Spider Jerusalem
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- Oct 11, 2021
Day 184: 13/04/2022 
️LAY 8️ FITNESS COUGAR and Rest Days 
To my continuing disbelief, I got laid again yesterday
Best lay I've had in a long time. Maybe even the best ever and certainly made up for Monday's shitty lay 
I met the Fitness Cougar 
I mentioned recently on my log for a coffee date and it ended up turning into one hell of a night... 
️LAY 8️ FITNESS COUGAR
Bit of background first: I spoke to this girl about a year ago and she ended up being in a relationship after we'd chatted for a while
I backed off as I don't go there if someone's shacked up 
I found her again on a dating site a couple days ago and we hit it off 
She pretty much said to me 'I was still single, it's just you were beating around the bush too much!' 
At the time, I wasn't as confident with chicks and with COVID and my parent's health, I flapped a bit, I'll admit. Something I regret now considering the Government in this country were so worried about COVID that they were all having parties during lockdown 
Anyway, I said to her 'Okay, meet me Tuesday at 1 P.M' and I arranged a date at a coffee shop by her place to save her travelling 
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She made it clear by text that we 'would not be having sex...' to which I replied 'cool, no pressure.'
I showed up at the place at 12:45 P.M and she rocked up about 1. She initially drove past me and waved and I thought 'Shit, she's seen me, not liked what she saw and dipped!' 
Turns out she had to turn her car round and eventually parked up. lol.
I walked over to her and met her halfway across the car park. Fuck me, this girl was good looking. Slim but toned build, long dark hair, brown eyes and awesome lips. This girl obviously looks after herself. Gave her a hug and kissed her cheek
This coffee shop was right next to a golf club, so I made the joke of 'Thank God you're here, I was getting sick of watching middle-aged men playing with their balls!' 
️️ This made her giggle 
and we headed inside. We stood at the bar and chatted a bit and I ordered her a wine whilst I had a Coke 
We sat down and I sat right next to her and we started chatting
- What she'd been up to since we last spoke
- Work
- Dating stories
- Weight/Diet stuff
- Business ownership
- Embarrassing Sex stories
She was very complimentary saying how I was her type with blue eyes and dark blonde hair, fair features etc.
She said I was thinner than she thought I'd be, but that didn't bother her. I'd sent her boxers photos a year ago and I haven't changed since then, so I think she knew how I was and she wouldn't have shown up anyway 
Eventually out of nowhere, she leaned in and said 'give me a kiss...' so I did and we were proper getting off in front of everyone. Did I give a Fuck? Nope. We eventually had a coffee ️ and she said 'I'm thinking of taking you home with me...' to which I replied 'No pressure. I'm going to the bathroom, so have a think and I'll be back in 5'. 
To my surprise, we did get out of there and back to hers. Chatted a bit more, had a drink and then we started making out on her sofa and getting into it 🛋
It was Fucking hot.
Then her phone went all of a sudden: She had someone who had to call in for an hour. 'You're gonna have to leave and we can pick this up another day...'
'Just my Fucking luck!' I thought
I dropped the suggestion that I come back in an hour, to which she agreed
I came back in an hour after making a few calls, grabbing a drink from a shop and browsing some of the forums on here. Thought I was gonna get the 'cancel text' but turned out it was all good
We carried on making out straight away and she said to me 'are you any good at massages?' I said 'Yeah I guess so, I got the hands for it...'. Told me to wait on the sofa a minute, so I did. She went upstairs and came down wearing nothing but her underwear and holding a bottle of baby oil. Fuck me. This girl was smoking hot
I gave her a full body massage which got us both pretty worked up and horny. Ended up going straight to her room after
Stripped each other off. Lots of making out, kissing, and then I went down on her for the longest time (she loves oral she told me). She eventually sat on my face and we 69'd for a long time before we had sex a couple of times and collapsed in a heap. This girl is definitely dominant which is the way that she likes it to be and she has a thing for younger guys as the guys her age tend to be ego-tripping dominant assholes. I'm happy with this. Good to try something different and it was a lotta fun
I left at 11 and said I'd catch her in a couple of days and see if she wants to hang again She mentioned she doesn't like constant ping-pong pestering messaging, so I said I wouldn't contact for a couple days.
