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I, Sean, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm a listener of the podcasts and have heard about this community. My current main goal is to do well in my classes.
 
I, Lema, am commited to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've being dieting and started doing calisthenics, want to get lean and see if my fucking abs do actually exist, that would be the first time.
I want to have better results on dating apps, meaning more matches and with hotter girls( tired of being fatty/single older mom's magnet).
Want to eventually buy a DSLR and take some cools pics of me and with girls( I'm also into BDSM and just started taking some pics with a girl for fun and BDSM apps).

I AM TO GET BACK TO WORK CUZ I'M BROKE NOW.

Glad to be here folks, let's go.
 
Hey guys,
I, IronStep, am commited to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 26 y.o. from Italy, and I'm on this forum to improve myself and getting laid more often than now.

Let's rock guys!
 
jlovat04 said:
Goals
-Lose weight (Hoping to lose another 15-20 lbs before the year is over)
- Be more accepting and kind to myself and stop the negativity
- Read You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought
- Improve my fashion
- Get laid at least once before the year is over

Hey Joshua. Welcome.

Your goals could be more specific. How will you know your less negative?

Hoping to lose weight is not a plan. Have a concrete plan you revise each week to hit your target.

How will you know if you've improved your fashion? By when.

I would pick one maybeeee two goals drop the rest and spend every waking minute obsessing over how you can accomplish them.

Almost never do people accomplish that many goals in 6 months..

Multitasking is a lie. Focus is what gets results.

Follow
One
Course
Until
Successful
 
Hello
My goal is to become the best version of myself. My goal is to become confident in myself, to the point where i can talk to anyone, specially women without any issues.
My first goals to focus on is:
Lifting consistently
Eating properly
Good sleep scheduele
Working consistantly on my homestead
Pursue one new hobby (First one will be painting)
 
Hi guys,

Another one from the UK, I'm 38.

Goals:
- Confidence
- Social skills
- Get my fitness back
- Get clients in new business
 
I, cloudburst, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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My name is Tom. I’m 21 years old, I am a 2 time entrepreneur with a day job in management. Live in the US.

I’m an old-ish TRP user who came here with the primary goal to become even better with women and expose myself to different viewpoints, a secondary goal is to specifically improve my OLD approach (in the right place for that ;) ) as I used cold approach almost exclusively the first time around, and my tertiary goal to surround myself with winners virtually in a space that is masculine and has no desire to be PC. TRP brought a ton of good into my life, however over the 4 years I frequented it, the community has been in quick decline for at least the last 3. (Particularly since the bans of the incel and MGTOW subreddits)

Looking back I could safely say I was scared of the approach, but in TRP there exists no such thing as an AA program - you dive in the deep end. So I just started walking up to girls and asking for their numbers/snapchats. Went great, but I never closed the lays... the sad part is, I could've, but I let fear create rationalizations for why I couldn't go all the way. (I.E. living at home) Most of them never turned into dates literally because I never messaged.

I fell off the fitness and approach train partially pre-covid and took quarantine rather seriously, so I saw literally nobody for ~20 months. With closed gyms, I didn't make an effort to implement a bodyweight routine, and my body fell off as well. After quarantine I actually feel like the same autist I did before I started making that progress. I'm currently 6'3 190lb and ~18-20% bf estimate.
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My current most glaring character flaws:

I have high drive/ambition and strong principles; Internally, I still get very very angry at friends (mostly old, some newer) that do not live up to my standards despite them ever expressing desire to….. aka Unmanaged Expectations of Others

I'm still uncomfortable being super overt with my sexuality (hey sexy, throwing girls around, some PDA, being direct about praising slutty behavior towards me - all make me uncomfortable and feel imposter syndrome still)

Sometimes I still feel like spending time with women I have relationships with is a complete waste of my time, even when sex is involved. Which creates cognitive dissonance for me as I want sex and sometimes other physicality, but goes against my principles of monk-like focus on myself and work.

