Sept 10
Got laid.
+ 30 matches today
(I'll put today's stats at the bottom.)
First Online Lay
So I got laid, this one belongs to Radical. He got me to do online, and also got me to push for sex when I'm not feeling it.
Summary:
- Went straight to her place (no date)
- Watched a movie, drank ciders and MACA (thanks Crisis_Overcomer ) cuz I wasn't feelin it.
- I hesitated to make a move for 30 minutes, Made a move, but didn't escalate after that.
- 90 minutes in, she escalates, makeout>clothes off>foreplay>little bit of sex.
- Still had trouble getting hard, so I think I'll get some ED pills or something.
- Felt very one night stand-like. Which is 100% ok with me.
How it went down
So this lay was basically handed to me.
I'm not terribly attracted to this chick. We went out for coffee Wed. She was cool.
She wanted to see me Friday, same cafe.
Cool.
She texted me saying she wanted to go straight to her place instead
Cool.
Got there.
I wasn't horny, was trying the whole time to think about sex with this girl, but we ended up just chatting like friends.
Put on a movie, she sat close. I hesitated. Nothing happened. She sat far away.
30 minutes in,
I get her to touch my chest, put her hand underneath my shirt.
She likes it but pulls away. I don't bother cycling again.
90 minutes in
She puts her leg on my leg. She's shaking a bit. I tell her that, put my arm around her and then start making out. Clothes come off. And I went down on her. Pretty fun. First time eating a girl out.
Lots of foreplay.
Tried putting it in.
I got in her for like 2 seconds, but I was so limp it was pointless. Got her to ride me.
Then she said "I'm gonna throw up" (guess she drank too much). Maybe or I wasn't all that hard. Probably both.
She was super wet, I was only mildly into it. Honestly.
I had to close my eyes and just let my sense take over,
It was fun, but idk If I'd see her again. We'll see. I'll let her text me 1st.
Thoughts
Not getting high off my own supply
So getting laid after 3 days of using Tinder is pretty cool...
But I don't want to walk into this with false expectations. Sure I'm getting a ton of matches, but I cant get high on my own supply. Hard work, learning from others and playing the numbers game got this result, not some self-aggrandized trait about myself. And I still have a
lot to work on.
Dopamine hit from Online vs. Cold Approach
It seems like online is about a billion times easier than cold approach.
But the Cold Approach Lay felt like it changed my world.
The girl in Toronto was fucking hot af. Korean. and it was from a cold approach that was difficult to pull off, plus a date that was hard to pull on + 20 minutes of bedroom resistance. I just felt awesome about that one. Felt like I broke the universe, and did something that should be impossible to do. I realized I was breathing rare air after that lay. This one... ok cool. If this girl was more my type I'd probably feel more enthralled about it.
Tinder
2 #s
10 ongoing convos
22 Matches
33 Likes
3 Boosts (6pm, 8pm, 10pm) 8pm did best.
Hinge
0 #s
1 ongoing convo
4 matches
4 likes
Badoo
0 #s
1 conversation dead
4 matches
8 likes
Some girls on Badoo are cute, but most look like crack addicts, it's really fucking weird out there.
OVERALL
Day 4 - Running Total
7 numbers/~90 matches
110-120 likes
6 Boosts used.
Oh ya Plus One approach. Was kinda drunk still, and just finished texting Toast about the lay. Had a BF but still got the number. 2nd day in a row I've had very little AA.
Master said:
I'm mainly on Tinder(#1), Fruitz(#2), Badoo(#3), Bumble(#4), Havent had any luck with hinge but it might just be a quebec thing lol.
Fruitz is a up and coming platform, got 2 lays in the first 2 weeks of using it, def try it out.
Good shit on starting your profile hope you can have tons of success. Your photos are great man!
I also responded to Toast questions he had on your behalf I believe!
I saw that. Thanks for the answers. Dunno how you're converting that well. If I can do those conversions I'll be golden. I'm just focusing hard on numbers.
Thanks man, got lots of help with the photos.
And Hinge is fucking awesome here. Tons of hot girls. Got 1 date setup from it.
I'll try Fruitz. Thank you for pointing that one out.
Any feedback is much appreciated thank you dear Mr. Master!