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A little about myself:
Currently a student, unfortunately might have to drop out for academic reasons.

I'm preparing for my trip to Colombia this January. Once I'm done with this goal my next goal would be to take care of my finances. I want to make $450K per year.

Spanish levels = Intermediate, will get to advanced by January.
Fitness level = Advanced
Online Game = Biggest weakness
Cold Approach = Can do 50 per day

I only recently got started in photography. I've seen some of the photos you all have posted. Mine aren't on that level yet.

I, Mr Available, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hello my name is Dean, I am 31 years old. I came onto this website through GLL. After years of struggling with addiction, dropping out of pharmacy school, and destroying all of my social circle, I had decided to get my life back again. I have been sober for a little more than year now and to be honest, I'm relearning how to live again. Besides my family, I do not have anyone else in my life. But I am trudging along still. I have been going to the gym, socializing with as many people as I can. My goals are to have a life again, to have a career, to have plenty of friends and lovers. I believe I can achieve this things with the help of the people on this forum.
 
Hi everyone, I'm architect. I got out of a long-term relationship a few months ago, had less luck with online dating than I would have liked, and now I'm ready to start taking things seriously. I want to have sex with more girls, higher-quality girls, and I'm going to work hard to get it.

I, architect, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
I, Aych aka Shinobi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26 from Chicago
10-15 lays at the time of writing

Been dabbling in self-improvement and pickup since 2014. After a few short lived romances here and there mainly through cold approach, I met my first gf of 2 years on tinder. We ended our relationship amicably in 2020.

As of 2020 I've gone on about 10 first dates.
Currently have 2 girls in rotation and am looking to start dating hotter girls as I progress through this Phase.



Goals:
- Pass my sales trial at my new job []
- Sublease an apartment in March 2021 []
- Post once a day on personal blog []
- Make $1500 from affiliate marketing []
- Grow strength, Cut on body fat (train daily) []
- Consistently have sex with fit and sometimes model quality women []

Will reasses more goals once I've completed the ones above.
 
I, AnemicBruh, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've been struggling with an eating disorder(anorexia) and anxiety/unease with myself for the last 2-3 years.
My short-terms goals are the following:
-Gain weight(57kg before 2021 and 58kg before next February)
-No social media(FB, insta or fitness youtube videos for the next 30 days)
 
I Mat commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goal is to stop being single, and get myself a GF and a LTR.

My secondary goal, is to have some casual fun along the journey to achieving my primary goal.
 
Phoenix Arise said:
Hey everyone!
My name's Alexander and I'm a 23 y.o. Greek dude living and studying in Germany.
"I, Alexander, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Some background:
Without it sounding too cliche, I'd say I started out really really low, rather similarly to Andy.
I used to be completely and utterly addicted to electronics (videogames, youtube, Netflix, reddit, porn, anything really as long as I could bury my face in a screen) and spent the vast majority of my teenage years like this with barely any friends until around age 19 I finally started getting a grip on my addiction which is by now pretty much entirely gone (largely thanks to a convoluted system of interlocking software and systems that has been perfected over the course of a few years).
Also was downright anorexic @ <60kg at 1,79m (fixed it by learning how to eat and doing Stronglifts 5x5, now weigh 87kg while being quite lean) and suffered from terrible acne which made me shut myself indoors and avoid human contact as much as possible (fixed it by taking Accutane).
After reading the above it may not come as a surprise that I was super duper introverted and socially awkward. Barely had any friends or knew how to socialize, let alone talk to girls.
I'd say that until age 19 I was sort of an incel but not really incel, more like volcel cause I wasn't even interested in women. I was just too absorbed with videogames and porn to even try talking to women.

Eventually, after coming across the whole Self Improvement section of the internet I managed to get some of my shit together and within a few weeks I had lost my virginity to a beautiful girl whom I then went on to fall in love with and practically marry (We actually moved in together and lived like a truly married couple while we were both 20. No joke, we mostly stayed at home, drank tea, studied and read books together while our friends were living the college lifestyle and going to parties.
Twas certainly a good experience and for a good amount of time I felt like I had truly made it in life with only minor insecurities of feeling like I was missing out on life or such.
That is until my ex got bored to death and our relationship (or should I say marriage lol) slowly fell apart over the course of 6 months until she eventually cheated on me before my very eyes and moved out.

This all happened a year ago in November of 2019 and surprisingly enough I literally took a girl back home the first night I went out after my breakup and then another one the same week.
Long story short, since this weekend I just hit the initial goal I set myself of sleeping with 15 women within 1 year I figured I might as well stop being a lurker and sign up here since I now feel up to par so to say.
I've so far had several one night stands, fuckbuddies, an MMFF foursome, had a regular MFF threesome semi-relationship going for a while with two French girls, dipped my toe in BDSM (like a lot), partied and drank aplenty, went to cool raves and did drugs (LSD had been a fucking godsend!), traveled more than in any previous year and found love again to heal my broken heart (one of the aforementioned French girls with whom I am in a long-distance on-and-off relationship for the foreseeable future).

