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I, Jake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

I’ve been a GLL holdout for a little while but decided to finally check things out here

I started my journey back in 2016 and thought I was set after a while but a long hard year of depression and a 2 year dry spell brought me back to reality

My goals:
- 12 new girls in 2021
- Get back to approaching
- Start or join a band
- Take up some new hobbies
- Get the cert I need to move up in my job
 
Hi everyone,

I, Nicolas, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

It's been a few months I'm lurking around here. I found this site while browsing Red Pill subreddits.
Now that I got put in quaratine because of covid, I think that it's a good idea to register here and introduce myself.

I'll be 28 years old next month and I feel it's really time for me to do things right.
I'm kind of a geek working in the IT, I was clueless about how to deal with girls since the elementary school. I suffered a lot from the Nice Guy syndrome till a couple of years ago when I discovered TRP and read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy.

I don't consider my life in general to be a complete failure but my sexual life really is a complete failure: I was living a sexless life till a few years ago when I lost my virginity to an escort.
After that, because I couldn't get any girl, I was just wasting a lot of money on escorts. Then I finally got my first girlfriend just before I was 25.
She wasn't bad but she had a kind of autism and I broke up after a few months because, except for the sexual part, we didn't really get along. Not to mention my complete lack of experience in relationships.

In 2018, I discovered TRP but really didn't swallow the pill... I let myself fall in love with a girl overseas and get into a long-distance relationship. As you can imagine, it really went toxic after a few months but I still didn't broke up until last summer.
In August 2020, I've been on vacation alone in a city I wanted to visit and I finally managed to get my very first ONS. She was hands down the most beautiful girl I had sex with and I felt I had a great vibe with her. Unfortunately, she ghosted me shortly after (I think I went a bit too needy because I really wanted to see her again...).

Now, in January 2021, I have mixed feelings about my situation. I'm glad that I did some things well last year like ending my toxic long-distance relationship, starting to hit the gym seriously and finally managed to stop watching porn.
On the other hand, I'm still a frustrated incel who can't get laid despite my Red Pill knowledge and all my efforts in self-improvement.

So my goals for 2021 are simply to just getting fucking laid as much as possible and eventually find a cool girlfriend.

Thanks for reading me guys.

Edit: fixed some grammar (English isn't my native language) and thanks for the welcome Radical
 
Welcome dude Lord Rey

Theory does absolutely nothing for you. Only taking action towards your goals will

Worst thing about TRP is it encourages guys to rotate their lives around a subreddit and circle jerk
 
I, insegnante, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goal:
- Build a tinder account
 
My ultimate goal is to sleep with 100 girls that I would rate as a 7 or above

I, Dan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hello folks,

I am Juhani, 18 years old. An international student from Vietnam currently in US seeking self-actualization and get jacked up fully in life as much as possible.

I am seemingly ridiculously ambitious and aspiring, yet I put faith on it and will take whatever actions in order to attain these goals.

My 2021 goals:
- Earn my first million dollars before I turn 19 as an entrepreneur and earn a citizenship (currently focused no.1)
- Have 200k-1000k visitors/monthly to my website, impact millions of my readers (connected with first goal)
- Have 100k+ email subscribers (also connect with first goal).
- Go on a Vegas trip in June to July: bang 30-50 girls there & have a great birthday party in Vegas at July.
- Weigh 175lbs by the end of this year (currently 160-164lbs, which is pack in 10-20lbs of muscle); deadlift 405+ lbs, squat 315+ lbs, bench 225+ lbs.
- Read 30 books this year and internalize Stoicism into my subconscious.
- Master the basics & get good at BJJ & Muay Thai.

I just stumble upon this forum when lurking on GLL forum, I think that the OGs and active users from it are gathering and playing around here.

Look great.
 
I Devin Am taking this seriously and trying to beat my approach anxiety. I'm also currently working on building muscle and losing fat, which is definitely easier then approaching girls lol
 
Commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

What's up Guys. I'm herarldbert , 22, Argentina.

My goals for the rest of this year are:
- Get laid. with 3 Girls Per week.
- Improve my tinder/dating app game. Take better pictures. Invest in a decent camera DSLR SONY A6100.
- No FAP Practice Tantra Sex Not Allowed To Cum I've Done It Is Amazing
- Continue reading quality self improvement books
- Post here on the regular
- noporn. Started this mid December.
- . Continually self monitor in this area because I've fucked up quite a bit with drink/drugs in the past.
- Put myself and my goals first.
 
Hello everyone. I'm Bill, 25, from the United States. I'm an engineer and a wannabe entrepreneur. I'm becoming more and more interested in my ethnic spirituality and ancient philosophy. I am insanely ambitious and single-minded. I look younger than I am.

I, Bill, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Might be a bit different, but my main interest is entrepreneurship, and only after that, girls. I've had 5 girlfriends, no real casual lays to speak of. I've gone on seduction forums since high school, and never did anything about it because I didn't understand that action/exposure seems to be the key to everything. I started off on the GLL forums last year, but stopped because of covid and completely wasted last year in terms of this stuff. Now I'm back and committing barring any fresh act-of-God.