Still play video games sometimes

I’ve developed a couple other limiting beliefs/what ifs with these changes in my life that I’m working to fight (I.E) Now that I have a dog, what if it messes up my game and kills the mood of inside home > escalation > sex {fucking ridiculous, I know}
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I’m comfortable going out in public again and have taken these concrete steps so far to improve my life:

Moved out

Gotten serious in the gym again {6 days/week}

Meditate Daily {Tai Chi}

Restarted cycling Keto

Got a dog

Weekly haircuts

Bought a DSLR Camera

Restarting approaches

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Goals

Short term:
(In-progress) Opening OLD profiles {w/premium}{gathering pics}

(In-Progress) Further improving style {will seek further advice - currently about matching glasses to face, good outfits for warm climate summers, and if my beard is enough that it's worth keeping}

(In-Progress) Dump my virginity {fear about legal ramifications of escorts, but might just have to risk it for the mental shift}

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Long Term:
Have 3 plates/FWBs in rotation that are 8s or greater in my eyes

Have at least one threesome

Execute on my sexual bucket list
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I’m going to log my results, use this community to keep myself accountable; including standing by my words with an uncensored photo of myself, and work to leave everyone I interact with here with more than they came with. I fully intend to be a key member of this community and think I’ve got far more than necessary inside to become, in Andy’s words, ‘an absolute fucking cold blooded killer’.



Let’s fucking go.

-Cloudburst
 
Hi,

Im 36, from Denmark and want to restart myself after a long and boring covid-19 period.

I want to date multiple women, have sex more often, be more outgoing, do something with my social skills.
 
I, SquirtingPikachu, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I want to sleep with 100 girls
I want to leave my 9 to 5 and make 20k a month online
I want to lose fat and have an amazing body

Im 27 and currently live in Los Angeles
 
I, clxmth6, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- 20 Years old.
- Born & raised in Eastern Europe.
- Studying computer science.

Long Term Goal:
- reach 85 kilos.
- learn to take better pictures of myself
- improve my attitude
- improve my social skills

Short Term Goal:
- find a job
- move to a bigger city
- meet more people
 
I, Bocaj, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys,
I'm 22,living in Dubai

My goals:-
1)Get laid
2)Reach 65 kg (currently at 78kg)
3)Deal with Approach Anxiety
 
Bocaj Hey dude

A profile pic of yourself is required to post here. Please amend or account will be banned
 
Hey Guys,
I'm Mike.
"I, Mike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals
-Go out on dates and get laid
-Overcome my approach anxiety
-Get a higher paying job by the end of the year. At least $50/hr
-Lose weight. 150 lbs by the end of the year. Getting a 6 pack eventually.
 

Hey guys, Andy here.



I commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.




Goals:


1) Build Muscle
2) Finish writing weight loss book

 
What’s up lads, I’m Mason.

Longtime lurker of the KYIL site and podcast, I decided it’s finally time to stop waiting for life to happen to me and TAKE ACTION.

I’m one of those guys who let several years pass by without taking action, so the buck stops here.

I look forward to getting to know some of you on here and utilizing this forum to grow with y’all.

Here’s some of my goals:

Short term:
-Move into a 1x1 apartment by October
-Complete the AA program by end of January
-Make at least 4 new friends by end of 2021
-Find e-commerce product by end of 2021

Long Term:
-25 lays by end of 2022
-Making $10k/month from business by June 2022
-Travel Europe Summer 2022
-Solid circle of friends by end of 2022

With that being said, I, Mason, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
I, Buffmeup, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

21 years old from Israel, into personal development since I was 17. I'm making progress in all areas except for girls & game, and it's time to take responsibility and action. No one is going to drop from the sky one day and tell me "Here's your girls, here's your bed skills & game, here's your social circle". I need to take initiative.

My goals for until the end of 2022:

- Build my freedom business (Coaching) to $20k/month
- Build a social circle of cool people doing cool shit with beautiful quality girls & high achievers
- Get laid consistently every week and actually be GOOD at it
- Become the man I've always wanted to become (Characteristics, discipline, providing for my family etc)

GG
 
Hello Everyone

34M from Paris , getting from short fat and unconfident (before covid) to lean and more confident these days but still nothing with girls because of overwherlming work and not putting enough effort into my improvements .

My goals are :

- overcoming my anxiety with girls
- getting laid with girls

My plan :

- taking a shitload of pictures of me during my 2 weeks vacation in a great house with swimming pool and cute dog :)
- continuing my fitness improvements
- creating a brand new tinder profile ( I have erased my first account after screwing my ELo one year ago )


"I, Mouks, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
 
"I, Liberty, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

My top goal is to get laid.
 
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