Oh, and I did all this while dealing with severe emotional turmoil from the breakup, the bitterness of getting a very abrupt and very in-depth redpilling, a severe knee injury (my kneecap popped out of place at a JiuJitsu championship back in January) and the deep pit of depression resulting from that and then the COVID-19 pandemic.
GLL and KYIL have been a huge inspiration in my life that has driven me forward like nothing else to do things that to be honest I never really imagined I would ever do.
Andy actually convinced me to finally go to therapy (CBT) and 2 months ago my therapist and me both agreed that the issues I had come to him for had been completely solved by now and there was no point in continuing our sessions.

Seeing myself now in November 2020, a year after I started this journey, I'd rate it a fantastic success.
A year ago I had severe oneitis, didn't really know if I was attractive or desirable, if I could ever again get laid or find a girlfriend or find love.
I certainly didn't picture myself having threesomes or being called a gorgeous Greek God or being invited to cool parties or getting a reputation as a party-animal or sleeping with girls within 3 hours of meeting them or tieing up girls and spanking their butts raw or being in the position to dump girls for being crazy overnight and without any doubt or guilt. Or something as simple as wearing earrings, I suppose.
I guess I didn't really expect to acquire abundance this fast.
Hell, I went from 30 contacts on WhatsApp to 260.
I had the best year of my life, by very far, while also overcoming some of the greatest challenges I have ever faced.
I feel truly alive and happy. At the top of my game and excited for the days, weeks, months and years ahead.
Confident that I am on the right track and that my life is going to work out in the end.

I now find myself ready to truly go all in with the getting laid lifestyle.
This is what I intend to dedicate the coming years of my life to.
At least 2, probably 3, maybe even 4. Or maybe simply until I have exhausted this stage of life so fully that I am 100% ready to move on to bigger and better things.
I want to have as much fun as possible and just concentrate on enjoying life and women and developing myself as a man. The rest, I suppose, will follow if I remain committed and focused.

Current Goals:

  • Fuck 24 girls in 2021.
    Move in with a cool frat in the old town.
    Get a bartending job after the lockdown is over.
    Cut down to 84kg before the gyms reopen and get back to bulking afterwards.
    Figure out online dating so I have a consistent stream of pussy from there.
    Stay consistent with meditation and trip 10 times in 2021.
    Finish You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought.
    Study properly and progress towards graduating.
    Get inked.
    Finish straightening teeth and get them whitened.
    Grow my dick with the Bathmate and the Phallosan Forte.

That should be enough.
Let's get to crushing those goals!
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A very moving story I could partly relate to. Except that you're making huge progress and am glad to hear things are moving great. My prognosis for your 2021 goals: you will easily double your fuck count.
Willkommen in der Bruderschaft, Bruder!
 
I, The Protagonist, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

20 from USA
4 lays but inexperienced
I am a college student who hasn't been taking advantage of everything offered to me. I have been struggling recently and I am now going to start taking my goals and myself seriously. A couple years ago I lost 60lbs and had an unhealthy relationship with food. I would starve myself for days and my worth was determined by the way I looked in the mirror and the scale. I was able to fix this by learning about nutrition and lifting on youtube. Last year there was period where I watched some PUA guys like Todd V and made some progress but I didn't stick to it or got distracted and became addicted to weed. I used it to hide my emotions because I lean more introverted and it made me feel like my life was great. The song "wishing well" by juice wrld perfectly describes how I was/am. This addiction ended up destroying my mental health and I'm currently working on trying to make myself stronger than ever. I'm doing this by building healthy habits to replace my old destructive ones. I've realized now that I need to go my own path and that I don't need my friend's support or their validation to reach my goals.
SHORT TERM GOALS:
- I would like to put myself first
- I would like to stop worrying what others think or will think of me
- I want to stay positive no matter what and be happy
- I want to take more action and never overthink
- Use my phone more efficiently
- Continue to stay weed free
- I would like to create a good online dating profile with solid pictures
- I would like to get over my AA and cold approach girls
- I would like to get with 6 new girls next semester
- I would also like to gain a steady FWB
- Gain muscle until March then cut
- I would like to be louder and more commanding
- Improve my style (I'll try to post pics soon)
- Post here regularly
- Work on Abs, Traps, Neck and Legs
- Whiten my teeth

LONG TERM GOALS:
- Build a successful business
- 100 different women
- physique similar to ZYZZ

Goals for this weekend:
Do 1 day game cold approach
- while approaching work on saying "tell me" instead of asking a question
- while approaching or talking to anyone I will work on talking louder
Get laid if the opportunity is there
- it will be
- make it happen


Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to this awesome forum and for Andy for setting this up. Also how would you say it's best to get more pictures for your tinder or IG, I dress pretty well and go out at least once a week but never get any pictures.
 
