Hello!
I, HiddenM, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously!
I first started learning how to talk to girls when I was 16. Was watching “Simple Pickup” mostly. Got my first girlfriend half a year later. We were each other’s first and stayed together for 5 years. Eventually I got complacent, depressive, and weak. Didn’t work on myself, didn’t work out, didn’t socialize. Naturally she left me.
I felt like shit, but I was done being down. I put all that emotion, frustration, and energy into improving myself. I never could stick a gym routine before and so I always was skinny. I started doing bodyweight workouts at home, so I no longer had any excuses. I also resumed my hobbies, started going out and making new friends. Now I’m in a much better place, I’ve gained about 8kg of muscle mass, I go out and can confidently talk to girls.
I am here because firstly, there is still a lot do for myself. Secondly, maybe I can help someone out on their journey too.
I live in a city of 150`000 people. I constantly feel like there are not enough options, and opportunities, not just in terms of girls. I’ve only managed to bang 3 new girls since my breakup 1.5 years ago. Whilst I’m tied to being here until I finish my bachelors, I aim to build myself up and learn how to be successful dating here so when I finally move, I can get right to it. I will improve my dating profiles with better pictures, I will get in to an even better shape, I will get even better with people (and girls in particular), and I will be a better man every day, even if by a little!
Short term goals
*Bang 15 girls before im 25. I have to find these girls attractive.
- 2 by end of September
- 4 more until 2021
- 9 more before im 25 (Jan 2022)
*Move to a bigger city
*Finish my bachelor’s and pay off debt.
Long term goals
*Build an income source that isn’t directly tied to my time
*Have an abundance of (sexual) partners that I truly enjoy being with
*Continuously improve myself