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What up legends Im phillip
My #1 goal right now is to beat AA
and 1b is to get a job
Nothing crazy for now but im coming out of a long dark depression so I'm starting easy to get the ball rolling.
I've been reading you cant afford the luxury of a negative thought and its honestly changed everything. Thank you to Andy for making the article on depression and me reading it like 10 times :lol: I've started to become an optimist and I don't see myself going back.
 
Pilly1 hey man

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Cheers,
Radical
 
Whats up.
I, aboudez123, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- I am 26 years old
- Studying to be an engineer
- from Tunisia but live in Germany
- never had a gf but had some lays from drunk clubbing and escorts

My goals:
- Beating AA and reaching social freedom
- finishing my studies
- learning how to dj
- having sex with 50 girls
- earning money online via cryptocurrency day trading
 
I, SandSnow, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:

- 27 years old.
- Born and raised in Morocco.
- 4 lays to date.
- Freelancer/Entrepreneur

Goals for the end of the year:

- Lose 55 lbs total (already lost 24 lbs)
- Get 5 clients & make $5k/month with my agency.
- Get at least 6 good pictures for my Instagram account.
- Finish the GLL AA program.
- Move out & Live in a bigger city.


Longer-term goals:

- Become a full-time Entrepreneur & Earn $500k/month.
- Become a great writer & Write 1000 Blog Posts Online.
- Reach 100 Lays.
- Approach 20,000 women.
- Interact with 1,000,000 people.
- Demolish social & approach anxiety.
- Have a great 100 picture Instagram profile.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Join a Martial Arts Gym. (MMA or BJJ)
 
I, Mimbe393939, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

24 year olds living in Canada

Short term goals
-Hit 10 different lays in one year

Long term goals
-Become a home owner
-Start a home improvement YouTube channel for passive income/fun hobby
-Make money off investing in crypto/stocks
-Hit 30 lays
 
I, Brandon, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. My goal includes mastering my confidence to the point where I don't have regrets, being comfortable in my skin, and embracing my full personality. There shouldn't be a fear left within me, because when I master that all barriers to my path will be eliminated. I live in Melbourne, Australia and just want to meet like minded people. So if anyone is in the area that wants to improve themselves and go cold approaching hit me up.
 
About me:
- 22 years old.
- Born and raised in Mexico
- Student
-5´6 Height

Why am I here?
I joined because I want to meet new girls and move on from a girl I loved
Socially awkward, sometimes shy, I grew up with strict parents
I have avoidant attachment issues and I have dealing with long-term depression

Short-term goals
-Fix my diet
-Lose weight
-Go to the gym or train at house
-Get a full beard with Minoxidil use
-Find new friends

Longer-term goals:
- Improve my physical strength
- Improve my physical appearance by learning to dress
- Learn to fight, maybe with kickboxing
- Work on my mental health
- Go out to parties and dance without feeling like a poorly programmed robot
- Get a girlfriend
- Improve my social networks (Instagram)
- Reach 10 Lays.
- Approach 200 women.
- Overcome social & approach anxiety.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Finish my degree and maybe start a business
 
I, bigsky112, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 year old living in Europe

Short term goals
- Getting laid
- Get better/unique pictures
- Starting an music instrument
- Feeling better

Long term goals
- Investing in Crypto again
- Kids
- Having fun and finding my purpose in life
 
I want to face my fear of approaching women and getting over my fear of meeting new people. I have been terrified of rejection for too long and lately I have been feeling ready to tackle this issue head on. I am from Melbourne and I joined this forum to hopefully find other gentlemen who are working on the same thing. So if you're from Melbourne, get in touch and we can support each other. I'm easy going and it would be great to meet others who have the same passion for getting over this fear.
 
"I, TheGreySwan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm TheGreySwan, age 29, in NYC, USA.

Some background: yesterday was my birthday. One's 29th is hardly notable, and the occasion wouldn't even warranted a comment except for the fact that I spent most of it attending a funeral. The man who's remains were put into the ground 1:00 PM EST yesterday afternoon was about four weeks past his 30th birthday. Commemorating one's birth and another's death was a juxtaposition that prompted the decision to stop dabbling.

