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Living the dream/ Phase 1 - The first crossroads

MakingAComeback said:
That's fucking insane dude xD

You run a boost and are literally getting matches in the multiple hundreds?

Very inspiring!
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No just over the last week since I've been here. In a week and a half maybe 400 from tinder, hinge and bumble (the free version)

Right now I'm doing a double boost on tinder where it gives you 120mins 4× a week sending 200 likes, using all bumble swipes and sending 200 likes on hinge (increased this from 100). Problem was most of these girls just wanted to chat and I was getting into boring convos with them until I found this one:
 
Alright sounds like you've got it made more or less!

Edited out the pic with the girls face, name, and identifiable information on location xD

Please do not post any face pics of girls without their consent, we require their faces to be blurred/black barred
 
MakingAComeback said:
Alright sounds like you've got it made more or less!

Edited out the pic with the girls face, name, and identifiable information on location xD

Please do not post any face pics of girls without their consent, we require their faces to be blurred/black barred
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Very grateful, couldnt have hoped for a better start. Destroyed some limiting beliefs that I wouldn't be able to experience a hookup and would be treated like a 'provider'

My bad! I've lined through her details so will re-upload it
 
Sewerdog said:
MakingAComeback said:
That's fucking insane dude xD

You run a boost and are literally getting matches in the multiple hundreds?

Very inspiring!
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No just over the last week since I've been here. In a week and a half maybe 400 from tinder, hinge and bumble (the free version)

Right now I'm doing a double boost on tinder where it gives you 120mins 4× a week sending 200 likes, using all bumble swipes and sending 200 likes on hinge (increased this from 100). Problem was most of these girls just wanted to chat and I was getting into boring convos with them until I found this one:
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Sewerdog said:
MakingAComeback said:
That's fucking insane dude xD

You run a boost and are literally getting matches in the multiple hundreds?

Very inspiring!
Click to expand...

No just over the last week since I've been here. In a week and a half maybe 400 from tinder, hinge and bumble (the free version)

Right now I'm doing a double boost on tinder where it gives you 120mins 4× a week sending 200 likes, using all bumble swipes and sending 200 likes on hinge (increased this from 100). Problem was most of these girls just wanted to chat and I was getting into boring convos with them until I found this one:
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Yooo this is the shit. 10/10 compatible girl for what you want.
 
Feeling much better today.
Got on tinder and went super direct again. Matched with a hot redhead and basically said I wanted to eat her pussy over the course of messaging, tried to see her tonight but as it stands we have a date on Monday. She also sent me a nude with all her tattoos which is very promising.
 
Felt a bit irritated today. The super hot tattooed girl just stopped messaging after telling me she was in town yesterday.
I might try to implement some sort of text game to see if it helps convert all these matches to dates. But another part of me feels like I get frustrated because of putting time into talking to girls who don't reciprocate. It is a weird feeling that if I didnt want to get laid I probably wouldn't bother talking to girls using the apps at all.

Anyway 5 reasons its good the girl ghosted:
1. Its made me more stoic: i dont think I'll experience the same level of excitement of getting nudes from a super hot girl, ill just appreciate it for what it is and not get that invested in future.
2. Reminded me to spend more time on things that make me happy.
3. Reminded me that i need to screen women out too: even though sse looked like my idea of a ten she is flakey so im not interested in her personality wise
4. I was going very sexual with my messages - this was fun, even though it didnt materialise in this instance.
5. I appreciate she chose what she wanted and isnt an npc

This also made me reflect on my lay last week and how afterwards the main thing that affected my mood is that i gave myself permission to be happy and retirn to my baseline state after acheiving a goal. That was actually much better than the sex and is 100% an internal thing that i can give to myself.

Grateful that this lesson happened for me, didnt realise id learn so much about myself just from spamming messages!
 
Made a new friend today, shes French and New to the city so we've been doing some sight seeing.

Had a pretty good date this eve too, we went back to my flat and made out for a bit, she said my place is cool which is nice to get some good female feedback.

Felt really fun asking her back to mine, made out for a bit and she said she wants me to come to hers for a second date so will take her up on that.

Something cool I've noticed about feeling the sexual tension before asking her back got me really ready to go, I think the connection is a big deal and is nice compared to driving over to the other girls place the other week to just have sex straight away.
 
Had another good date yesterday. I really like this girl, a lot of common interests and felt like we clicked. She sais she will come over to where I am next time so can ask her back to mine and see what happens.
Another date tm
 
Got laid again, this girl was a hot blonde 28yr old doctor!

Knew it was on when she started asking questions about my sex book photo MILFandCookies
That makes two who really like the photos haha.

She was like a whirlwind in the bedroom, crazy after going through hundreds of luke warm to cold girls on the apps to find this bombshell who just wanted to jump on me.

Another limiting beliefs broken: I can sleep with hot 'high performer' type women and they're not all ultra masculine.
Also facially the Hottest girl I've been with so far and probably the most into me too.
Very grateful to have met her.

Otherwise spent the day with my French friend in town and went to the gym.
 
Sewerdog said:
Got laid again, this girl was a hot blonde 28yr old doctor!

Knew it was on when she started asking questions about my sex book photo @MILFandCookies
That makes two who really like the photos haha.

She was like a whirlwind in the bedroom, crazy after going through hundreds of luke warm to cold girls on the apps to find this bombshell who just wanted to jump on me.

Another limiting beliefs broken: I can sleep with hot 'high performer' type women and they're not all ultra masculine.
Also facially the Hottest girl I've been with so far and probably the most into me too.
Very grateful to have met her.

