seanconneryfan_ said:Club game is great and I highly recommend it for people in the college age range. Especially for noobs, it's the fastest way to become acclimated and desensitized to a girls touch and not cream your pants on your first tinder date.
Regarding courage, drink more and you'll be good.
I never gathered my thoughts about club game so I'll write some stuff here and maybe it will benefit you:
1. Talking is optional. I open girls by tapping them on their shoulder, they turn around and see me with a fun smile on my face, and I say "Hi" with that boyish cocky attitude that they die for. Last time I went out I had my tongue down some girls throat and was slamming her against the wall rubbing her tits for 10 minutes before we exchanged names and majors. We danced for maybe 15 seconds before I made out with her. Act like you've been there before and the bitches will follow your lead. I opened her when I saw her walking by me and I stopped her and started dancing.
2. Continuing from number 1, clubs are so fun to do whatever the fuck you want. Lean into your testosterone and be unapologetically male. I bounce from girl to girl like it is nobodies business. If a girl is being boring, I will walk away in the middle of her sentence and go do something else. Two weeks ago some girl wanted to dance with me and get my attention but I was busy making out with another girl, so she got some guy to buy her a drink and gave it to me, lmfao— drinks were expensive that night so I appreciated it. The guy looked at her and then me with his mouth agape, completely speechless.
3. The name of the game in the club is volume. When I want to find a girl, I wander around the club and ask myself "who is the hottest girl here", find her and then walk up and start a conversation. THERE ARE NO CONSEQUENCESSSSSSS. I wrote about this recently on someone elses log: if you like yourself, then rejections mean nothing. They don't even subconsciously register because you move on to doing something else more fun like dancing in the mosh pit with the black guys or the next girl.
4. Most important thing is having fun. If your goal is to have fun, then the girls don't matter and there's no pressure on you.
Another club story, some girl was too shy to talk to me so she asked a girl that I came with if she could introduce us lol. We were chilling with my arm around her and some dude was going to town making out with a girl while leaning on my leg. It was hilarious. Some girl was next to me with a cup of alcohol and I told her she was going to spill it, she says "no way", 2 minutes later she spills it and I laugh at her and then proceed to convince her I'm in high school.
5. Oh, and when girls ask you to buy them a drink, there is only one right answer "Fuck no" with a smile. Last time I did that the girls laughed and said "you know i had to try" and then we danced for a bit.
kratjeuh said:If your parents aren't home you can suggest drinks at your place (don't call it netflix and chill), playing some silly video game like mario kart, ...
If your place is unavaillable and your goal is to get laid, I would cancel today and suggest another day. Otherwise there are enough indoor spots to grab a smoothie, coffee, drink or something else
pancakemouse said:Couple things:
- Two hours of foreplay is a MEGA lot. I find that often I lose an erection if I do too much foreplay. Keep it to like... 10 minutes.
- If you feel like you will lose an erection if you put a condom on, have her suck her dick while you're opening (why do they make the damn things so hard to open?) and prepping the condom, then pull out and roll it on as quickly as possible, then quickly insert it into her.
pancakemouse said:have her suck her dick while you're opening
Crisis_Overcomer said:Yeiii, all good man. You'll get it in next time. Live and learn
pancakemouse said:have her suck her dick while you're opening
Pancake just accidentally revealed his 100+ lays were super-flexible trans girls that could suck their own dicks.
Crimson said:The ED might be because of my porn consumption. I jerk off a whole lot.
Manly Cockfellow said:Crimson said:The ED might be because of my porn consumption. I jerk off a whole lot.
Too much porn/jerking off is kryptonite for your dick, but it's also almost impossible to just quit cold turkey, so what can a man do?
The only thing that has worked for me has been doing a simple PE exercise every time I feel like masturbating (see pics below for description of exercise I do, which is for added girth - just be careful, be patient, ease into it, and stop and take a few days off if you feel anything more than a very slight pain; also although the pic below says daily, I wouldn't do it more often than every other day).
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Not only does this dramatically decrease my ED, it has the added benefit of slowly making my dick even bigger, so I've replaced a self-harming habit with a self-improving one!
If I really can't overcome the urge to watch something sexual while I do the above exercise I try to make sure what I watch is at least something healthy where the woman is actually experiencing pleasure, which has the awesome benefit of me learning new ways to pleasure to my partners!
For healthier examples of porn I recommend something like what you'll find on r/chickflixxx or r/nsfwtalking on Reddit, or anything else where the focus is on the woman experiencing genuine pleasure (most of the stuff made by Bellesa.com or with Owen Gray or Manuel Ferrara is pretty good too)
colgate said:lmao respect, i haven't even been able to do thatCrimson said:I tell her that that one time I had sex was with a prostitute, she laughs her ass off.
i thought @goldfish was the most degenerate guy here with eating ass but he has competition now lmaooooCrimson said:I lick her feet
haha looks like we know what you'll be researching nowCrimson said:But the condoms don’t fit.
great story hopefully you get the lay soon.