Consistent Forward Pressure: How To Achive Life Goals Through Relentlessness
I literally will stop at nothing - you know this about me, and that's why you're here.
As you can see about me, at this stage: I literally NEVER GIVE UP.
That is why I win.
I hit so hard, and so persistently, the opponent just withers and wilts, because they know - this guy has heart and determination, he is truly a savage. At some point, they just say in their heart of hearts, I can't beat that, and they give in.
And we raise our arms, [name redacted], victorious yet again
That is how being relentless changed my life
The many times I was beaten down, face in the dirt, destroyed. Defeated. Broken.
In those dark times, I would visualise, dream and pray
.....What if, from this deep pit of hell, I rose up?
...What if, after 14 years of defeat, when everyone has given up on me at this stage, my own family don't believe in me anymore, and people I thought cared, have begun to now laugh at me.
....What I saw in the mirror, was an obese, anxious virgin, too scared to live, too scared to die.
That man, was destroyed. Absolute destroyed.
As I looked in the mirror, tears welled up in my eyes.
“Ravi, you let your Mum down, you let your Dad down, you let everyone down, and now, your blood line is going to end with you. You are the last one left in your clan, and it’s looking like you are not going to make it, man. It’s looking like, the dreams you had, are not going to be achievable. Looks like you messed your life up”
Then, what happened, was interesting…..
I had been very interested in Andy when I was a lurker on GLL.
I remembered him, and had thought about him, for years.
I went back to the GoodLookingLoser forums, where I had lurked for years, and tried to find Andy. I saw, he had started his own website, and he was offering coaching.
The pain, was so excruciating, that I reached my own "FUCK IT" moment
“Ravi, at this point, the only person I even know who can help you, is Andy. If he can’t fix you, then you have permission to kill yourself”
Yes, that’s how dark it was at that point.
It was a series of bitter experiences that truly galvanised me, but when I truly went ALL IN, I signed up with Andy and Cam, and told them, guys: I MUST SUCEED.
From that moment on, every day I got up, was WAR.
I lost the weight.
I built the profiles.
I started approaching.
I got dates.
I got my first lay.
I got my first FWB.
I beat my Approach Anxiety (9 months of daily approaching, 4hrs a day)
I quit my job, started IronWill Consistent Performance Coaching
I travelled the f**king world
I learned and studied under the best mentors
I became who I am today
With true f**king willpower, you can literally blast through EVERYTHING
When you say in your heart: I'm going to f**king fail, and f**king fail, and f**king fail, over and over, and I will not stop trying, asking for help, getting coaching and mentoring, and improving every variable, sticking at the mission, come hell or high water..............
ELITE SUCCESS IS F**KING INEVITABLE
These are not my rules
This is the language in which God wrote the Universe
And for you to take your seat at the Winner's Table, all you have to do today, is SHOW UP
Let me handle your development. I was born to do it, and I am a mastermind at this game of Self Improvement & Goal Achievement using Consistent Performance.
If you are in THIS TRIBE, GUESS WHAT?
IN THIS HOUSE - WE WIN
AND WE MAKE NO GOD DAMN EXCUSES
TAKE NO SHORTCUTS
SETTLE FOR NOTHING LESS THAN EXCELLENCE
AND WE LITERALLY KEEP F**KING GRINDING
UNTIL WE SUCCEED!
Just show up for me today, and give me some effort.
Together, we will climb to the top of the mountain, and we will breathe the rarified air reserved for the 1% who paid the price in blood, sweat, and tears
DEATH BEFORE DISHONOUR
IRON WILL