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Thrice log. weird saturday night

Thrice said:
It also feels strange because only chads get invitations at home directly, in fact, i'm the one who tried to "prove" this for years doing tinder experiments with fake male model profiles. And now at 35 i just lived that same experience
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Yeah congrats. You never gave up and prove yourself wrong
 
Congrats Thrice! It's been a long time coming. How many lays do you have or was this your first (non-hooker)?

This made me so happy, and this is what I'm fuckin' talking about! As long as you keep putting yourself in situations where getting laid is a possibility, eventually it will happen. And once you get the ball rolling, it will start happening more.
 
Squilliam said:
And I will say from experience that crazy girls are usually the best in bed.
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Thanks!
this girl is a beast, she wanted a second round so bad but i couldn't, she was cool about and din't pressure me. She tried to blow but i couldn't stay hard to put the condom again so i'm thinking of buying something like cialis, it's very hard to get here unfortunately

Terminator said:
Congrats Thrice! It's been a long time coming. How many lays do you have or was this your first (non-hooker)?

This made me so happy, and this is what I'm fuckin' talking about! As long as you keep putting yourself in situations where getting laid is a possibility, eventually it will happen. And once you get the ball rolling, it will start happening more.
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Thank you brother! yes it's my first time, i hope it's the beginning of a new era for me

colgate said:
hell yes!!! more to come!
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thanks brother :)

SpongeBob said:
Yeah congrats. You never gave up and prove yourself wrong
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Yes, i'm so slow and autistic, i have nothing to teach except for the fact that i have a HUGE patience. There's posts of me complaining about this stuff from 20 years ago...
 
FUCKING LEGEND

A TRUE WINNER WITHIN SUCCESS STORY

I fuckin cried my ass off reading this

FUCK

I AM SO THANKFUL I GOT TO SEE THIS DAY
 
Thought I said this yesterday but that was Good to read!
Hoping for more success to come
 
This fucking dude stayed at it since GLL

I have not seen too many like this. I also stuck at it since I was 18 and started getting results 12 years later lul.
 
MakingAComeback said:
This fucking dude stayed at it since GLL

I have not seen too many like this. I also stuck at it since I was 18 and started getting results 12 years later lul.
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talk about hard cases hahahah, thank you brother!

Yesterday, for the first time, I went to the only club I always avoided till now because it has many young girls aged 18/25 and I was a bit intimidated. Once there the experience was not that bad, everyone is minding their own business anyway.

Compared to other clubs I was shocked, too many beautiful young girls, too many. I met a friend and offered him a cocktail so I could hang out with them, once with a group I was able to dancefloor, it's chaotic and difficult to look for IOI's there but still had fun dancing to big 2000's hits

Had eye contact from a couple of girls but didn't approach, too difficult, she was dancing in a circle with her girlfriends. In the smoking area there's more space and room for eye contact but I didn't get any.

So didn't warm approach and didn't cold approach either. It's only the second time I go out alone so let's be positive.
The girls were very beautiful, I'm sweating below-average results with average or below-average girls on Tinder but the girls I want to fuck were in that club and most of them aren't even on Tinder because it's so easy for them to find guys so they don't think about an app.

The guy I met (and for whom I bought a cocktail so I could have an excuse to hang out with his group) had two female friends aged like 20/22 I think. Amazing silky hair and skin, I would like to tap that, even get a temporary girlfriend like that to see what it feels like because I never had one. Yet I'm spending a lot of money and resources for Tinder and i'm not getting back enough to justify the effort.

Move/stay, just accept the situation until I buy a car, and try to get a group of friends and bandmates to create a cool ig page. Forget and move to a bigger city now. Improve my Tinder pics, pancake and September said I'm 20% looks and I still didn't take their advice to take better pictures. Pancake said I could look like a model with better pictures yet I didn't do everything

I'm the type of autistic guy for whom it takes ages to put advice into practice, at least that's how my brain works when I'm alone. When I have a friend with the same goals I work like a maniac but don't have any no

I don't if I have to text the American girl again or not, already asked her if she's free, even if I fucked her like a slut I still don't want to look desperate and lose her for no reason. She looks still interested but I assume she's looking for other guys on tinder and probably invite someone else tonight to fuck her. I assume we will never meet again.
 
Thrice said:
I don't if I have to text the American girl again or not, already asked her if she's free, even if I fucked her like a slut I still don't want to look desperate and lose her for no reason. She looks still interested but I assume she's looking for other guys on tinder and probably invite someone else tonight to fuck her. I assume we will never meet again.
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Solid texting but careful about defusing tension unecessarily with double/triple texts. I would have left the "meat on that ass" line cause it's an incredible line and only sent the follow up if she didn't respond well.
 
