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KillYourInnerLoser said:
1. Reply this this post with your goals, what you want to achieve, as well as this line:

Make sure you include this sentence: "I, [your name], commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

2. Add a photo of yourself as an avatar.

If you do not do these 2 steps, your account will be deleted within 3 days.

Why?

This forum is all about commitment and actually getting shit done. No theorising, no sitting around wasting time - we're here to actually get shit done. We take our self-improvement seriously.

As for mandatory avatars - it's hard for anyone to give you self-improvement and getting-laid advice if we don't know what you look like. (Plus all the reasons listed here).

If you don't want to show your face, crop it out/blur it out.

Think of this as you giving a promise that you'll actually work towards achieving your goals; we aren't interested in anyone who wants to half-ass this shit.

When you've done that, go read the Forum Rules.

Oh, and welcome. If you're here, we have no doubt you're gonna kick some serious ass and live an epic life. We'll do everything we can to help you hit your goals.
-Andy
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I, Stephen, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hello, I came across this forum via Andy's website. I had a bad 2020, got fat due to injury and lockdowns became a mess. Since the gyms opened up I've been in there ever since losing bodyfat. Andy's Tinder guide advice helped me see holes in my game over the years and I've joined because I want to improve my looks(achieve the lowest BF% I've had before), bang way more good looking chicks and even maintain a somewhat steady rotation. I've handled some personal issues and improved my mindset and I'm already getting back into the swing of things but I still have more fat to lose and it's tough. I figured this forum would be some extra accountability and I'm always open to learning new things.
 
"I, Edgar, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I found Andy's blog last year and finally decided to join the forums. I've soooo many goals for 2021 that maybe I'm being too ambitious but I'm gonna list them anyway.

Some of my goals :
- Lose more body fat and get in shape (I've made a lot of progress in this one, I went from 99,5kg in January to 84kg today. So I know I can do it.)
- Change my job to get one that I actually enjoy with better pay.
- Get french driver's licence and buy a car.
- Get french citenzinship.
- Get laid.
- Learn how to flirt/seduce women.
- Be successful on Tinder (goal is to have 100+ likes matches that are actually real and pretty girls).

I'm also currently seeing a therapist to help me overcome my anxiety and depression towards work. I've also bought some self-help books that I'm reading to try to have a different approach to life.

Basically, I've been working on myself since 2021 started. I'm not yet where I wanna be, but I want to definetly change my life. Flip the script. I joined the forums so I can get more motivated working on these goals and get some feedback on my online dating profile.

Nice to meet you all.
 
Hey everyone,

I'm excited to join the forum. I've been following Andy's site for a few months now, and figured it was time to dive in and commit myself to self-improvement.

I'm in a good place in life right now. I'm a young, athletic, decent-looking guy, making good money at a good job, with a solid social circle. I'm okay with girls, but not seeing the type of strong results that I'd like to see, and I know that I have plenty of room to improve. So for me, I'm entirely focused on improving my results with women at the moment, be that through online dating or in-person approach.

My short term goal is to beat my approach anxiety through the GLL approach anxiety program, and I'll be documenting my progress on these forums.


I, Dijkstra, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
"I, Nick, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi,

Goal is to reduce/eliminate anxiety and get laid. I’m 25 and work remotely full time live in DC. Body fat is pretty low, but so is muscle mass unfortunately, so putting on some size is a secondary goal.
 
I, ronan1990, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

What's up? I'm a 30-year-old from Ireland. I coasted through my 20s achieving fuck all in my most important life areas. As a result, it's hard to know where to start. I have been socially anxious since I was 19, probably chronically (mildly) depressed for 90% of my 20s, never been in good shape, never earned more than $2.5k per month, and only slept with 3 women.

My only 'achievement' has been developing freelance income and getting to travel quite a lot during my 20s. I got by socially due to being a heavy drinker (I'm Irish, right!) and retaining a couple of friendships from school. On my solo trips abroad, I saw some amazing places and ate some amazing food, but I mostly kept to myself. I probably don't give myself enough credit for having the balls to solo travel, but it's a classic depression thing to downplay the good and amplify the bad.

I think my financial goals are probably most important because money means freedom. At 30, it feels like I'm running out of time to get my shit together, which leads to inertia because I start to think, "fuck, I've got too much to work on".

Anyway, a big motivation for joining this community was to surround myself with other motivated people who are going places in life and who can push me to better myself. In the 'real world', I have only 3 friends, and none of them ever encourage me to improve. My best friend is in and out of psych wards due to drug addiction, and my two other friends just want to get together and drink.

I have another significant personal (relationship/family) issue that I am not yet comfortable discussing but I will probably ask for help on it after I've come to trust this place.