For my own peace of mind, I am stating her now that condoms were used throughout.
I'm making a pledge with myself here and now to not text until Friday
She mentioned hanging out over the weekend so hopefully she's up for it. I'll drop her a message and see 
And that's Lay 8 in the bag. What a wild Fucking week. I think I'm gonna take a couple days off now until Saturday's date with the Italian Pole Dancer as I'm pretty beat and got stuff at home I need to take care of
Resting After 5 Girls in 5 Days
I've decided to take a few days off from dating as it has been pretty full on the past week
Friday: Date Chinese Kitten - LAY
Saturday: Date with Italian Pole Dancer - MAKEOUT
Sunday: Date with Maths Teacher - MAKEOUT
Monday: Lay with Milf who wasn't a Milf - LAY
Tuesday: Date with Fitness Cougar - LAY
So that’s 3 lays and 2 makeouts over a total of 5 days.
Pretty happy with those numbers
I also need to keep an eye on my money as I'm conscious on what I'm spending
I'm trying to be as efficient as possible whilst keeping costs low when it comes to dating, but the travelling expenses, meal, coffee and the hotel I bought - it all starts to add up 
Gonna try be smarter in the way I date to keep my bank account happy. If I think the girl is taking me for a ride e.g. free meals/coffee/validation, they get cut off 
No more meal dates from now on - strictly coffee and I'll try go for the girls who have their own place or if at a push, I'll request halves on the room to keep things fair 
Gonna start being more brutal now 🛡
Next date I've arranged is a coffee date this Saturday with Italian Pole Dancer
If that goes well, I'll pitch the bottle of wine date round her place for date 3 to keep the costs down 
Way I'm feeling I'm still going to swipe on Tinder and see what prospects are out there 
We'll see what happens and take it from there, but I probably won't be arranging any new dates until next week ️
I'll look at swiping again and chasing prospects probably from Friday as I'll be wanting to arrange dates within the next few days. Reduces the risk of girls losing interest too, as if they think they've got to wait a while, they tend to dip or lose interest pretty quickly
I'll update on here with any significant developments as regards to the dating apps Thought about meeting Rope Bunny 
but I just can't be bothered at the minute, so might keep her waiting a bit.
This is the most fun I've had in a long time I'm hopeful I can keep this streak going or just have a couple of regular girls I see throughout the week 
Gonna try work on the lock-ins with the girls who I think I'll have the most fun with and vibe with the most 
Thanks for reading
Spider 🕷
️LAY 8️ FITNESS COUGAR and Rest Days To my continuing disbelief, I got laid again yesterday
Best lay I've had in a long time. Maybe even the best ever and certainly made up for Monday's shitty lay I met the Fitness Cougar I mentioned recently on my log for a coffee date and it ended up turning into one hell of a night... ️LAY 8️ FITNESS COUGARBit of background first: I spoke to this girl about a year ago and she ended up being in a relationship after we'd chatted for a while
I backed off as I don't go there if someone's shacked up I found her again on a dating site a couple days ago and we hit it off She pretty much said to me 'I was still single, it's just you were beating around the bush too much!' At the time, I wasn't as confident with chicks and with COVID and my parent's health, I flapped a bit, I'll admit. Something I regret now considering the Government in this country were so worried about COVID that they were all having parties during lockdown Anyway, I said to her 'Okay, meet me Tuesday at 1 P.M' and I arranged a date at a coffee shop by her place to save her travelling ️ She made it clear by text that we 'would not be having sex...' to which I replied 'cool, no pressure.'
