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I, TheCervixPusher, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. - I DO

1. Getting into cold approaching and having no issue with it - nothing else
 
I, Jim, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goal is to maximise my charisma and cold approach skills, so I can get higher conversion rates from day-game/ cold approach.

I'm already getting Tinder matches, but problem is, in Tinder pictures I look way better in real life, so girls might be disappointed.

This is why I prefer cold approach / day game. I want to learn ins and outs of successful cold approach.

My ultimate goal is to build a steady rotation of 3-5 hot chicks that I would meet one weekends (one chick every 1-2 weeks or so).

I lost some muscle due to pandemic, but my goal is to work on regaining that during next quarter.
 
I, Samy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 32, living in America.

Last year, I was able to rebound after being laid off from my job. I got a job in tech and my career is finally taking off. I also bought my dream car.

Dating is the area where I need to improve. I recently got through a divorce and I need to work on myself. Especially on becoming less needy. I was able to get laid 4 times since I left my ex-wife in March. All of them from cold approach.

Goals for 2021:

- Focusing on my mental health
- Focusing on getting back in shape
- Focusing on my career and earning more money
- Keep cold approaching and I would like to find someone to build a family with
 
I, Jan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm Jan, 27 years old, from Germany. I'm studying chemistry and am currently working on my Masters degree, while learning to produce electronic music as my main hobby. During the last ~10 years I haven't been successful with girls and getting laid, and even though school, work and smoking weed kept me busy for quite some time it started to annoy the hell out of me in the last few years. I started taking action in late 2019, by quitting weed, cutting off my long hippie hair, getting better clothes, establishing a skincare routine and some other minor stuff. At the moment I have a hard time moving further forward, since the gyms aren't fully reopened around here yet and it's unclear if they will be closed during the winter again. Money is also tight at the moment, I'm hoping to get a job at university next semester so I have more financial freedom.
I tried online dating for the first time during the last weeks, but wasn't very lucky so far. I texted with a few girls, but they either unmatched or ghosted me at some point. My weaknesses in that regard are mainly that I look fairly young, not very masculine. I can't grow a proper beard, but at least I'm already heavily balding lol. So my next big goal is to improve my physique in the gym, in order to look (and feel) more masculine.
I also can't wait to go out on parties again, since my chances in getting laid are probably way higher in a social environment than online. I can be quite witty, funny and charming, which is one of my strengths, but due to COVID there is not much opportunity to put that into action at the moment.

My current goals are:

- getting laid, of course, which mainly comes down to:
--- building a nice physique (hopefully the gyms will fully reopen soon here)
--- improving my wardrobe
--- taking better pictures
--- minimizing my weaknesses (which are mentioned above)
- getting a Ph.D. in chemistry
- expanding my social circle
- working towards financial independence
- saving for a hair transplant (because the sad truth is that I look better with hair than without. If I can pull off being fully bald is up to debate)
- bringing the quality of my music production to a professional level and, of course, releasing tracks
 
I, Tyler Bourbon, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi everyone, been following Andy´s content for a while and want to put his advice on online dating into practice now. So far I´ve almost exclusively done cold approach/ daygame.

Goals:
- breaking the dry spell of 5 months and getting laid via daygame and online dating.
- working out and sticking to a more consistent daily and weekly schedule.
- improving my sleep. I have chronic insomnia and at the moment it´s extra bad and I need to improve that.
- I`m having a hard time gaining muscles (tall-skinny guy), but I at least want to get to 10% body fat (I´m at ~ 13% at the moment) and become lean & athletic looking.

Quick note regarding my avatar: I have a pic of myself as my current avatar, but once I have posted pics of myself in the private area, I would like to switch my avatar pic. Hope that´s ok with the mods.
 
Score here, 33, Bucharest Romania.
I commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously!

First phase goals:
- be more attractive
- get laid a lot
- improve my social skills
- live a more exciting life

Second phase:
- skyrocket my finances
 
Hello everyone, I'm Caesar.

"I, Caesar, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals:
-Socialize more with both men and women.
-Have more friends from both sexes.
-Get laid.
-Improve my physique and style.

I want to achieve my goals, learn from everyone and help in any manner I'm capable of.

Growing up my parents were quite protective of me, sometimes I get the feeling that I'm not as "deep" into society compared to the average person, and also feel kinda green in the same comparison regarding day to day social interactions, so I want to shatter that feeling with solid improvement in that field.

Naturally, I won't stop looking for tinder dates and experimenting with cold approaches since I've already had some small success, but I'd rather give priority to securing the other aspects of my social life first.

Andy if you're reading this, you're amazing man, you make the idea of dealing with dating from a young man's perspective simple and understandable.
 
"I, Thomas, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm 28, I used to be quite active on good looking loser and recently went back but it's become a wasteland with lots of incel posting. So I came here.

My goals are
- reach 100+ Lays
- Have a family
- Illustrate picture books
 
1. 12-14% body fat in 3 month with six pack
2. Have sex with at least 5 girls by the end of the year and at least 2 blondes

I, greenvor commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
 
Whats up guys, I'm hopping over from GLL although I still plan to log there aswell. Main two goals are: 1. improve physique 2. Improve my rotation.

I, Kurvam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hi guys my name is Avi. I want to get laid. Really really badly. It's been 4 years since the last time I had sex and I feel like a loser again. I used to feel it before I ever got laid and I feel it now again as well since it's been so long. Honestly I relate so much to the part in the tinder guide that says it's hard to focus on other goals when you feel like a loser who can't get laid. So that's what I want to achieve.. I want to become a person who can get laid easily and consistently, who people think is cool and want to be around, and can do so in a way where I improve the lives around me. I want to be a positive force for good and be able to spread love and acceptance to the people around me.

I, Avi , commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Hi All.

I, Spermophilus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

After 15 years of marriage, got divorced, smoked too much, drank too much etc. Now it's time to get my act together.

My goals.

1. Quit smoking now and never start.
2. Quit drinking (socially is allowed).
3. Start getting in good shape --> continue the exercising and hit the gym.
4. Keep the apartment always clean and in order.
5. Keep the car always clean and in order.
6. Perform at your best at work.
7. Look how much you sleep.
8. Look what you eat.
9. Be well dressed always.
10. Be clean and smell good always.
11. Socialize more with people (men and women).
12. Learn how to lead a conversation.
13. Step out of the comfort zone.
14. Make a killer Tinder profile i.e. top 1 %.
15. Have dates and sex.
 
Hey dudes, I'm looking to get in the best shape of my life. Specifically adding muscle and dropping my body fat to under 15% (currently at 20%) in the next 90 days.

I, Jenson, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Looking to stay consistent and hit $10k/month profit from business for 3 months in a row by Dec 2021.

I, rags2bitches, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Yo, am from GLL is looking pretty dead over there tho, so am joining up here. Read some of Andy's shit before he seems like a cool guy.

My goals atm are

-Get (at least ) 70% grade in my third year of art school
-DJ at my first event next year (even if that is an illegal one)
-Erase my Approach Anxiety (I tried it before but didn't fully commit)

Yeah but am willing to put maximum effort in that's how I work

Am willing to give advice to any of you guys and help you out if you need it.

Current amount of girls fucked-34
 
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