Manga 🇰🇷: October Update

pancakemouse said:
I would legitimately get 30-40% more lays with two full sleeves of tattoos.
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I used to doubt this. Now I believe it. Like he was saying "most" girls would ask to see the rest of his tattoos. He might be exaggerating but I definitely don't get that comment.

Sisyphus said:
I'd get financials to baseline, better use of time.
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I know what you're getting at. But I think it misses the larger point.. You need to do whatever your gut tugs youto do, and work on that thing until completion then move on.

That was the biggest lesson from my 20s. Despite doing some cool things I switched goals so much my accomplishments were irrelevant.

F.O.C.U.S.
Follow One Course Until Successful.

Sisyphus said:
Re: Pain in your life being a motivation for hard work.
GLL had an interesting view on the subject:
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Couldn't agree more. Chris had so much fucking wisdom. And rare but true points. He took a pretty keen eye at reality and tried to make sense of it.

He has this incredible ability at seperating BS from truth.


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Thanks bros.
 
Holden said:
Guy is 6'5, skinny, never set foot in a gym in his life. Some people just picked good parents.
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I know. I mean we all get lucky in some areas and unlucky in others.

It's not a very good line of thought comparing luck. Cuz you'll be slightly indifferent for getting lucky. And then feel bad for getting unlucky.
 
"F.O.C.U.S.
Follow One Course Until Successful"

FUCK that is brilliant.

That is something I could get tattooed on me man.

MAC
 
Jan 12


0/3 approaches. 2 harsh dismissals, 1 ignore.
1550 calories today.
7.5 hours of work today.

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I'm gonna start counting any steps over 6000 as a subtraction to my net calories for that day.

Slowly building my approach volume back up, then I can start worrying about the other shit.

... Also approach is much more important rn than old... But Ill probably start lining up dates from old pretty soon again.
 
Jan 15
1/6 approaches
No work
3000 calories (I actually have no idea so I'm just guessing high).

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So getting back into approach has been brutal as fuck. Really hard to get over the initial hump.

One thing that made a difference today was I stopped trying to approach girls. And changed my focus to ONLY approaching girls I would normally skip. As in if I could easily approach her without hesitation it wouldn't count.

That change in my focus was basically what made the difference cuz it forced me to do shit I really didn't want to do.

I'm just gonna worry about audacity for the next bit.
 
Jan 16

1/5 approaches
3 hrs of work (Sunday)
2300 calories (I think).
2#s from old. Maybe 20+ matches

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Have to start watching my calories more. Eating a few things where I have to take wild guesses for what the calories are.

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Starting to feel closer to normal with the approaches.

Had one good one but most I was feeling shy about.

Like the one girl was shit testing me. And I didn't even notice til after.

I did get her number. But she wanted to give her insta which is usually a bad sign. But I felt like I was actually doing that approach well. All the others were bad.

But for the time being. I don't really care about quality. I just want to build volume back up.
 
Not 100% sure what to text in this situation.
Only had this happen twice before.


Context:
Vegan girl suggests I come straight to her place to cook stir fry.
Thinking about how to setup the date.

Thoughts:
- Directness is good.
- But some girls need to trust you first so being too direct is sometimes bad.

Decision:
- just go direct and invite myself over because of the invite earlier and not doing so after she invited me, would show hesitation and weakness on my end and probly turn her off to some degree.

Thoughts? - was this a good decision overall?
Radical Holden

I'll provide an update about her later.
If I forget, I probably didn't sleep with her.
 
Manganiello invite her to yours for a stir fry, and do the walk thing first if you want to screen for crazy
 
Sounds like she responded well so it looks good.

If I was in your situation I would've told her to come over to mine instead. Instead of asking her over for "wine & a movie" I'd say "wine & some stir fry." Then I'd probably "forget" about the stir fry and try to fuck her before we get to cooking lol.

I don't like going over to girls's places but that's a personal thing.

Seems like you handled it well. Not sure what the uncertainty is here. She invited you first so there's no reason to beat around the bush.
 
Holden said:
Sounds like she responded well so it looks good.

If I was in your situation I would've told her to come over to mine instead. Instead of asking her over for "wine & a movie" I'd say "wine & some stir fry." Then I'd probably "forget" about the stir fry and try to fuck her before we get to cooking lol.

I don't like going over to girls's places but that's a personal thing.

Seems like you handled it well. Not sure what the uncertainty is here. She invited you first so there's no reason to beat around the bush.
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Ok thnx. Actually. Idk why I didn't ask her over. That's a good point.

The uncertainty was just it being an outlier situation.
 
Jan 19

0/0 approaches
2000 calories
5.5 hrs of work.

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All in all a pretty shit day. I didn't feel lazy or anything, just didn't really do anything.

Feels like for the last bit I've been scoring B's in every area of my life, but no A's or A+'s,

It's starting to make me think. What's going on here?
I don't feel especially lazy, or unmotivated.

I think I just lack focus. Like new year starts, and there's about 5 things I'm taking on. Some new, some old. Maybe it's too diluted. Like I'm losing my focus. Or maybe I've gotten myself to a point where there's no real consequences anymore. Could be both. I don't like it. At all.
 
Manganiello said:
All in all a pretty shit day. I didn't feel lazy or anything, just didn't really do anything.
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I swear to God I have way to many of those days.

How close are you to making the move to The Six?
 
TimmyTurner said:
Manganiello said:
All in all a pretty shit day. I didn't feel lazy or anything, just didn't really do anything.
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I swear to God I have way to many of those days.

How close are you to making the move to The Six?
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Target is middle of the year.
 
Date No Pull

Date
Cute Filipina lady.
Loved her sense of style. Super my type.
Date was 3 hours long (Woah).
She dodged my pull question. I kind of let it be.
Kissed her at the end in her car. Barely. She was a germophobe I pretty much just did it without asking.
Said she wants to meet up again.


- thoughts -
Was not calibrated well for this date. Probably rushing too much and not taking the time to remind myself of fundamentals. It's been maybe 2 months since I've had a date. With another cute Filipina into fashion ironically. I should've spent time to remind myself of this stuff.

I really liked her but the goal is a lifestyle with hot girls around me. I'd say she's hot enough to fit that description. But what's more important is getting a steady stream of girls like that.


GOOD TO BE BACK.

Even tho this didn't go anywhere. I feel a lot more alive. Kind of renewed my hunger to get really fucking good at this shit.

Now I get to barely sleep lol.

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1800 calories (nice)
0 approaches
1 new # from online
8.5 hours of work.
 
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