I've been a 3y casual reader of GLL material. I've been a casual reader of /listener to KYIL over the last 6 months. During my adult live I've been fortunate to have had some decent success with woman at bars/parties/dating apps. However, my victories never had the consistency or quality I wanted for myself. I'm sure as a I get to know you all better that'll be a topic to explore. But for now, I'll officially take the plunge and state my goals.

My goals for this next year
1. Approach at least one woman a day for the next 365 days, where "approach" is defined as
a. Expressing sexual interest ("You're hot/sexy/cute etc.")
b. Finding out if she's single, and...
c. If she is single, at a minimum asking for her number. (Will be keeping a log on this site for accountability/record keeping).

In layman's terms, I want approaching to be as much a part of my life as brushing my teeth or going to work.

2. Add 15 lbs. of muscle. (Started lifting on Aug. 30 2021 and have added 10 lbs. thus far. Can post log)

3. Finish the rough draft of my book on investing.

4. At least one new lay a month.

Long-Term Goals
1. 250 lays. At 74 as of today, with two this calendar year (can show log for proof)

2. Fully mitigate approach anxiety, where "mitigate" means that I'm never prevented, by fear, embarrassment, shyness etc. from approaching a girl I find attractive. (Though I fully expect to feel those emotions, I won't have them as my master).

3. 25+ individual lays from woman who make their living from being hot (models, influencers)

4. 10x MFF threesomes where both parties are members who are professionally hot (see LT goal #3.)

5. 5x MFFF foursome

6. One MFFFF fivesome

7. Run my own hedge fund that, over at least a 15-year period, beats the market by 300 bps on an annualized basis.
 
I, Nianaa, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 from a Nordic country.

Current goals

Achieve my best possible physique, have been working with a personal trainer for the past year.
Increase total lays from 5 to 10.
Take up a new more social hobby to meet new people, thought about dancing, bouldering, paddel tennis.
"crack the code" of online dating.
 
I, Halligan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys. Glad I found this place. Andy- what you wrote regarding tinder profiles is the best guide I've seen. I've been trying to implement it for about a month. Increasing my matches is my main goal at the moment. I got the Canon EOS you recommended and its awesome. Currently in the process of updating the wardrobe as that is pretty lacking. Following Hatfish's content for that. Ordered some accessories off amazon that should be arriving in a few days. Anyways, glad to be here.
 
I, oscarcma, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals are:
- Getting laid by attractive women once per week
- Building my confidence
- Developing my ability to pursue my goals
- Excelling professionally
- Developing healthy non sexual relationships
 
I ShivP_91 commit to working on my goals and taking them seriously.

Goals:
-Get to 15% bodyfat (currently around 25%)
-100 lays (currently at 3)
-Make 500K per year (currently 200k but i work a shitload of overtime)
-Crush my approach anxiety (i have done 5 appraches in my life, they were all last Friday and before that i had never done an approach in my life)
-Meet like minded people, i currently have no friends with similar interests or goals.
 
I, turkeydancer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Short term goals
-defeat approach anxiety
-widen delts (I have naturally narrow shoulders)
-lean out to 160lbs (currently 180)
 
I, jonyrids, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals:
Develop self confidence and a better mental attitude,
Get into better shape
Widen my social circle
 
I, Squidzila, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've always been kinda shy and surrounded by guys as I've been in STEM all my life. Academic life? Perfect. Social life? Terrible. Never had a girlfriend.

I'm spending five months in a new city and I've made it my goal to leave a different (better) person.

My goals include:
- Obligatory: get a girlfriend - get laid. I don't want to become a hook up machine, just prove to myself that I am actually worth something to the opposite gender.
- Get fit: jogging, weightlifting.
- Have non-zero self-esteem.
- Learn to feel confident enough to engage with strangers and meet new people organically.

Ciao~
 
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