Looking forward to meeting some new people and helping each other improve our lives.

Short-Term Goals:

- Earn a minimum of $3.5k per month by December 2021.

- Stop medicating myself with porn and alcohol.

- Get myself to 10% body fat.
 
I, ytlord, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

23 from Maryland, graduating college in 1 month. Got a solid starting job in the DC area, looking to transition into being a young professional with a good work/life balance.

Goals:
-Visible abs
-Continue training BJJ
-Begin practicing cold approach
-Improve online dating pictures
-Get a good rotation of girls going, possibly pursue LTR later in the year
 
I, ShortApe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Yo what's goin on?

My Goals:


- Get Laid 5 times in the next 3 months
- Improve my game in general and have a good online dating profile
- Create an online portfolio change jobs to web developer/embedded systems engineer
- Become financially literate and build up money
- Move out into apartment (still living with parents, but do have a well paying job currently)
- Hit 10% BF (Not sure exactly, but I believe I am sitting around 13% currently)

Let's learn grow and improve together.
 
I, Jack, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My Goals are the following:

1. Get Shredded by hitting 165 LB (at 175 LB)
2. Meet and have 20 Lifetime Lays. (4/20)
3. Have 3 FWB (1.5/3)
4. Get a job that frees me (in a soul sucking job atm)
 
My name is Cody, my friends call me Disco.

I want to work on goals including-

Getting over approach anxiety and meeting girls

Gain ~10 pounds of muscle (my body fat is already low)

10+ lifetime lays

2+ fwb

I am starting out small because that’s just where I am at.
 
Hey Folks,

I'm Syd

I, Syd, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals

- Get Laid
- Wake up earlier and be more productive throughout the day
- Gain Muscle
- Fix my back (Scoliosis and Kyphosis)
- Work on my Cardio
- Complete my Undergraduate Degree with a 1st class (Hons) Grade
- Complete my Master's Degree in Computer Science
- Develop my own style
- Setup my own business one day
- Move out and get my own place

Looking to post here daily for accountability purposes.

Looking forward to being a part of this awesome community

All the best,

Syd
 
ItsmeDisco hey dude, please add the following to your intro post

I, ItsmeDisco, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Or i gotta ban your account as per our forum rules
 
Hey. I am alex from Brooklyn. My goals is to be able to attrack More women one date sites and to learn how to retain a rotation.
 
Hey, i'm Rise.

I, Rise, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 28, turning 29 soon. I live in the US (Utah). I have some experience accomplishing my goals, but I have a long way to go.
in 2013 I weighed in at 305lbs, now i'm 218lbs (as of this morning). I want to reach my original goal of weighing in at 180lbs.
Getting laid isn't a primary goal of mine. My current priorities are:
social freedom (completing AA)
losing weight (180lbs)
learning more about my tastes in women (date 20 new girls by the end of 2021).
 
I'm Cain

I, Cain, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

GOALS:

This years sex life goals:
- having sex regularly. At least one night per week. Optimally not only on average, but really every week. Worked well so far, only had three weeks where I didn't
- fucking twelve chicks this year, one for each month (currently 2/12)
- beating my approach anxiety. Most important goal. On day four right now. Will crosspost in this forum.

Fitness goals until end of August, I want to be able to do:
- 50 pushups, chest to bottom (30 currently)
- 10 pullups (4 currently)
- 1 min handstand (can't control the balance currently)

I'll put a more extensive intro at the beginning of my AA log with some backstory.
 
My goals/sought achievements:
- Make at least 4 good trades in the stock market a week.
- Keep in touch with at least 6 people for at least a month.
- Build a new wardrobe (at least 7 full, stylish outfits)
- Achieve success via online dating at least once a week.
- Abs, crease between pecs.
- Get a job that improves my career opportunities.
I, LanternHead, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hello bros
I, Panos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
After being a sperg through my teens/early-20s I've worked out and pushed myself to socialize enough to be a functioning man with a social life.
Time to get some quality poon too
Goals:
-Score wins online
-Get back into cold approaching
-Find a few good wingman buddies
-Acquire FWB, later gf
-100% rehab torn ACL and get back into sports
 
I ash, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals are to get under 180lb. Started at 275, currently 217.

I want to spend the next 3 months killing it in the gym, getting in shape and taking good pics. Then get on a few dating apps and try to sleep with 4 girls this year.

Career wise I’m transitioning from being an engineer to the navy. I want to make seal pst standards by august.
 
I, offwego, commit to taking myself seriously and accomplishing my goals.

My main goal is to beat the 6-week AA program (Day 11 of 46), hopefully by August. My side goal (much easier) is cutting down to 10% body fat which includes doing an online paid weight-lifting program. No other goals.
 
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