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THE ACCOUNTABILITY THREAD - 🤑 BET ON YOURSELF 🤑

Joined
Aug 5, 2021
Goal
BANG!! japanese chicks!
Age
27
Motto
consistency. acceptance. tumescence.
Location
tokyo, japan
Too scared to approach?
Hate going to the gym?
Too lazy to take a bunch of dating profile pictures?

We all have things we know we need to do, but don't want to do.

This thread will be a container for getting YOU to TAKE SOME FUCKIN ACTION!!!

by BETTING on yourself



RULES AND GUIDELINES
1. Post an action in the following format:
  • What: an objective and quantitative action
  • When: deadline by which you will do the action by
  • Bounty: monetary amount and SHITTY charity/cause that you DO NOT want to donate to
2. Do the action by the deadline you set
3. Either:
  • ✅If you did the action, GREAT JOB! Reply to your original post that you finished the action (a simple "done" is fine, or optionally a proof picture)
  • ❌If you DID NOT complete the action in time, post proof that you paid the bounty.



EXAMPLE
✅Happy Path
what: I will walk up to five girls in a banana suit and tell them to FUCK OFF.
when: tuesday 5pm (japan time)
bounty: $50 feminist majority
what: I will walk up to five girls in a banana suit and tell them to FUCK OFF.
when: tuesday 5pm (japan time)
bounty: $50 feminist majority
done

❌Sad Path
what: i will go to boxing
when: tonight (wednesday)
bounty: $25 feminist majority
what: i will go to boxing
when: tonight (wednesday)
bounty: $25 feminist majority

fuck i spent a bunch of time playing on my phone and it became too late to go


This is 100% on the honor system. You're betting on yourself so you can lie if you want but you're only lying to yourself lol.

The point of donating to a shitty charity (or any other thing you don't want to give money to) is that there is no way you can weasel out of doing the action "for a better cause". It should feel painful to have to give away the money.

Try to keep longer explanation posts and reflection in your own logs, we should keep this thread only for the actions.



DOES THIS WORK???
If you actually do it lol. You can bookmark this page (I did) so it's easier to post and access.

The purpose of doing this is to be honest with yourself, put your balls on the line with the actions you feel high resistance towards, and then go and do them, no matter how small the action is. You can even post that you're going to make your bed tomorrow morning.

In Winter 2022, @Thrice opened a thread soliciting people to help him fix his sleep schedule by this type of "bounty" system. Myself and a few other members of the KYIL forums decided to create a small WhatsApp group for this purpose. From putting money towards causes we HATED on the line just to wake up early, all of us started having regular sleep schedules. I went from staying up all night and being nocturnal to consistently waking up at 6:30am everyday to see the sunrise.

@lacroix also posted an accountability Telegram group. He used this group to push himself to do the AA program and approach in Korea, and ended up netting 10 daygame lays in 5.5 months. I have been using this group myself to do the AA program and go to boxing class.

@MakingAComeback's suggestion to also have some form of this thread on the forums is a great idea, so I figured I will make the thread.

Some people might like to post publicly in this thread where there are more eyeballs, others may prefer the group chat format. I opened up this thread so you have options if you want to participate in some accountability. I will be posting in both the Telegram group and here.



FUCK I'M A VIRGIN! TIME TO HUSTLE!
 
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what: boxing
when: tonight (tuesday 4/23)
bounty: $50 feminist majority
 
what: i will timer lock my phone
when: after boxing
bounty: $50 feminist majority
 
colgate said:
what: i will timer lock my phone
when: after boxing
bounty: $50 feminist majority

setting this until after noon tomorrow see ya
 
what: AA program day 14
when: Wednesday 8pm
bounty: $50 feminist majority

what: boxing
when: Wednesday night
bounty: $50 feminist majority
 
colgate said:
what: AA program day 14
when: Wednesday 8pm
bounty: $50 feminist majority

done
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=75426#p75426
 
colgate said:
what: boxing
when: Wednesday night
bounty: $50 feminist majority

egh i got lazy and sat on the computer. should have just directly gone to boxing and reflected on my AA drill afterwards
 
what: AA program day 14 continued
when: tomorrow (thursday) 8pm
bounty: $50 feminist majority

i have random ass meetings in the evening so i need to wake up early and get as much work as i can in the morning so i can do this in the afternoon

what: boxing
when: thursday night
bounty: $50 feminist majority
 
what: wake up at 10, do 5 approach for the day
when: friday 26th. april
bounty: 100 euros to Aspire2Greatness's favorite male escort.
 
colgate said:
what: AA program day 14 continued
when: tomorrow (thursday) 8pm
bounty: $50 feminist majority

what: boxing
when: thursday night
bounty: $50 feminist majority

the AA drill goal was ILL-DEFINED. i went out and got a single high five from four approaches. i surveyed the accountability chat and they let it slide since i did "technically go out and continue the drill". but you want your actions to have specific end points.

boxing was done
 
what: AA program day 14, 20 "surveys" or finish (7/20)
when: tonight 8pm
bounty: $50 feminist majority

what: boxing
when: tonight
bounty: $50 feminist majority
 
colgate said:
what: AA program day 14, 20 "surveys" or finish (7/20)
when: tonight 8pm
bounty: $50 feminist majority

what: boxing
when: tonight
bounty: $50 feminist majority

both done

exceeded expectations on AA program, managed to get my 20 (14) high fives in 30-35 ish approaches and 24 "surveys"
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=75495#p75495

 
Olafsmash said:
what: wake up at 10, do 5 approach for the day
when: friday 26th. april
bounty: 100 euros to @Aspire2Greatness's favorite male escort.

done
 
what: I will lose my virginity
when: Before summer ends, 31 august
bounty: cold shower every morning for the rest of the year
 
I like the idea but is it a bit confusing if we all mix in onw thread? In fact at first i thought this one would be just for colgate
 
Chamele0n said:
what: I will lose my virginity
when: Before summer ends, 31 august
bounty: cold shower every morning for the rest of the year

i think the bounty should be something you can do relatively quickly, because will you actually commit to a cold shower every day for the rest of the year??
 
Thrice said:
I like the idea but is it a bit confusing if we all mix in onw thread? In fact at first i thought this one would be just for colgate

it's a new thread so we'll see. i like the idea of everyone posting on one thread because it's kind of like a group chat (you can reply and shit to previous messages too). feel free to post on your own thread (like your log) though.
 
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