I am fucking crying again reading this dude.

I am beyond proud of Mo.

This has really hit me deep.

I MUST BUILD THIS FORUM

I must save other men like this.

Mo, you are now a legend to me. I work hard in my life to try to be a positive example of hard case success. I came from hell, from the sewer of this world. I am determined as FUCK to see other men from bad backgrounds get the hell out and into success.

KEEP FUCKING WORKING

You are now on your way to becoming a hard case success story.

Go win, and show others it can be done.

LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

This has motivated me and brought my savage back out, so I thank you for your hustle. You have fucking inspired my brown ass to go dark again and bring some brutality back out

-MAC DADDY

THE GODFATHER OF GRINDING
 
Thanks a lot guys! I really appreciate your support!

MakingAComeback said:
This has motivated me and brought my savage back out, so I thank you for your hustle. You have fucking inspired my brown ass to go dark again and bring some brutality back out
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hahah Mac you sure don't need me for motivation you're a beast in this regard


So on saturday the choice was between an easy lay with american girl or go out to "night game" again, I chose the letter.
The sex with american girl is intense, she's really into me and wants to do all nasty stuff to her, we fuck like in porn movies and had rock hard erection thanks to 10mg of Cialis but I'm not really emotionally satisfied.

The kind of girls I would prefer are not liking my profile on Tinder and I still haven't found a way to make night game efficient.
The girls I saw Friday night are the ones i would like to fuck the most and the ones that would make me more emotionally involved and help raise my low libido.
I improved too much compared to years ago to be negative about it so I will find a way to make it happen.

moving or staying here will be the toughest choice I think
 
You'll get them man, for sure.

Keep working, staying dedicated, and make it happen.

-MAC
 
Thrice said:
So on saturday the choice was between an easy lay with american girl or go out to "night game" again, I chose the letter.
The sex with american girl is intense, she's really into me and wants to do all nasty stuff to her, we fuck like in porn movies and had rock hard erection thanks to 10mg of Cialis but I'm not really emotionally satisfied.
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Wow, this is an EXTREMELY good mentality.

And also why American girls are the best. Buncha nasty lovable freaks.
 
Usually in this situation the conversation just dies, they don't really reply when i try to ask her for a time and place that suits on the weekend

In this case is just Tuesday, should i come up with a time and place, make her agree and text her the day before the date or just send some texts till the weekend comes?
 
Thrice said:
In this case is just Tuesday, should i come up with a time and place, make her agree and text her the day before the date or just send some texts till the weekend comes?
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I think your best move is to pick a venue that's convenient for you + that is a cool place the girl would want to go to. Message her: "Okay. Let's do Friday at [place] at [time]. Let me know: [insert your phone number or whatsapp]." The sooner the date is scheduled, the better. Once she agrees, I would just say, "Looking forward to it cutie." Usually, I also send a screenshot of a reservation if I make one. I never message the girl any more after that. The chance of her losing interest is too high, and, in any case, the purpose of the date is for you guys to get to know each other. Message her Friday morning to confirm.
 
Thrice said:
i try to ask her for a time
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Just my 2 cents.

I am trying to avoid "asking" chicks about logistics (and other stuff) as much as possible.

Example:
When are you free?

What I text instead:
I am free Tuesday and Wednesday at 5pm. (Gave her 2 options here. Exact time too)
... She agrees to some option.
Cool. Will pick you up at SomeLocation there is nice coffee place next to it.

If you can make decisions for the girl it is usually good for you.
1) Shows competence and the fact you can lead.
2) She does not have to come up with anything => less ghosting.

The "asking" for stuff is a whole rabbit hole in itself.
Like what it means socially etc.
There are situations when you have to ask.
But when you can rewrite the sentece without using the "?". Most of the time it works better.

This decision making applies to other stuff too.
"What should I wear?" => "Wear those high heels & black dress for me tonight."
Instead of.
"What should I wear?" => "I dont know baby you decide:)"...
 
Red said:
too)
... She agrees to some option.
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But if she doesn't agree on those 2 options i find myself in a worse situation than if i just asked when are you free
 
Thrice said:
Red said:
too)
... She agrees to some option.
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But if she doesn't agree on those 2 options i find myself in a worse situation than if i just asked when are you free
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Yeah it's a balancing act. I've tested both throughout my career and found that it's very context-dependent. Right now my heuristic is:

Younger girls: I tell them one or two options
Older girls: I ask them what their schedule is like
 
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