I showed up at the place at 12:45 P.M and she rocked up about 1. She initially drove past me and waved and I thought 'Shit, she's seen me, not liked what she saw and dipped!' Turns out she had to turn her car round and eventually parked up. lol. I walked over to her and met her halfway across the car park. Fuck me, this girl was good looking. Slim but toned build, long dark hair, brown eyes and awesome lips. This girl obviously looks after herself. Gave her a hug and kissed her cheek
This coffee shop was right next to a golf club, so I made the joke of 'Thank God you're here, I was getting sick of watching middle-aged men playing with their balls!' ️️ This made her giggle and we headed inside. We stood at the bar and chatted a bit and I ordered her a wine whilst I had a Coke We sat down and I sat right next to her and we started chatting
- What she'd been up to since we last spoke
- Work
- Dating stories
- Weight/Diet stuff
- Business ownership
- Embarrassing Sex stories
She was very complimentary saying how I was her type with blue eyes and dark blonde hair, fair features etc.
She said I was thinner than she thought I'd be, but that didn't bother her. I'd sent her boxers photos a year ago and I haven't changed since then, so I think she knew how I was and she wouldn't have shown up anyway Eventually out of nowhere, she leaned in and said 'give me a kiss...' so I did and we were proper getting off in front of everyone. Did I give a Fuck? Nope. We eventually had a coffee ️ and she said 'I'm thinking of taking you home with me...' to which I replied 'No pressure. I'm going to the bathroom, so have a think and I'll be back in 5'. To my surprise, we did get out of there and back to hers. Chatted a bit more, had a drink and then we started making out on her sofa and getting into it 🛋
It was Fucking hot.
Then her phone went all of a sudden: She had someone who had to call in for an hour. 'You're gonna have to leave and we can pick this up another day...'
'Just my Fucking luck!' I thought
I dropped the suggestion that I come back in an hour, to which she agreed
I came back in an hour after making a few calls, grabbing a drink from a shop and browsing some of the forums on here. Thought I was gonna get the 'cancel text' but turned out it was all good
We carried on making out straight away and she said to me 'are you any good at massages?' I said 'Yeah I guess so, I got the hands for it...'. Told me to wait on the sofa a minute, so I did. She went upstairs and came down wearing nothing but her underwear and holding a bottle of baby oil. Fuck me. This girl was smoking hot
I gave her a full body massage which got us both pretty worked up and horny. Ended up going straight to her room after
Stripped each other off. Lots of making out, kissing, and then I went down on her for the longest time (she loves oral she told me). She eventually sat on my face and we 69'd for a long time before we had sex a couple of times and collapsed in a heap. This girl is definitely dominant which is the way that she likes it to be and she has a thing for younger guys as the guys her age tend to be ego-tripping dominant assholes. I'm happy with this. Good to try something different and it was a lotta fun
I left at 11 and said I'd catch her in a couple of days and see if she wants to hang again
She mentioned she doesn't like constant ping-pong pestering messaging, so I said I wouldn't contact for a couple days.For my own peace of mind, I am stating her now that condoms were used throughout.
I'm making a pledge with myself here and now to not text until Friday
She mentioned hanging out over the weekend so hopefully she's up for it. I'll drop her a message and see And that's Lay 8 in the bag. What a wild Fucking week. I think I'm gonna take a couple days off now until Saturday's date with the Italian Pole Dancer as I'm pretty beat and got stuff at home I need to take care of
Resting After 5 Girls in 5 Days
I've decided to take a few days off from dating as it has been pretty full on the past week
Friday: Date Chinese Kitten - LAY
Saturday: Date with Italian Pole Dancer - MAKEOUT
Sunday: Date with Maths Teacher - MAKEOUT
Monday: Lay with Milf who wasn't a Milf - LAY
Tuesday: Date with Fitness Cougar - LAY
So that’s 3 lays and 2 makeouts over a total of 5 days.
