I, Jan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm Jan, 27 years old, from Germany. I'm studying chemistry and am currently working on my Masters degree, while learning to produce electronic music as my main hobby. During the last ~10 years I haven't been successful with girls and getting laid, and even though school, work and smoking weed kept me busy for quite some time it started to annoy the hell out of me in the last few years. I started taking action in late 2019, by quitting weed, cutting off my long hippie hair, getting better clothes, establishing a skincare routine and some other minor stuff. At the moment I have a hard time moving further forward, since the gyms aren't fully reopened around here yet and it's unclear if they will be closed during the winter again. Money is also tight at the moment, I'm hoping to get a job at university next semester so I have more financial freedom.
I tried online dating for the first time during the last weeks, but wasn't very lucky so far. I texted with a few girls, but they either unmatched or ghosted me at some point. My weaknesses in that regard are mainly that I look fairly young, not very masculine. I can't grow a proper beard, but at least I'm already heavily balding lol. So my next big goal is to improve my physique in the gym, in order to look (and feel) more masculine.
I also can't wait to go out on parties again, since my chances in getting laid are probably way higher in a social environment than online. I can be quite witty, funny and charming, which is one of my strengths, but due to COVID there is not much opportunity to put that into action at the moment.
My current goals are:
- getting laid, of course, which mainly comes down to:
--- building a nice physique (hopefully the gyms will fully reopen soon here)
--- improving my wardrobe
--- taking better pictures
--- minimizing my weaknesses (which are mentioned above)
- getting a Ph.D. in chemistry
- expanding my social circle
- working towards financial independence
- saving for a hair transplant (because the sad truth is that I look better with hair than without. If I can pull off being fully bald is up to debate)
- bringing the quality of my music production to a professional level and, of course, releasing tracks