Gunner
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Good to know, thanks! I read your post - lots of good stuff there, I'll take some more photos with your tips in mind.
In the meantime, I made a Tinder profile Sunday night. Got 19 likes so far from swiping each night at 9pm, but no matches yet.
Last night, I edited my profile to include my Instagram handle. I realized today that Tinder had sent me an email saying "Hey! It looks like your bio might include a social media handle, so we’ve hidden it from public view."
So I just removed the Instagram handle from my bio.
Is there anything else I need to do to un-hide my profile?
Is there a way I can verify that my profile is unhidden?
Thanks
In the meantime, I made a Tinder profile Sunday night. Got 19 likes so far from swiping each night at 9pm, but no matches yet.
Last night, I edited my profile to include my Instagram handle. I realized today that Tinder had sent me an email saying "Hey! It looks like your bio might include a social media handle, so we’ve hidden it from public view."
So I just removed the Instagram handle from my bio.
Is there anything else I need to do to un-hide my profile?
Is there a way I can verify that my profile is unhidden?
Thanks
MILFandCookies said:Gunner said:Hey guys,
I've got two sets of photos I'm thinking about using for online dating. Don't currently have a profile set up, and haven't for 6 months.
The first set is more "nice guy," the second set is slightly more "bad boy"/masculine.
See the photos attached. "Nice guy" is labeled 1A, 1B, etc. "Bad boy" is labeled 2A, 2B, etc.
Which set should I use? How should I order them? Obviously, I can mix and match, if that's better. Would be grateful for any feedback!
RealNiceGuy.JPG
BadBoy.JPG
1a: Bland, uninteresting, no point to it
1b: Selfies are usually a no-go but I like this one. EXCEPT - the aspect ratio is LANDSCAPE. SHOOT IN PORTRAIT ALWAYS - it will crop shitty on Tinder and you won't be able to see the important parts of it
1c: GREAT! Put near the end of the profile since you're small. That way girls already know what you look like.
1d: It's okay... cliche. Might be good near the end of the profile
1e: Nah. Cliche, boring smiley group shot, and the scribbled over faces are a huge no-go. Plus you're not the tallest so it takes away from you.
1f: Good. Might work well for a first photo
2a: Great! Might be good for a first photo
2b: Also good for a first photo... BUT 2a, 2b and 1f don't say shit about you except that you look good. You're just sitting or standing looking cool... that's okay for 1 photo on a profile but each additional photo should say something about you.
2c: No. You're looking off to the side.
2d: Too posed, too smily. No
2e: Meh... might be okay for now. Your pose looks awkward, like you're trying to look cool. It looks stiff, not relaxed.
My suggestion? Read this article I wrote for Andy and take more photos: https://killyourinnerloser.com/paparazzi-factor/
Context: I've helped over 150 guys with their dating profiles around the world