Pretty happy with those numbers
I also need to keep an eye on my money as I'm conscious on what I'm spending
I'm trying to be as efficient as possible whilst keeping costs low when it comes to dating, but the travelling expenses, meal, coffee and the hotel I bought - it all starts to add up Gonna try be smarter in the way I date to keep my bank account happy. If I think the girl is taking me for a ride e.g. free meals/coffee/validation, they get cut off No more meal dates from now on - strictly coffee and I'll try go for the girls who have their own place or if at a push, I'll request halves on the room to keep things fair Gonna start being more brutal now 🛡Next date I've arranged is a coffee date this Saturday with Italian Pole Dancer
If that goes well, I'll pitch the bottle of wine date round her place for date 3 to keep the costs down Way I'm feeling I'm still going to swipe on Tinder and see what prospects are out there We'll see what happens and take it from there, but I probably won't be arranging any new dates until next week ️ I'll look at swiping again and chasing prospects probably from Friday as I'll be wanting to arrange dates within the next few days. Reduces the risk of girls losing interest too, as if they think they've got to wait a while, they tend to dip or lose interest pretty quickly
I'll update on here with any significant developments as regards to the dating apps
Thought about meeting Rope Bunny but I just can't be bothered at the minute, so might keep her waiting a bit.This is the most fun I've had in a long time
I'm hopeful I can keep this streak going or just have a couple of regular girls I see throughout the week Gonna try work on the lock-ins with the girls who I think I'll have the most fun with and vibe with the most Thanks for reading
Spider 🕷
She said she was home alone last night 
I made her laugh a lot and just teased her which put her at ease 
She agreed for 2 P.M 
I ended up hitting up the Maths Teacher I saw Sunday night and we had some phone sex which got quite intense... 
I've also told her that I left the house 
I had an advantage here as I have done all the below in-person to a girl I saw a couple years ago and I know that this girl is submissive and what her kinks are ⛓ 
so she can see everything. Told her I'm then going to demand she 'look at me.' and raise her head so her eyes meet mine by lifting her chin up 
trip, but she's offered me a 'weekend of debauchery' and she's got quite a few toys which I'd like to get experienced with, so I think I'd get a lot out of it 
I'm a little pissed I'll be honest, but it is what it is 
See what she says as she mentioned being up for hanging out maybe 
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From what I can tell, it's nothing I've done, it's just the 2 Flakes being unreliable, lazy, lacking self-awareness, leading me on, etc. 
She's also offered to give me some advice and assistance as regards my back, weight gain and general fitness 
This could work out quite well if I play my cards right 
and keep things running smooth as I feel I could learn a lot from her 
here in my country and I feel this could be a good opportunity to rack up some new prospects 
I've decided to get serious and back on track with the self-improvement 
I know I log on here as well, but I like the feeling of something physical in my hands 
close to the city centre where all the action is 🗺 About a 20 minute walk 
from the main attractions. For the whole week, it's 500 Bucks U.S for me and the chick I'm travelling with 
This is purely a matter of misfortune and bad timing as she moved back down South the day after our spontaneous date and was on her period when I saw her, so couldn't close the deal before she left 
I'll hit her up when she's back in my town next month and give her a tug to see if she wants to Fuck and these ideas have left her head 
takes us up to a grand total of 3 Flakes in the space of 4 Days. Shit happens I suppose 
and I was greeted at the top of the stairs by her just wearing a cute thong 
which Badoo lets you do now and sent them back 
I'm thinking I could write articles on various topics and produce content 
bit the bullet and bought a domain name and signed up to a website builder 
Latina MILF 
and was about to dip out on her 
and she ended up asking her friend who gave permission for me to get her Instagram handle 
She normally charges for shit like this, but she's said 'just bring me a bottle of wine and pay me back in kind next time I see you...' 
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Pretty happy with how this arrangement is turning out 
Standard practice going forward