AA Day 25 - (What's for Lunch?)
https://youtu.be/VmWjXf3RoF4
The Drill
Hey, What's for lunch?
No seriously, What's for lunch?
No for real, What's for lunch?
Hey, I really need to know, What's for lunch?
I am going to ask you a 5th and final time, What.is.for.lunch?
Summary
- This whole drill forced awkward conversations.
- Unlike the Birthday Drill, I was very direct (especially on the last 2 sets)
- Most girls were visibly uncomfortable
- Few were scared, backing off, walking away, it was like they thought I was some crazy person who was going to attack them (seriously that was the vibe).
- 2 girls walked off on me, within 20 seconds of each other.
- One girl actually fleed the store when I was asking her.
- Fuck I felt generally OK, but just those 2 girls really made me feel uncomfortable and awkard. Big time.
- As per usual, the cuter girls gave the best responses
Typical Set looked like:
Me:"What's for lunch?"
Girl: "What?"
Me: "Yeah like, What's for lunch?"
Girl:"I, I don't understand. What do you mean?"
Me: "I mean like seriously, what's for lunch?"
Girl:"Is this a riddle, why are you asking me this?"
"I'm asking because I want to know What. Is. For. Lunch?"
(Girl's usually starting to walk away at this point...)
Me: "I'll ask you a fifth and final time, What is for lunch?"
Girl: "ummm, I'm just going to keep going here..."
So overall yeah, I could do it, anxiety level was generally pretty low, but fuck man, this was an UNCOMFORTABLE drill. Just felt weird.
I recorded audio of this (including the 2 girls that walked away) but I don't have time to slice it and put it up.
On that note: Does anyone know of a way to upload audio or mp3 files onto the forum with an embedded audioplayer?
TODAY's other goals:
1200 calories (1300, again)
Be fully engaged at work (DONE)
Leave house at 6:10 (6:18)
Finish day between 8:30 and 9:00. (almost there)
Thebastard said:
This brings back memories I think doing several sets like you are doing rather than the bare minimum helps a lot. Its normal to feel discomfort when the interaction is prolonged like you experienced. Its all gold though. It will help a lot when you start approaching post AA program!
Yeah I feel that. I think the several sets just allows momentum to build. The first drills really are the hardest.