"I, Martijn/endless333, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Yo, I'm Martijn from the Netherlands.
I tried the AA program in GLL but didn't come far. I've had a coaching call with Andy and now I'm back to work on my goals regarding getting the bitches.

The main goal is getting some FWB's (4-6) that are cool and I can see regularly.
My main struggles now are being afraid to bother girls by approaching them and feeling socially awkward, bad at small talk etc.
 
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Sup guys. I stumbled across KYIL from TRP, and I have to say this information is immensely helpful.

I'm Shawn, 31 from the US.

Some of my goals:
1. Get lean/ripped. 10-15% bodyfat
2. Become the man who has a great sex life with beautiful women
3. Advance in my current prospective career of software design and start making six figures
4. Continue to invest funds and grow a portfolio

I've had a serious girlfriend before when I was in college. I've had sex with a handful of women (probably a new woman every 1-2 years or so). But I always felt so damn insecure about my body, dick size, blowing too fast, etc. I always felt like I had to perform, and never felt truly free and enjoyed myself. Plus also have moobs made me hugely insecure.

Reading Andy's post about overcoming ED & performance anxiety blew my mind. It just opened my eyes. Andy also made a post linking a video of the therapist talking to that gamer incel. That also blew my mind, because I thought exactly like that gamer my whole damn life and never knew why. When the external world would present me some information, I would scan my mind and come up with some kind of rebuttal as to why I was a failure. Always stuck in this negative feedback loop.

I've always fapped to porn since high school and also suffered from an addiction. My first few times where I had a girl naked in my bed, my dick was like a lightswitch that refused to cooperate. This basically mentally chained me from the age of 19 until now.

Deep down, I've always wanted to be "that guy" that had sex with loads of beautiful women and got to enjoy that part to life. It's something I have to do, otherwise I can't imagine being an older guy and continually contemplating "what if". Also if you ever read the Motley Crue autobiography The Dirt, those dudes had insane fun, and I suspect this is where this obsession originated. Either that or...well...just being a guy I guess. Thanks to everyone here.


I, Shawn, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Sup,

20 Y/O, USA, College student
I, Shawn, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Recently lost virginity and slept with 4 girls but not satisfied with results.

1. sleep with more, higher quality women, get improved pictures and start cold approaching/improving social skills in general

2. lose a little bit more fat and gain muscle

3.stop hairloss/ maximize looks

4. learn more about and get into entrepreneurship
 
Hello, I have only shitty photos for the moment so I'd rather not show myself like this and wait for better photo quality.
Im 22 years old, slept with 2 girls in my life but I want to do better than this and not rely only on booze and luck for exciting things to happen.
I'm also a master procrastinator and if I don't stay focused on my goals I tend to go into NEET mode, where I just passively consoom for days and days and ruin my life.
I have multiple layers of anxiety, fear and laziness, so I can't make exceptions in my life or it's back into the NEET/Doomer lifestyle I go.
i've already limited the amount of time I spend into entertainment, but I want to completely stop it once and for all.
The biggest problem is still that the internet and social medias in particular can be huge time wasters and can ruin my day if I don't discipline myself.

Concerning girls, my biggest problem right now is making good photos where I appear decent. I still have a little weight to lose, and I lack not only a good camera but also a good cell phone to make decent pictures (I don't have enough money right now to afford myself a DLSR camera). In these times of quarantine I am really strugling to see friends and to make decent photos. I've got 2 photos ready for dating apps, but they are far from good enough and well made.

Another issue for me is money. I currently have 0 income. Thats also something I'm working on and I realize it's a very important step for meeting more girls and enjoying life more.

So, my 3 main priorities short term are:
-Getting laid more often
-Having a stable income.
-losing weight and gaining muscles

And more generally I want a more exciting life.
 
Sup,

23 y/o from Argentina.

"I, Laurelius, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals (long-term):
- Get to 82kg, with 10-15% body fat. (currently 72kg, 15%)
- Get laid with at least a different girl every month using Tinder or other dating apps.
- Work on my fashion.
- See a professional stylist.
- Get my degree in statistics. (5 years goal)
 
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I, Ryan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Long-Term Goals
-Raise my sons to be men that get what they want out of life
-Build muscle
-Multiple FWBs and 3-some
Learn photography, fighting, hypnotism

Short-Term Goals
-Finish remodeling my house
-Drop 10 pounds of fat
-Break dry spell
-Learn to ride motorcycle
 
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