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I have a very good relationship with my father so I’ll take a stab at this. My relationship with my father looks like this: I live far from home, but I’ll call my father on the phone every 1-3 days. I’ll usually update him on whatever is going on in my life and we’ll discuss common interests we...

Okay, I think you should dig a little deeper than just I tend to be negative. Like what kind of thoughts are we talking about. Is it “it sucks that it’s raining” or “my life sucks” because those are very different. “This movie is boring” or “I hate my job” Etc. Are these trivial thoughts or...

I think it depends on what specific anxieties/negative thoughts are bothering you. Is there an area in particular? Girls, friends, money, etc.? Or a specific thought or set of thoughts or feelings?

Imo, the minimum is edgy style, good grooming, and a good pose/lighting. Low body fat is not necessarily a requirement, but it will really help you. The pose in this photo sucks (no offense.) I don’t love the haircut or outfit either tbh, but I’m not an authority on that stuff. To get an idea...

Bro I’ve seen your other pics. You look good. More than good enough to get laid on Tinder. You look better than me tbh. Your problem is your pink hair. Straight up. It’s killing you. People tiptoe around saying it definitively, because no one’s 100% sure how pics will do on Tinder, but I’m...

It’s cliché, but changing attitudes can change results as much as results can change attitudes. Results are important, but you can still change your attitude, at least somewhat, by making an effort to do so. A lot of guys fall into a trap of “I’ll have a good mindset once I succeed” but...

I heard that eye bags are far more noticeable in photos than IRL. You could probably just photoshop them out rather than getting plastic surgery. Or you could at least start with that and see if it makes a difference online. I really doubt you’d get called out for catfishing for doing that. I’m...

Is it really disrespect though? If I am getting the story right, it sounds like she wants to go sightseeing or hiking for a second date and he wants a lower effort date. I don’t think that’s disrespect. And she’s asking logistical questions and unwittingly stumbling into the lies he told, which...

Don’t take it hard, but it’s not worth using dating apps with this caliber of photo. That’s okay, most guys start off sucking at taking photos and there is an immense amount of room to improve them. https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/ Everything in part I of this guide is mandatory...

It’s understandable to get frustrated. I think most of us have been there at one point. Still, what I’ve realized is that raging at the opposite sex is not a trait of successful people. Like think about the fat girl who can’t get a boyfriend and loathes men for pumping and dumping her. You’re...

I had the same problem at first. In my experience smiling for a photo is something you will actually improve at the more you try and do it. And the best way to practice it is to go and do photo shoots. That’s why a Tri-pod and a camera is, imo, such a useful tool. You can take as many pics of...

Yeah really sucks you don’t have the money for a new device, I see some of your frustration now. ngl one thing that really helped me was having 2-4 dates lined up every week for like 2 months. It makes you a lot more willing to experiment. I’ll give my thoughts. Firstly I think “calling her...

I looked into Buccal Fat Removal. One big concern I had was the possibility of prematurely aging myself. Your cheeks naturally lose fat as they age. Buccal fat removal that looks good now, might make you look old and gaunt 5 years from now. Or it might not, that’s one of the risks. And there’s...

Honestly man I agree with your mom. Granted, she has no idea what it’s like to be a young man on Tinder, but she’s right that you are taking the ban too hard. Loads of guys have had to deal with it. And while it’s frustrating, it’s not like it would take years or a Herculean effort to get...

Honestly man, I think you may be too analytical about all this. That is very helpful in the taking photos stage, but not very helpful in the going on dates part. A date is not really a puzzle to be solved or a code to be cracked. Girl’s usually want a genuine connection with you before banging...

Bman Thanks. Your points make a lot of sense. Going to drop some weight and then try and implement it.

Back in the game after my relationship ended :( Any thoughts on how I can improve my profile? Open to any suggestions. I got some pretty decent results with these pics but I'd like to match with very attractive girls more frequently. It's like once in a blue moon right now and then half of...

Agree with everything that was said. You also could use a group pic and a hobby pic to add some variety. Not as important as being in good shape and having a good pose/lighting but it can help. For reference: https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-your-tinder-pictures-suck/

21 is still very young. You were overweight for most of your life and are playing catch up right now. A lot of young men spend their 20s doing that. In my experience, knowing how to conduct myself on dates was necessary to get most women interested in me. Like you, I was pretty inexperienced...

I actually met one of my best friends off the local seduction subreddit, although that is extremely hit or miss. Doesn’t seem like Denver has one, but you could ask about Wings in the Denver area on the seduction subreddit. I’ve also met a lot of friends doing rec kickball/dodgeball and ime a...