- Joined
- Jan 19, 2021
Working...............
Off to Krakow. 3 day bootcamp, in person training.
I will come back, better.
Off to Budapest soon. 1.5 years, full out hustle.
Biz & Body: GOOD PROGRESSION
Mindset/Dating: Mentally, getting better. Dating, this has been unacceptable.
5 months of a whole lot of nothing.
Minimal matches in England, and they're in no rush to come out for drinks. Had ONE date in Feb, a lady I approached in a club, and got out for a date the next date. She ghosted when I told her I'll see her the next week, rather than the next day. Cool. Got bigger fish to fry.
So be it.
I am a Man. I deal with it, and get BETTER.
Stronger, Fitter, More Productive.
I stay in the arena.
The UK, for dating as a Brown Guy, is not a positive situation. The abusive fucking crap I get sent on these dating apps. The endless time wasting. These are fat, very undesirable, often mentally ill women. This is simply laughable.
Months of scarcity (5 months of sweet f- all, tried different cities, different pics, different texting, you name it) will not do it for me.
Whatever is going on within these women's heads, is on them. I do not give a FUCK about what they think of me. I am an intelligent, hard working, professional man, and you do not treat me a men such as myself, like this. ;-)
NEXT STEPS: CHANGING MARKETS, ONGOING LOOKSMAXXING, ONGOING GAME/SOCIALS/VIBE DEV, ONGOING PHOTOSHOOTS
Photoshoot planned for the 24th of April. Let's see what comes.
Otherwise, I will continue to work hard, and to compete.
I sent my Tinder to Krakow.
A lovely and sweet Polish girl opened me, and then asked me to come out for a drink.
That is good. I've pitched Thursday, let's see.
TO GET THE RESULTS YOU SEEK, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO GO OUT AND COMPETE, AND TAKE WHAT IT IS YOU DESIRE
I can be bummed out about how the past 5 months have gone, can be pissed off about how the last 2 years have gone - do you think I'm happy about having to go on dates with fatties and mentally ill undesirables?
No, I'm not. But I am a man, and I deal with it, and use it as practice and a chance to LEARN.
And I aggressively improve myself, until I do not have to sit opposite the type of female I am not willing to allow into my life
...........ALWAYS BE IMPROVING (ABI)
Shore up all holes in the regime.
Gym. Nutrition. Skincare. Sleep. Wellness.
Game. Photoshoots. Approach volume. Sticking points.
Mindset. Mental Health. Social skills.
Work on it, bust your damn ass, and go out and take what is yours.
If it's 3 x the work, for half the reward, then so be it.
Brown Men have been achieving in life for a long time, and we will continue to press forward and find ways to adapt and win. We are very competent, highly intelligent, and some of the hardest workers on the face of this damn earth.
I have done the work.
I have put it in, and just won't accept this as my lot in life.
And I defy anyone to stop me ;-)
Final thoughts from The Godfather Kevin Samuels (RIP) as I now hop in the ice bath before getting my flight:
KEEP.FUCKING.WORKING.
This one is for the community within the community, they know who they are, but.......colgate natedawg Thrice
And there's a few other dogs out there, too.
We DO NOT have to settle for 5 months of fucking bullshit scarcity. That is not acceptable for us, and it is not allowed. There is NO REASON we should have to accept anything less than the results we seek.
Go out, and compete with these people.
Go out, and make your presence felt.
We belong here.
There is NOWHERE we cannot go.
There will need to be sweat on our brow and outright hustle in order to win.
So get THE FUCK after it.
-Ravi
Off to Krakow. 3 day bootcamp, in person training.
I will come back, better.
Off to Budapest soon. 1.5 years, full out hustle.
Biz & Body: GOOD PROGRESSION
Mindset/Dating: Mentally, getting better. Dating, this has been unacceptable.
5 months of a whole lot of nothing.
Minimal matches in England, and they're in no rush to come out for drinks. Had ONE date in Feb, a lady I approached in a club, and got out for a date the next date. She ghosted when I told her I'll see her the next week, rather than the next day. Cool. Got bigger fish to fry.
So be it.
I am a Man. I deal with it, and get BETTER.
Stronger, Fitter, More Productive.
I stay in the arena.
The UK, for dating as a Brown Guy, is not a positive situation. The abusive fucking crap I get sent on these dating apps. The endless time wasting. These are fat, very undesirable, often mentally ill women. This is simply laughable.
Months of scarcity (5 months of sweet f- all, tried different cities, different pics, different texting, you name it) will not do it for me.
