colgate / bulldog
Member
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2021
- Goal
- BANG!! japanese chicks!
- Age
- 27
- Motto
- consistency. acceptance. tumescence.
- Location
- tokyo, japan
I actually wasn't even going to go out but M dragged me out once again. Why am I naturally such a weenie aaaaaaggghhhhh.
I don't want to just make this log "good" stories, and since I need to hustle with nightgame for real and show progress/improvements, I'll be logging my nightgame sessions.
Nightgame
~15 approaches over 2+ hours between Midtown and Broadway.
I have a good deal of approach anxiety since I'm waaaay out of practice. Could have definitely done 25+ in that time.
notable interactions
- skinny + fat girl duo. i comment on skinny girl looking like she never eats. fat girl, who's eating a freaking hot dog, gets mad and says "that's rude!!!!!!!" LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- pink cowgirl hat duo, one with adidas strap/bag.
so ur getting married to adidas?
thats not funny...
oh ok yall dont know comedy i guess im gonna bounce (i start walking away)
omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no!!!!!!!!!!!! we know dave chappelle...etc, blah blah proceeds to explain to me for 2-3 mins about comedy
main sticking points
- Need to internalize that rejection is overwhelming majority of interactions, even at night. You're not entitled to "good interactions". I've already done this for daygame, so this will just be hustling to internalize it at night too. One kind of rejection I especially have trouble with is where the girl I'm talking to is super receptive, but the friends hate me for even existing. Rarely/never happens in daygame so I'm not as used to it.
- Keep defaulting to matter-of-fact interview mode platonic conversation. Excruciating for me, excruciating for the girl. Can't successfully escalate out of this and take rejection when she denies some sort of logistics change (bounce somewhere else, touching, moving to dance floor, etc etc).
- Too afraid to use the "childhood friend" roleplay because it "might get old". Need to also come up with more roleplay scenarios/openers.
I don't want to just make this log "good" stories, and since I need to hustle with nightgame for real and show progress/improvements, I'll be logging my nightgame sessions.
Nightgame
~15 approaches over 2+ hours between Midtown and Broadway.
I have a good deal of approach anxiety since I'm waaaay out of practice. Could have definitely done 25+ in that time.
notable interactions
- skinny + fat girl duo. i comment on skinny girl looking like she never eats. fat girl, who's eating a freaking hot dog, gets mad and says "that's rude!!!!!!!" LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- pink cowgirl hat duo, one with adidas strap/bag.
so ur getting married to adidas?
thats not funny...
oh ok yall dont know comedy i guess im gonna bounce (i start walking away)
omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no!!!!!!!!!!!! we know dave chappelle...etc, blah blah proceeds to explain to me for 2-3 mins about comedy
main sticking points
- Need to internalize that rejection is overwhelming majority of interactions, even at night. You're not entitled to "good interactions". I've already done this for daygame, so this will just be hustling to internalize it at night too. One kind of rejection I especially have trouble with is where the girl I'm talking to is super receptive, but the friends hate me for even existing. Rarely/never happens in daygame so I'm not as used to it.
- Keep defaulting to matter-of-fact interview mode platonic conversation. Excruciating for me, excruciating for the girl. Can't successfully escalate out of this and take rejection when she denies some sort of logistics change (bounce somewhere else, touching, moving to dance floor, etc etc).
- Too afraid to use the "childhood friend" roleplay because it "might get old". Need to also come up with more roleplay scenarios/openers.