulys across the street and she complied.
Made small talk in the CVS and got a hard seltzer drink and then went off the park close by.At this point I had good compliance but I didn’t really sexualize the vibe.I tried to kino her and she was indifferent to it so then I tried to sexualize verbally.I felt the frame was man to women enough so I baited her into asking me she thought I approached her.she thought I was trying to kill her lol but I used this to just straight up say I found her attractive.Cue the uncomfortable silence but now the frame was actually set. From her I tried to sexual again thru asking about her ex and if she likes toxic shit and she basically said they were both toxic and that she was the cause for the end of the relationship but wouldn’t tell me why then.
I still felt the frame wasn’t sexual enough though so I tried to frame things she said as sexual like her saying she was the adventurous type but it probably came off wrong due to my tonality.then her brother called and she basically told him that she would be home later and that she was with a friend(I thought she was tryna friend zone me so I contemplated just escalating as fast as possible to get blown out so I could ng) and that we knew each other since high school.After the call she talked about how hard it seems for her friends to meet new friends and how it seemed so easy with me and her.Here I knew I had to either get her in or out so I just ran my ng routine on her and then tried to get the makeout.she did not comply and was like she’s holding out for one guy.
I called back to what my wing was telling me about roasting the guy she likes or roasting her for liking the guy and I had her give me the details of her crush.she basically straight up offered him sex but he was either too oblivious or scared to make a move and she got friendzoned.I used this to make a joke about her being love from you because when dhe tried to call me a serial killer I agreed and am plied and told her that I was the one who taught Joe from the show all of his tricks.I then painted out the polarity of how if I was watching her from afar I would be a stalker but if she did it then it would be a Taylor swift song and this is where here frame cracked.Told her yeah she the friend that can’t take a hint and then gave her the friendzone pat.she thought about it and was like damn your right and then said she regretted not kissing me.I didn’t waste any time and pulled her close and got the kiss.called her out for just giving me duck lips and then she said she was shy and I told her she was contradicting herself and we made some banter in between cause I’ve gotten this kiss before and I knew it was a sign that you needed more comfort.
I opened up about some of my childhood and some similarities about our siblings and that seemed to get her to say her real objection which was that she really just likes agression so I lifted her up and grab her neck for the makeout and the flood gates opened.stopped after a min to o prep her for the public pull and asked her what the craziest things she was very vague saying she only been with two guys and then I probed about the second guy.Turns out the reason why she broke up with her ex was cuz the second dude hit her up on ig when they were fighting they basically met up and fucked in the park.I was able to relate and did slut shame and told her yea I did the same with some wasian girl about a month ago and then told her my other stories and that basically got it in her head that I was a player.made out with her some more and started grabbing her ass in the park and that when she was like we need somewhere more private.I told her I know a private bathroom(was completely honest because when I sprung it on other girls they looked at me like I was a scumbag and not in a good way) and she complied.threw a couple shit test at me during the walk and just agreed and amplified or just called out her attacking me with double edge compliments.from here I just walked her to the spot and the rest was history.Fucked twice and then someone was complaining and security tried to remove me he just joked about it but we still left cuz we were there for a while.In total the whole thing was a little over 2 and a half hours.got her number but I know public sex makes them less likely to hit you back up but I’ll still try to retain.
Notable things that happened in between post
- [ ] Got first coaching session
- [ ] Fucked three girls in 7 days
- [ ] Before this close I fucked another girl early morning so this is my first 2 in 24 hour close
I really got thank all my wings(especially one in particular)who endured my 1000 questions and stuck it out with me because it was there knowledge that allowed me to get to where I am a little over a year now when I met them.
