Homie forget London, that is the worst place for cold approach in the world after NYC, if you're not: (a) white, (b) willing to become a true day game warrior.
Europe, is fantastic for day game.
I am living life in Budapest, and approach 7 days a week. Talking to pretty girls daily, it's fun. I found Poland was also good, Krakow and Warsaw.
The thing is, you evidence the real problems above: you think girls are looking at you like you're a creep, etc, due to trauma and mental health problems.
The dating game, if you're a minority, is going to be a lot of grinding, will be quite rough at the best of times, and will be a multi year journey. If you're not good looking, and not a guy girls naturally like, geuss what, you wiill need to become a fucking CAST IRON MAN, because the game will make you go to extreme lengths for a minuscule crumb of progress, and poof, it's gone.....
You will need to do a tonne of healing man. Like, a tonne. You should find a lot of support, read, study, connect with this sort of community.
People forget, I spent YEARS getting my health and mental health right. You think I am bad now? Should have seen me a few years ago lol.
When guys have deep issues in their mind, this needs to be prioritised.
Mo can make it, but he needs to heal, and develop a lot of mental strength.
It can be done - I myself have to put in extreme grinding, and basically live a life that is WAR, just to get a text, let alone a date, let alone a lay, which I've not had in 9 months.
What we gloss over, is for males whose SMV is lower, and who are not getting preselected (no to few matches, dating is slow as fuck at the best of times), there is a pathway for success, but it is the numbers game on steroids pretty much and a case of endless, endless grinding, endlessly improving, and only seeing fleeting success here and there.
Chris, said these guys should not be approaching. Chris said these guys need to heal.
I agree.
I spent 4 years healing.
I then came here, and became The Godfather of Grinding. I reconstructed myself out of fucking steel.
Essentially, Mo is going to have to do the same thing.
If him getting nothing on the apps caused him a mental breakdown, how will he survive this game? I had NOTHING on the apps for 7-8 months, and even when I got new pics, still got fuckin REKT. I was shadow banned. Now, I am getting a little something. Nothing major, far from anything to write home about, and no dates or anything.
This, requires basically extreme mental strength to withstand the endless shitstorm, year after year.
We need to be careful when advising hardcases.
Mo, can get a girlfriend and find love for himself. But that, will be after proper healing work, and he will need to get to the point when he no longer feels he is being looked at like a creep or girls are avoiding eye contact.
I assure you, none of that is happening, no one is avoiding eye contact, he is just anxious, stressed, and has some mental illness.
If he was chill as FUCK, confident, cool, he'd thrive socially like the rest of us.
I know because I was him, totally fucked in the head, 10 x more mentally ill than he is right now.
I got here and that's atleast something
My 2C
Ravi