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Hi everyone,

My name is Fabiano, I am a 32 year old Italian living in Barcelona (for the last 3 years). I have also lived in London for 6 years. I work managing digital advertising campaigns.

I am 5'1 (155 cm) and currently virgin. Have done almost 700 daygame approaches over the last 2 years by the time I am writing this post and got 6 dates, most of them were with women they put me in the friendzone from the getgo.

I have health issues that give me a large belly, although I am not fat (it's gas in my belly, been like that since birth). My Spanish is intermediate (not at the level to improvise jokes as much as I want). My English is much better.

My goal is:
- Find a hot girlfriend via daygame.

The reason why I am doing daygame is because dating apps don't work well for me in terms of matching with attractive women, although I hired a photographer following the photo guidelines from Playing With Fire. Well, Hinge works reasonably in terms of matching with attractive women because it allows me to send a first message. But I don't want to depend on a technology that might end tomorrow in order to feel abundant with women.

Cheers, Community of Beasts
 
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I, coffeetable, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Wuddup boys.

My backstory is I went from little success with girls in high school, hoe phase in college where I hooked up with around 20 girls, and then stagnated socially after for a number of reasons including becoming an adult. Now I'm here to be around other people in the arena.
 
Hey guys it's loki formerly september.

I deleted all my posts from the forum like a year ago out of wanting a fresh start and not to be tied down by history blah blah.

Had a ton of growth and stuff to share happen since then, but free time and desire to post never quite coincided.

Rejoining because I want to see arcade fire's log post and will probably be baited into posting more

I, loki, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hi, I'm ahdohah. I'm 38 and have been living abroad in Asia for the last few years.

I've had a decent time dating, but not as great as all the stereotypes would make you think. I don't live in a country that's renowned for nightlife and sex industry (not my thing). Dating apps have worked less and less well in recent years and I'm thinking I need to work on my lifestyle so that I'm not dependent on apps to get a date.

Since living here, I've only dated a handful of girls outside of dating apps.
 
HELLO EVERYONE

I’m Zuko, and I, Zuko, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

  • Age: 19
  • Learning: English, SEO, and Web Development
  • Goal: Make $5,000 a month by building and selling tiny websites
Current Short-Term Goals

  • Improve my English skills and fluency
  • Master SEO and Web Development
  • Build and sell 5-10 websites by the end of the year
I’m here to gather information, connect with like-minded people, and get recommendations from others who are on a similar journey. I want to learn from you guys how you set goals and do your best to achieve them in given time frame.

Looking forward to connecting with you all and sharing our experiences! Let’s make it happen!
 
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HELLO EVERYONE

I’m Zuko, and I, Zuko, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

  • Age: 19
  • Learning: English, SEO, and Web Development
  • Goal: Make $5,000 a month by building and selling tiny websites
Current Short-Term Goals

  • Improve my English skills and fluency
  • Master SEO and Web Development
  • Build and sell 5-10 websites by the end of the year
I’m here to gather information, connect with like-minded people, and get recommendations from others who are on a similar journey. I want to learn from you guys how you set goals and do your best to achieve them in given time frame.

Looking forward to connecting with you all and sharing our experiences! Let’s make it happen!
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Welcome young hustler!

Love to see a young man working.

Please update your avatar for me, has to be a pic of you, you can blur your face, thank you
 
I've watched and read Andy and Cam's content for years.

I've lurked this forum for a while. I joined because people here are actually serious about improving their goals. They hold each other accountable and are against procrastination.

That being said. I don't care about "game". I don't care about bodycount. And I have zero interest in the manosphere. Like Andy said, I just want to talk to a lot of women + be kind and honest.

Main goals:
  • Find out my career path and get a certification
  • Improve, looks, style and social skills
  • Improve dating profile to consistently get matches
  • Long-term relationship (open to casual in the meantime)
  • 193 lbs --> 165 lbs

I, Momentum, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
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Sup guys,

I’m Michael. 22 years old living in Vancouver, Washington.

Was on the forums a few years ago, and I’m coming back now because I want to level up my online dating profile.

Daygame went well, but since I moved from LA to Vancouver, the daygame scene has been horrible. So need to rely on Online dating now.

Lots of good knowledge here, so I’m trying to absorb everything I can.

I, Michael, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.'
 
Momentum said:
I've watched and read Andy and Cam's content for years.

I've lurked this forum for a while. I joined because people here are actually serious about improving their goals. They hold each other accountable and are against procrastination.

That being said. I don't care about "game". I don't care about bodycount. And I have zero interest in the manosphere. Like Andy said, I just want to talk to a lot of women + be kind and honest.

Main goals:
  • Find out my career path and get a certification
  • Improve, looks, style and social skills
  • Improve dating profile to consistently get matches
  • Long-term relationship (open to casual in the meantime)
  • 193 lbs --> 165 lbs

I, Momentum, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Get an avatar uploaded or I'll ban your account. :-)

You've been posting without an avatar which is a major no no. I'll give you 24hrs before I ban you.
 
