Sisyphus
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- Nov 26, 2020
I don't think it's stupid to rate girls attractiveness, even though I think subjectivity and all that exists.
Bottom line is: do we really want to bang ANY girl? Anything goes?
or
Do we want a SPECIFIC type of girl? A girl with certain physical attributes, personality traits, tribes/subcultures, kinks, etc.
Then, how do we get there? Why aren't we having that right now? What do I need to do to get those girls to find me attractive?
And, as pointed out above, how do I can have relationship (open or monogamous) with them and not just a one night stand?
What's important about 9s and 10s is getting real with our results and stop bullshitting ourselves.. It's like, if you start a business, you need to quantify how much money you're making, if you go to they gym, you need to measure your bodyfat, your chest and waist, etc. I understand that women are people and it's not the same, but at the end of the day we respond emotionally to "superficial" things.
And yes, I also think it's useful to compare with other people. It takes ourselves out of our self-delusion. I believe a lot of times we tend to overrate the beauty of the girls we bang not because beauty is subjective, but because we want to feel good about ourselves. Getting exposed to more examples and opinions IS helpful.
That's like step 0. Getting real with ourselves. With what we want and what we have. Perhaps you don't care at all about girls being skinny, with a super cute face, with big round ass and a fun outgoing personality. I personally don't care about girls being supertall or having big tits. We all have preferences. You can call the girls you want 9s and 10s, supermodels, girls that are into bdsm, conservative girls, whatever. Rating girls is just a way to get more specific in what you want. The important thing is there's a target audience that you want to reach and you need to understand what they want, what to offer.
Game Solved, and pretty much any good game source I've read, tells you that you have to CHANGE YOUR IDENTITY if you want different results. Like you need to do a complete overhaul of your personality. 'Being yourself' doesn't cut it (you aren't actually who you think you are anyway, and 'yourself' is just a product of your social conditioning and your real self is hidden behind that act).
You need to watch what the guys that get those "9s and 10s" are doing a model them. What's their vibe, body language, how they dress, what slang do they use, what are their interests, where do they find these girls, what actions do they take? You can't just keep being who you are and run game on top. It's putting lipstick on a pig.
I've found that you tend to attract girls similar to you. Similar in vibe, in interests. If you're introverted you'll tend to attract introverted girls. Etc. So rating girls, whatever you subjective scale is, points you in the direction where you want to go. Whatever your 10 is, then you'll have to be a 10 to her.
Bottom line is: do we really want to bang ANY girl? Anything goes?
or
Do we want a SPECIFIC type of girl? A girl with certain physical attributes, personality traits, tribes/subcultures, kinks, etc.
Then, how do we get there? Why aren't we having that right now? What do I need to do to get those girls to find me attractive?
And, as pointed out above, how do I can have relationship (open or monogamous) with them and not just a one night stand?
What's important about 9s and 10s is getting real with our results and stop bullshitting ourselves.. It's like, if you start a business, you need to quantify how much money you're making, if you go to they gym, you need to measure your bodyfat, your chest and waist, etc. I understand that women are people and it's not the same, but at the end of the day we respond emotionally to "superficial" things.
And yes, I also think it's useful to compare with other people. It takes ourselves out of our self-delusion. I believe a lot of times we tend to overrate the beauty of the girls we bang not because beauty is subjective, but because we want to feel good about ourselves. Getting exposed to more examples and opinions IS helpful.
That's like step 0. Getting real with ourselves. With what we want and what we have. Perhaps you don't care at all about girls being skinny, with a super cute face, with big round ass and a fun outgoing personality. I personally don't care about girls being supertall or having big tits. We all have preferences. You can call the girls you want 9s and 10s, supermodels, girls that are into bdsm, conservative girls, whatever. Rating girls is just a way to get more specific in what you want. The important thing is there's a target audience that you want to reach and you need to understand what they want, what to offer.
Game Solved, and pretty much any good game source I've read, tells you that you have to CHANGE YOUR IDENTITY if you want different results. Like you need to do a complete overhaul of your personality. 'Being yourself' doesn't cut it (you aren't actually who you think you are anyway, and 'yourself' is just a product of your social conditioning and your real self is hidden behind that act).
You need to watch what the guys that get those "9s and 10s" are doing a model them. What's their vibe, body language, how they dress, what slang do they use, what are their interests, where do they find these girls, what actions do they take? You can't just keep being who you are and run game on top. It's putting lipstick on a pig.
I've found that you tend to attract girls similar to you. Similar in vibe, in interests. If you're introverted you'll tend to attract introverted girls. Etc. So rating girls, whatever you subjective scale is, points you in the direction where you want to go. Whatever your 10 is, then you'll have to be a 10 to her.