Hey guys. I was feeling down cause I'm not seeing results from approaching. I've been approaching for the last month and I've just been able to have 2 dates.
I had two horrible lazy days yesterday and today. Today, near the afternoon, I decided to read my goals again to renew my motivation and also look backward to identify my mistakes and areas I should improve on.
My Goals
Have sex with 10 girls that are really hot before the year ends
Sell a game on Steam before the year ends
How do I define "hot"? Well, this might sound weird, but I've collected a bunch of images of girls from Tinder that I consider hot. I check this collection every once in a while when I need the motivation to keep going. A hot girl will be similar in hotness to these girls.
But, to put it in words, "hot" means for me a girl that at least has a cute face, a decent style, and a huge ass or tits. Not very specific but I'm positive that when I get laid from hot girl, I'll know it.
Getting Laid
So this is my plan:
1. Do 10 approaches per day for a week.
In this way, I get used to high-volume approaching.
By now, I'm can easily approach 7 girls a day, especially on campus. I get numbers from most of these girls.
However, as I implied before, I'm finding it difficult to turn those numbers into dates. Some of them won't respond before or after pitching the date. Some others might accept a date and then disappear the day we scheduled. And others put last-minute excuses to avoid meeting.
I know it's a numbers game and stuff, but I also feel I'm doing something wrong. So here's an honest evaluation of what I think I should improve on:
- Try not to forget the name of the girl
- Be more sexual during the approach (physical proximity, Slow, masculine tonality, Physical touch)
- Text game (Flirting, showing them slices of my life, sending them photos). Stop rushing dates
- Not reschedule a date more than once after she cancels over text. I've done this twice and yeah, it looks like I don't respect my time.
- Be more patient in general
After writing this and looking at some of my chats, I feel my problem is that I'm too impatient and that shows neediness over text and maybe during the approach. After all, it's my main goal and I spent most of my time thinking about this, which might be counteracting my efforts.
I'll try to focus on other parts of getting laid now that I've kinda built a habit of approaching consistently. I'll organize my diet first so I can build some muscle in the following months.
2. Buy another outfit including accessories.
I got a job at the university. They are going to pay me in 1 month and I'll spend it on this. I asked a relative to lend me the money so I can buy it before March ends.
I'll save the rest of the money for the next step or maybe buy some gym equipment.
3. Buy a DSRL camera (including the lens)
4. Take cool photos and upload them to dating apps and Instagram
5. Spend on Boosts and Tinder Gold until I reach my goal.
Sell a game
I'm currently working on a project I started last year. We have delayed it a lot so we're trying to finish it off
and launch it before April 10. This isn't the one I'm going to sell.
We have made a good amount of progress but we're way behind schedule. I'm starting a new semester and my teammate have things going on with his life. So we'll need to put off the deadline for the end of April. It's not ideal, I know, but it's realistic. I'll keep working everyday to make as much progress as I can.
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