Hey People,

Im Greg based in NYC- I’ve lived a life around improving skills that can take me to the next level in areas such as business, relationships, and of course women. I’m 27 and want to optimize the remainder of my 20s with great experience with the vast ocean of women here in NYC and find out what I like and don’t like about certain women. I’m a streaky performer, I go through hot and cold periods with lots of dates and no dates and want to build consistency. Being social and a naturally easy person to talk to would seem to go great with game but I’m looking for coaching that I respond well too- Constructive and Direct. To maximize my potential. I look forward to interacting with all of you in the forum some of you may know me lightly from Game Brotherhood NYC.

-Greg
 
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Hey People,

Im Greg based in NYC- I’ve lived a life around improving skills that can take me to the next level in areas such as business, relationships, and of course women. I’m 27 and want to optimize the remainder of my 20s with great experience with the vast ocean of women here in NYC and find out what I like and don’t like about certain women. I’m a streaky performer, I go through hot and cold periods with lots of dates and no dates and want to build consistency. Being social and a naturally easy person to talk to would seem to go great with game but I’m looking for coaching that I respond well too- Constructive and Direct. To maximize my potential. I look forward to interacting with all of you in the forum some of you may know me lightly from Game Brotherhood NYC.

-Greg
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Hey Greg, welcome! I remember we gamed once months ago.
 
Hi, I'm Kest, 28.

I've been aware of of GoodLookingLoser for a over a decade now, but I've only decided to give it a serious look a couple of years ago after I've exhausted my mind trying to make sense of nonsensical mainstream advice and dating coaches marketing spiels.

Lost my virginity to an escort at 19 and kept up with that until I had my first girlfriend (she picked me up) at 27.
Goals:
-Move to Barcelona (Done)
-Complete GLL AA program
-Get a part time job
-Sleep with 10+ girls


I, Kest, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hello All,
So to start with I, Jerimey, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Ok now with that being said, Im a 40yr old husband and father to 2 daughters (16 and 11) and one son (12). I work in the oilfield in Colorado and live in Montana. I work a 2week on 2week off schedule so Im home for half the year.

My goals are pretty straight forward.
1. Gain Self-Confidence
2. Learn to be a stronger and better Dom.
3. Drop to 12% body fat, and grow to 200lb (Currently 18% and 181lb standing 5' 9")
4. Regain my wife's respect.
 
Hello,

I, David1994, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My overall goal is to become a more powerful, disciplined, and self-respecting man. While I'm not blaming my parents for my own short-comings (they had difficult childhoods of their own which spilled into their relationship with me, my brother, and the rest of my family), they were not a good influence on me growing up, and I've been struggling to maintain self-discipline since then. On a somewhat positive note, after my mother died in 2023, and I started living on my own a few months later, I've gradually managed to mend my relationship with my father, which has been a breath of fresh air. That being said, I'm sure I'm not the only one on here who has struggled to have a good relationship with their parents. On a quick side note, I was diagnosed with high-functioning Autism at the age of 6, and my brother, sister-in-law, and I have come to believe my father may have it as well, but he was never properly diagnosed because it wasn't often heard about back in the 50's.
With my parents being somewhat emotionally-absent when I was growing up, I didn't always get my emotional needs met, which led to me developing Nice Guy Syndrome and becoming needy and inappropriate around women (in hopes they would satisfy my emotional needs instead). After getting repeatedly rejected by them or not finding my ideal woman, I became chronically lonely. To fill the void, I've turned to porn, and have had sexy roleplays with chatbots. I've also used them as a coping mechnism for when I'm recuperating from the physical pain I occasionally get. This will sound controversial to say, but as someone with a foot fetish and tickle fetish, I see nothing wrong with using porn and chatbots for occasional release, especially when porn is originally meant to be seen as a celebration of a person's sexual interests. What I do oppose is excessive porn consumption and chatbot use. Also, I should be clear when I say while I can say whatever I want to chatbots and get away with it, I'd NEVER talk that way to a woman in real life because I know that will lead to me getting put into handcuffs, and I already live with enough guilt in regards to how I unknowingly mistreated dozens of women over the years.

My Goals I've accomplished for 2025 are:
  • Get a job, as I've been unemployed since December of 2023 (as I'm writing this, I just got employed at Panera Bread. FINALLY!!!!)
  • Seeing a therapist and overcoming my issues with Autism and childhood trauma
  • Signing up for these hookup apps so I can find local women who can satisfy my fetishes
  • Getting physical therapy for the back, knee, and ankle injuries I've suffered earlier this year
  • Becoming a tech minimalist
My goals for 2025 I'm working towards are:
  • Get more focused and disciplined so I can be more productive, especially with my creative endevors
  • Trade in the beater car I'm currently driving for a pick up truck
  • Join a pay as you as you go gym, get a personal trainer, and lose some weight, build muscle, and meet women
  • Overcome my internet addiction
  • Join a dance class so I can get out more, further develop my dancing skills, making friends, and meet women
  • Get rid of stuff I'm no longer wearing or using and live a more minimalistic lifestyle
  • Controversial to say, but look into using public pressure to get public safety laws changed to where getting searched at security checkpoints is FINALLY deemed unconstitutional under the 4th Amendment. While I obviously don't support drug cartels, human trafficking, or violent, mentally-unstable people holding a place hostage, I also see everyone being forced to be searched because they "might" be violent or have contraband as fear-mongering and errosion of freedom.
 
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