Otherwise spent the day with my French friend in town and went to the gym.
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Hell yeah man! I'm so glad you're getting what you were looking for! This is exactly why I do this.
 
I've finished the group coaching and had an amazing time, I fully recommend it!

Where I'm at right now:
-moved to a good size city thats also affordable
-got a flat right in the town centre so my logistics are good
-got a much better OD profile
- got laid twice last month and had a bunch of dates, also now seeing doctor girl probably once a week or so

Next I want to do what I like for money which is teach guitar.
I was feeling a little bit overwhelmed about this as I would need 15 students to cover my bills. However if I worked part-time only 25hrs a week I would only need 5 regular students to cover my bills. That is very doable.

My plan:
Release 2 videos a week on social media of me playing: one will be a lesson format and another will be a more complex song that sounds cool.
Tweak my website and link it to social media.
Advertise!
Build lesson materials which will be chord sheets, diagrams ect for beginner lessons.

Find said part time work to keep some cash flow going and give me a buffer.

Women:
I've got laid twice last month which os cool but there is definite room for improvement.
While I'm building my business up to a point where it can sustain me I'm gonna keep using OD as its more time efficient.
I want to improve my match to lay ratio by:
1. Getting a much better gym photo - with improved body composition
2. Learning and implementing text game
3. Screening hard for sex
4. Will link to ig once I have a few guitar videos, social and gym pics up there
Goal here is to cut all these flakey girls out asap. I also don't want to just validate them for no reason and have just been unmatching the girls who give one-word responses because it's never worth it to me and is probably bad for both parties.

Social: depends how busy I am but at least 1 event per week will be nice

Looks:
I want to improve my body comp and drop some more fat after being ill for that week it's made a dent.
Winter wardrobe: I really just need a fashionable coat for now
Stay on finasteride
Build a filler fund - I got some fillers and they worked pretty well for me; the injector showed me the before and after photos, so I will put money aside to maintain this as they need doing once every 9 months or so
Lasers: supposed to be the best thing for skincare - I will look into this as I think I can get big roi here
(None of this stuff was necessary to get laid in the past but I like the idea of making things as easy as possible)

Sexual health:
I fell back into porn use after ending things with first girl - it really was fueled by negative emotions and its reduced my arousal levels with actual girls.
I'm gonna go back on nofap.
Being able to finish while wearing a condom is my new goal here.
 
You will build it up, brother

I will make sure of it ;-)

Lets achieve some f**king goals

Glad you had a great time with Andy & Cam - they truly are the best in the game

Ravi
 
MakingAComeback said:
You will build it up, brother

I will make sure of it ;-)

Lets achieve some f**king goals

Glad you had a great time with Andy & Cam - they truly are the best in the game

Ravi
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Appreciate it 🙏 let's goo!
 
For tomorrow:
Cold shower
Go to job centre
Guitar practice
Go to gym
Pick two songs to record next week
Change website to have a contact form instead of my details. Make sure domain name matches website title.
Apply for 1 job
Go on date/ if she flakes there's a social I will go to instead
 
I got the stripper lay tonight! She messaged me out of the blue and I took her back to mine.
Made her squirt everywhere which was really hot.
She also said guys as hot as me are usually dicks so was surprised I was really nice to her which I appreciate as I did build her up being a stripper but turns out she's just a normal girl who likes to call me daddy😆

Very cool stuff, I'm confident that's gonna be another one to the rotation.
 
You can try some more at-home procedures and it might actually give you better results for the consistency.

There are a number of home mesotherapy (=microneedles which push actives further into the skin) devices and microneedling devices. Dermatologists recommend the manual stamping kind because you are not dragging the skin and not relying on a cheap motor.

Have you tried red light panel / glycolic acid peels yet?

I'm unable to start most of this shit because I'm in debt and still have breakouts.

Something I've been thinking about is wearing shorts in winter to harvest nitric oxide.
 
Juicy3lf said:
You can try some more at-home procedures and it might actually give you better results for the consistency.

There are a number of home mesotherapy (=microneedles which push actives further into the skin) devices and microneedling devices. Dermatologists recommend the manual stamping kind because you are not dragging the skin and not relying on a cheap motor.

Have you tried red light panel / glycolic acid peels yet?

I'm unable to start most of this shit because I'm in debt and still have breakouts.

Something I've been thinking about is wearing shorts in winter to harvest nitric oxide.
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I have been using a red light mask but too early to see results yet.
I've tried microneedling too but not noticed any major results, from what I've seen it's very effective for acne scars though.
Other than that I'm using tretinoin but I think this is more of a preventative thing at this stage.
Acid peels are another interesting option for sure, the main reason I like the lasers is there's a biohacker called Bryan Johnson who uses them as the most effective part of his skincare regimen.
 
Women:
I saw the doctor girl twice this week and the stripper last night so im actually a bit womaned out lol.

Been here a month now and I'm already getting a rotation going which I'm very happy with.

Will keep up my od numbers as I'm starting to enjoy the feeling of variety too.

Money:
I want to record some songs for Tuesday and Saturday for ig and link it to my website.

Otherwise getting some part time work is my big goal for next week.
 
I've been looking at oral minoxidil and it's not only more effective than topical but it would help to max out the eyebrows and beard at the same time. Main sides would be reduction in blood pressure and possibly fluid retention but that's on the 10mg+ doses usually.

What do you think?
 
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