My goals for the next 6 months are:
  • Complete the GLL Approach Anxiety program and log it here over the next few months (I got to day 10 last year right before covid hit and circumstances were dire, and I'm starting over today; it's my priority 1b, as Chris says)
  • Get more used to giving speeches in front of people without tripping over my words
  • Start my business
  • Lose the final 15 pounds of weight (down 30 pounds already in the last 6 months)
  • Avoid politics and news, it just brings me way down
  • Avoid masturbating, if I can, and anything else that I use as a dopamine rush when anxiety hits
  • Find a community here, especially for when the AA program/life gets into its downs

I've seen Andy's stuff over the past year, and want to stick it to the end.
 
sundleboro

Hey dude welcome

As per our rules you need to post an avatar of yourself (can be cropped or blurred)

If you dont your account will be banned within 3 days
 
Hey All. I came here after finding some of the interesting mental health/depression articles (of Andy's), and thought that maybe some of my "game" experiences (or lack of, more correctly) would contrast here.

I come from an academic background, obtaining a PhD in a pharmaceutical field in 2016. Despite this, I graduated with no sexual experience (no pun intended). I eventually developed depression as a result of seeing pretty much every guy around me fall into relationships, and things got pretty dark. After about a year of cognitive behavioural therapy and a flirting class later, I got my first sexual experience and girlfriend shortly after turning 28. I found her via a cold approach, and were arguably some of the richest months of my life.

Fast forward to now, and I've done over 1500 cold approaches in the past 2 years. With one dissatisfying lay and nothing meaningful at the end of it, It's pretty apparent that my "stats" are very below-average. I suspect this' because I have a strong level of anxiety, feeling unsafe whenever I'm around others and thus can't really form connections with total strangers. I've been trying various things to overcome that. I'd say more here, but I've written enough for one post, and am better off starting a new thread.

I, Z, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals (next 4 years):
  • - fix the poor approach-to-date ratio
  • - get into a relationship
  • - move to a detached house (I don't get on with my neighbours)
  • - Find a way of perma-reducing anxiety when I'm out.

Yours,
Z
 
I, Hakan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously, 22/Turkey

My goals are:
-Lose my virginity
-Improve my English
-Improve my software skills
-Go to a gym and gain some weights
 
Hakan
welcome mate

You need to put the following sentence in your intro thread as per our rules:

I, Hakan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
"I, Mack, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."


Hey bros, I only have one goal: "Get a good paying remote developer job on 2021"

That's it, easy peasy. I'm currently from a second to worst third world shithole. As a very experienced web developer I'm only making $400 per month.

I deserve more, people with less qualifications than me are getting 10x what I do.

I want to make at least $4000, I don't care if it's a full remote job. I'm tired of being poor. I want to move out of my mommy's house... I feel (I am actually) like a fucking big loser.

I will post a log soon.

See you around
 
Hey guys, my name is Jeremy. I'm a professor in Tennessee, and I've always had a hard time getting girls from a young age. I know it's probably because of my looks, but I think my confidence could use some work too.

My main goal is to work out and get in shape. I have a bit of a gut right now, so I think I need some motivation to get fit and be happy with myself first. Excited to be on here, I may even post progress pics!

I, Jeremy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hey guys, my name is Seth and I found Andy's forum a couple of months ago. I'm 18 years old and I live in the Midwestern United States. I've always been something of a loser when it came to socialization. I was (for a very long time) something of a stereotypical nerd type, no gf, 4.0 GPA, and so on. About a year ago I began to seriously work on improving myself - going to the gym, trying to socialize more, etc. only for COVID to hit and throw a wrench into the gears of everything I was trying to improve. I only recently got back onto the track I was on before and I wanted to use this community as a way to get advice and feedback and to hold myself accountable.

My goals for 2021 are the following:
-Graduate high school without crashing and burning (online school is a real bitch).
-Get a job (I've decided to take at least a gap year before going to uni - presuming I decide to go)
-Start my own business (Social media marketing)
-Get a tinder account and go on 20 dates in 2021
-Lose my virginity
-Work on developing my social skills - become more charismatic.
-Be able to bench 225 (Currently: 145), do 12 unassisted pull-ups (currently 12 assisted @ 40lbs), and leg press 330lbs (currently 225ish)
-Develop a better fashion sense and a solid wardrobe.

I, Seth, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

See you guys around.
 
Hello!
My name is Xyz, i’m 23 years old. Atm i’m in the procces of applying to univerty also working full time!

Got into self-improvment since September of last year!

Only long-term goals.

Get laid, and also look for the my match!
Improve my social skills.
Grow my business.
Start working out my legs.
Commit to PE!

I, Xyz, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
I, Noah, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I want to get laid, get hotter (weight loss/building muscle), and ultimately improve my confidence through these.
If I make a post with a few pictures of mine asking for honest feedback on my appearance is that ok?

Thank you. :D
 
What's up, I'm PJ.

I, PJ, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About a couple of months ago, I went through my first relationship and breakup and that caused a total reset of my entire mindset. Decided the way I was living wasn't worth it anymore and finally decided to do something about it. Since I started in September I've lost over 15 lbs, begun to care about the clothes I wore and finally begin to build confidence in myself. Am I there yet, absolutely not. But everyday since I started it's been getting closer and closer.

My goals are:
-Dropping my weight down to 160 lbs and eventually achieving a 14% body fat.
-Stop being a cheap-ass and finally get a DSLR Camera with good lens to get good photos of myself.
-When the pandemic is over, really go ahead and try to approach women I find attractive and get laid, like a lot.
-Finish up my University and graduate with a Master's degree in English as well as beginning my working Career.
-Find a new girlfriend.

Gonna start writing up my log on here soon.
 
I, Eddie, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My immediate goal is to get a date. I've never been on a date before.

Longer term goals are to have sex, get better at dating and relating to people, shift my identity to someone who does this and it's no big deal, have a girlfriend.
 
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