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ffthutzoxjxogqjcm
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- Jun 17, 2023
Goal to get laid
smithy5556
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- Jun 17, 2023
Hey guys
From Sydney Australia. Had sporadic success with online but want to start doing more cold approach and overcoming fear of rejection.
From Sydney Australia. Had sporadic success with online but want to start doing more cold approach and overcoming fear of rejection.
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rebel
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- Aug 5, 2020
I Abel, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
25 years old from Los Angeles, CA
Been around the self improvement community since age 15, found goodlookingloser at that time and started cold approaching 10 years ago while still in highschool.
I can consistently pull from in person both day time + bars
One thing I have not solved to this day or put any effort towards is online dating and the goal is to solve online dating completely handled to a point where I can get multiple lays a month from online solely.
25 years old from Los Angeles, CA
Been around the self improvement community since age 15, found goodlookingloser at that time and started cold approaching 10 years ago while still in highschool.
I can consistently pull from in person both day time + bars
One thing I have not solved to this day or put any effort towards is online dating and the goal is to solve online dating completely handled to a point where I can get multiple lays a month from online solely.
DragonSlaya69
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- Joined
- Jun 17, 2023
I, DragonSlaya69, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
27 year old guy who is having trouble finding a job.
-goals
-Get laid on dating app(no fat chicks, no milfs)
-lose minimum of 50 pounds before 2024
-Get a better job that pays atleast 50k a year
27 year old guy who is having trouble finding a job.
-goals
-Get laid on dating app(no fat chicks, no milfs)
-lose minimum of 50 pounds before 2024
-Get a better job that pays atleast 50k a year
randomNPC
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- Joined
- Jul 3, 2020
Hi lads,
I'm randomNPC, I'm a 35 years old NEET/hikikomori from central Europe.
I've been lurking since 2013 on GLL and here since the forum was made without taking much action.
I'll start a progress log and start working towards my goals.
I, randomNPC, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm randomNPC, I'm a 35 years old NEET/hikikomori from central Europe.
I've been lurking since 2013 on GLL and here since the forum was made without taking much action.
I'll start a progress log and start working towards my goals.
I, randomNPC, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
G-Man
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- Joined
- Jun 18, 2023
Hi there
I'm G-Man
I, G-Man, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
26 from Kenya, been reading the forums and watching Andy's stuff for a long time, thought it was about time I join.
My biggest issues to solve revolve around social anxiety, financial instability, and no success with women.
For the year 2023, my goals are:
-quit employment and make independent income aiming for 200,000kshs (2000$) a month in my own business
-overcome my social anxiety and make 1 new friend to hang out with
-get laid more and get 2 fbs (previously I would have said lose my V-card but I recently handled that)
I'm G-Man
I, G-Man, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
26 from Kenya, been reading the forums and watching Andy's stuff for a long time, thought it was about time I join.
My biggest issues to solve revolve around social anxiety, financial instability, and no success with women.
For the year 2023, my goals are:
-quit employment and make independent income aiming for 200,000kshs (2000$) a month in my own business
-overcome my social anxiety and make 1 new friend to hang out with
-get laid more and get 2 fbs (previously I would have said lose my V-card but I recently handled that)
Foducossy
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- Joined
- Jun 21, 2023
Sup
I'm foducossy42
I, foducossy42, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
26 year-old living in London
I want to solve online dating for myself and build a kickass profile that brings in high quality matches consistently.
I've previously had success on online dating apps and achieved 150 matches, 30 dates, 15 kiss-closes and 5 f-closes through there. But that was 3 years ago when I was in uni, and now that I'm working and the market has changed, things seem to be different. Photo quality needs to be higher, girls out in the real world may care about other things. I've also been in a long term relationship and need to rebuild my social skills and rizz.
Strengths: graduated from top university, decently facially attractive (helps if people can comment/rate), confident with girls (able to escalate kino, deep dive and connect), top 1% earner in London so I have financial resources to achieve my goals. I'm also confident enough to cold approach, but I don't care for the art as I don't fancy the statistics and I'm not sure if it'll help with my long term goal.
Weaknesses: radiating sexuality irl and on Tinder pictures, body is just average or maybe slightly above average, not sure what sort of girls I'm best placed to attract and how to customise my Tinder profile for that.
Current short term goals
- drop to 68kg (currently 74kg) and have visible abs and no love handles
- find an FWB
- Improve fashion sense
- Take better pictures for Tinder
- Be able to convert 50% of dates into make-outs
Medium term goals
- Commence lean bulking once I'm lean
- Be able to convert 50% of make-outs into f-closes
- Be able to get laid at least once a month with a new girl
Long term goals
- 80-83kg at 10-12% bodyfat
- Find a girlfriend I really, really like. Yeah, sue me, I'm into relationships, but I want to set my standards high and never settle.
I'm foducossy42
I, foducossy42, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
26 year-old living in London
I want to solve online dating for myself and build a kickass profile that brings in high quality matches consistently.
I've previously had success on online dating apps and achieved 150 matches, 30 dates, 15 kiss-closes and 5 f-closes through there. But that was 3 years ago when I was in uni, and now that I'm working and the market has changed, things seem to be different. Photo quality needs to be higher, girls out in the real world may care about other things. I've also been in a long term relationship and need to rebuild my social skills and rizz.
Strengths: graduated from top university, decently facially attractive (helps if people can comment/rate), confident with girls (able to escalate kino, deep dive and connect), top 1% earner in London so I have financial resources to achieve my goals. I'm also confident enough to cold approach, but I don't care for the art as I don't fancy the statistics and I'm not sure if it'll help with my long term goal.
