colgate / bulldog
Member
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2021
- Goal
- BANG!! japanese chicks!
- Age
- 27
- Motto
- consistency. acceptance. tumescence.
- Location
- tokyo, japan
Too scared to approach?
Hate going to the gym?
Too lazy to take a bunch of dating profile pictures?
We all have things we know we need to do, but don't want to do.
This thread will be a container for getting YOU to TAKE SOME FUCKIN ACTION!!!
by BETTING on yourself
RULES AND GUIDELINES
1. Post an action in the following format:
3. Either:
EXAMPLE
Happy Path
Sad Path
This is 100% on the honor system. You're betting on yourself so you can lie if you want but you're only lying to yourself lol.
The point of donating to a shitty charity (or any other thing you don't want to give money to) is that there is no way you can weasel out of doing the action "for a better cause". It should feel painful to have to give away the money.
Try to keep longer explanation posts and reflection in your own logs, we should keep this thread only for the actions.
DOES THIS WORK???
If you actually do it lol. You can bookmark this page (I did) so it's easier to post and access.
The purpose of doing this is to be honest with yourself, put your balls on the line with the actions you feel high resistance towards, and then go and do them, no matter how small the action is. You can even post that you're going to make your bed tomorrow morning.
In Winter 2022, @Thrice opened a thread soliciting people to help him fix his sleep schedule by this type of "bounty" system. Myself and a few other members of the KYIL forums decided to create a small WhatsApp group for this purpose. From putting money towards causes we HATED on the line just to wake up early, all of us started having regular sleep schedules. I went from staying up all night and being nocturnal to consistently waking up at 6:30am everyday to see the sunrise.
@lacroix also posted an accountability Telegram group. He used this group to push himself to do the AA program and approach in Korea, and ended up netting 10 daygame lays in 5.5 months. I have been using this group myself to do the AA program and go to boxing class.
@MakingAComeback's suggestion to also have some form of this thread on the forums is a great idea, so I figured I will make the thread.
Some people might like to post publicly in this thread where there are more eyeballs, others may prefer the group chat format. I opened up this thread so you have options if you want to participate in some accountability. I will be posting in both the Telegram group and here.
FUCK I'M A VIRGIN! TIME TO HUSTLE!
Hate going to the gym?
Too lazy to take a bunch of dating profile pictures?
We all have things we know we need to do, but don't want to do.
This thread will be a container for getting YOU to TAKE SOME FUCKIN ACTION!!!
by BETTING on yourself
RULES AND GUIDELINES
1. Post an action in the following format:
- What: an objective and quantitative action
- When: deadline by which you will do the action by
- Bounty: monetary amount and SHITTY charity/cause that you DO NOT want to donate to
3. Either:
- If you did the action, GREAT JOB! Reply to your original post that you finished the action (a simple "done" is fine, or optionally a proof picture)
- If you DID NOT complete the action in time, post proof that you paid the bounty.
EXAMPLE
Happy PathSad PathThis is 100% on the honor system. You're betting on yourself so you can lie if you want but you're only lying to yourself lol.
The point of donating to a shitty charity (or any other thing you don't want to give money to) is that there is no way you can weasel out of doing the action "for a better cause". It should feel painful to have to give away the money.
Try to keep longer explanation posts and reflection in your own logs, we should keep this thread only for the actions.
DOES THIS WORK???
If you actually do it lol. You can bookmark this page (I did) so it's easier to post and access.
The purpose of doing this is to be honest with yourself, put your balls on the line with the actions you feel high resistance towards, and then go and do them, no matter how small the action is. You can even post that you're going to make your bed tomorrow morning.
In Winter 2022, @Thrice opened a thread soliciting people to help him fix his sleep schedule by this type of "bounty" system. Myself and a few other members of the KYIL forums decided to create a small WhatsApp group for this purpose. From putting money towards causes we HATED on the line just to wake up early, all of us started having regular sleep schedules. I went from staying up all night and being nocturnal to consistently waking up at 6:30am everyday to see the sunrise.
@lacroix also posted an accountability Telegram group. He used this group to push himself to do the AA program and approach in Korea, and ended up netting 10 daygame lays in 5.5 months. I have been using this group myself to do the AA program and go to boxing class.
@MakingAComeback's suggestion to also have some form of this thread on the forums is a great idea, so I figured I will make the thread.
Some people might like to post publicly in this thread where there are more eyeballs, others may prefer the group chat format. I opened up this thread so you have options if you want to participate in some accountability. I will be posting in both the Telegram group and here.
FUCK I'M A VIRGIN! TIME TO HUSTLE!
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