Whatever is going on within these women's heads, is on them. I do not give a FUCK about what they think of me. I am an intelligent, hard working, professional man, and you do not treat me a men such as myself, like this. ;-)
NEXT STEPS: CHANGING MARKETS, ONGOING LOOKSMAXXING, ONGOING GAME/SOCIALS/VIBE DEV, ONGOING PHOTOSHOOTS
Photoshoot planned for the 24th of April. Let's see what comes.
Otherwise, I will continue to work hard, and to compete.
I sent my Tinder to Krakow.
A lovely and sweet Polish girl opened me, and then asked me to come out for a drink.
That is good. I've pitched Thursday, let's see.
TO GET THE RESULTS YOU SEEK, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO GO OUT AND COMPETE, AND TAKE WHAT IT IS YOU DESIRE
I can be bummed out about how the past 5 months have gone, can be pissed off about how the last 2 years have gone - do you think I'm happy about having to go on dates with fatties and mentally ill undesirables?
No, I'm not. But I am a man, and I deal with it, and use it as practice and a chance to LEARN.
And I aggressively improve myself, until I do not have to sit opposite the type of female I am not willing to allow into my life
...........ALWAYS BE IMPROVING (ABI)
Shore up all holes in the regime.
Gym. Nutrition. Skincare. Sleep. Wellness.
Game. Photoshoots. Approach volume. Sticking points.
Mindset. Mental Health. Social skills.
Work on it, bust your damn ass, and go out and take what is yours.
If it's 3 x the work, for half the reward, then so be it.
Brown Men have been achieving in life for a long time, and we will continue to press forward and find ways to adapt and win. We are very competent, highly intelligent, and some of the hardest workers on the face of this damn earth.
I have done the work.
I have put it in, and just won't accept this as my lot in life.
And I defy anyone to stop me ;-)
Final thoughts from The Godfather Kevin Samuels (RIP) as I now hop in the ice bath before getting my flight:
What I see is so many black men who have the ability, the potential.
[On Mediocrity]
I don't accept that from that person. I don't accept it from that woman. I won't accept it from you either.
Somebody else's prejudices and perceptions are not my problem.
If I've done the work and you know what it is, you often have to do three times the work to get half the credit.
I want my credit.
I want it now.
I want it hot. I want it ready. I want it juicy.
I want it on time.
I want it the way I ordered it.
I want my steak medium rare.
I want my potato loaded.
I want my asparagus crispy.
I want my wine chilled.
All this bougie shit that we feel like other people can have but we got to have, the fucking leftovers and the chitlins of the world.
Fuck that.
You get lobster too, and then you can still go eat a two-piece and a biscuit.
You belong there.
So why aren't you there?
Why aren't you there?
Are you afraid that some guy who may not know you or may not think you belong there is going to do that to you?
Fuck them.
Don't give them the comfort of security of your absence.
Don't make it easy for them if they have those kind of limiting beliefs.
Put your black ass in a room and make them recognize you're gangster.
Do not self segregate yourself to make somebody else feel comfortable.
Take what's yours.
Don't ask for it.
Take it.
That is why I say men are competent, intelligent, assertive.
But I really want you to get to the next point.
Once you finally realize this is where your life and you get to make it, then you have to get competitive.
And then you got to get aggressive.
Yeah, you got to get in the fight because they ain't going to give it to you.
Power is not given.
It is taken.
Taken.
You can't appeal to somebody's nature or whatever.
You take it from them.
What I tell you?
Fighting and fucking.
What are you fighting for?
Everything out here has somebody coming from another country to come get that piece of it.
You were born here.
There is no place here you can't go.
So what's stopping you? I asked.
What's stopping you from going to these rooms?
What's stopping you from going
to these cocktail parties?
What's stopping you from going to the mayor's ball.
What's stopping you from going to the art exhibits?
What is stopping black men from going to places that are considered high class?
KEEP.FUCKING.WORKING.
This one is for the community within the community, they know who they are, but.......colgate natedawg Thrice
And there's a few other dogs out there, too.
We DO NOT have to settle for 5 months of fucking bullshit scarcity. That is not acceptable for us, and it is not allowed. There is NO REASON we should have to accept anything less than the results we seek.
Go out, and compete with these people.
Go out, and make your presence felt.
We belong here.
There is NOWHERE we cannot go.
There will need to be sweat on our brow and outright hustle in order to win.
So get THE FUCK after it.
-Ravi