Weaknesses: radiating sexuality irl and on Tinder pictures, body is just average or maybe slightly above average, not sure what sort of girls I'm best placed to attract and how to customise my Tinder profile for that.
Current short term goals
- drop to 68kg (currently 74kg) and have visible abs and no love handles
- find an FWB
- Improve fashion sense
- Take better pictures for Tinder
- Be able to convert 50% of dates into make-outs
Medium term goals
- Commence lean bulking once I'm lean
- Be able to convert 50% of make-outs into f-closes
- Be able to get laid at least once a month with a new girl
Long term goals
- 80-83kg at 10-12% bodyfat
- Find a girlfriend I really, really like. Yeah, sue me, I'm into relationships, but I want to set my standards high and never settle.
Vic
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- Joined
- Apr 5, 2023
- Goal
- Get a quality gf
- Age
- 22
- Motto
- If you pity yourself, life's an endless nightmare
- Location
- California
Whats good everyone, I'm GN
I, GN, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously
I am 21 years old from the USA, currently a rising senior in college. I discovered KYIL a few months back and found it super refreshing because most dating advice on the internet is straight ass. Andy always keeping it real.
I have struggled a fuck ton with women and self esteem for a very long time. I was born on the spectrum so social interaction wasn't my forte. I discovered self improvement Aug 2022 and started going to the gym after my weight nearly crossed 200 pounds. Since then I have gained muscle and lost 30 pounds meaning I am finally a healthy weight! I also started talking to girls more often and I have approached probably 10-15 women since and managed to get a date! Sadly it didn't work out between us but it proves I can do it! I also picked up Ballroom dancing which has helped a TON with getting comfortable with women.
Initially I was down I only got one date, but reading Andy's article "Give yourself permission to suck", I looked at it from a different perspective. I learned A LOT from the mistakes I made in the past year and I will only get better.
I tried doing OLD (Hinge), for a few weeks but it fucked up my mental health and destroyed my self esteem for a while because I was really average in appearance at the time and the app kept feeding me super hot girls I thought I had no chance with, made me feel like the ugliest mf in the world. I did get a few matches and likes and some of the guys I talked to said I had great ratio for a dude. I also saw a lot of people saying OLD is worthless if you aren't straight, white, and 6ft+ so I have been discouraged from trying again. I am straight (mostly), Indian/Middle Eastern, and 5ft 10. Additionally, In retrospect I realize I had mid tier photos and a very "pick me"-esque profile. I want to try again to hopefully get laid so I may need some help.
My current short term goals:
-Reduce Porn usage
-Reduce Social Media use (mainly Reddit)
-Lose V-card by end of college
-Learn more new cooking recipes
-Reduce Hair loss
Medium term goals:
-Have sex with attractive women/increase lay count (or find a gf whichever comes first)
-Get into CAA school
-Get rid of Moobs/Love handles
Long term goals:
-Get a 200k+ job (should be doable if I get into CAA school)
-Get married to someone I can give my 110% to
-Buy a nice car (hopefully a Porsche)
I, GN, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously
I am 21 years old from the USA, currently a rising senior in college. I discovered KYIL a few months back and found it super refreshing because most dating advice on the internet is straight ass. Andy always keeping it real.
I have struggled a fuck ton with women and self esteem for a very long time. I was born on the spectrum so social interaction wasn't my forte. I discovered self improvement Aug 2022 and started going to the gym after my weight nearly crossed 200 pounds. Since then I have gained muscle and lost 30 pounds meaning I am finally a healthy weight! I also started talking to girls more often and I have approached probably 10-15 women since and managed to get a date! Sadly it didn't work out between us but it proves I can do it! I also picked up Ballroom dancing which has helped a TON with getting comfortable with women.
Initially I was down I only got one date, but reading Andy's article "Give yourself permission to suck", I looked at it from a different perspective. I learned A LOT from the mistakes I made in the past year and I will only get better.
I tried doing OLD (Hinge), for a few weeks but it fucked up my mental health and destroyed my self esteem for a while because I was really average in appearance at the time and the app kept feeding me super hot girls I thought I had no chance with, made me feel like the ugliest mf in the world. I did get a few matches and likes and some of the guys I talked to said I had great ratio for a dude. I also saw a lot of people saying OLD is worthless if you aren't straight, white, and 6ft+ so I have been discouraged from trying again. I am straight (mostly), Indian/Middle Eastern, and 5ft 10. Additionally, In retrospect I realize I had mid tier photos and a very "pick me"-esque profile. I want to try again to hopefully get laid so I may need some help.
My current short term goals:
-Reduce Porn usage
-Reduce Social Media use (mainly Reddit)
-Lose V-card by end of college
-Learn more new cooking recipes
-Reduce Hair loss
Medium term goals:
-Have sex with attractive women/increase lay count (or find a gf whichever comes first)
-Get into CAA school
-Get rid of Moobs/Love handles
Long term goals:
-Get a 200k+ job (should be doable if I get into CAA school)
-Get married to someone I can give my 110% to
-Buy a nice car (hopefully a Porsche)
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2021
rebel said:
Hey Rebel,
Please edit this post in alignment with the instructions on page 1,
We ban accounts that don't do this within 3 days.
Thanks,
MAC
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2021
rebel said:
Thanks man.
Welcome to KYIL
MAC
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With a background in English literature and a keen eye for detail, I strive to create well-crafted pieces that captivate and inspire. Whether it's delving into the depths of a thought-provoking topic or crafting an enticing product description, I enjoy the process of research, brainstorming, and transforming ideas into words that resonate.
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