- Joined
- Jan 19, 2021
So with the visa, I will actually have the ability to stay in the entire Schengen region for a year.
I could hop around and check different places out for a year pretty much.
Budapest, proved to be OK for quality of life, social life, and also is quite a nice city in general.
But is not a location where I can live the life that I want to live, and have the opportunity to connect with others and form romantic relationships etc.
That's fine. I don't really mind where I have to go in order to have an experience that is a good one. I do believe I deserve it, and there are many places in this world, where people will treat you just fine, regardless of your background or skin colour.
Simply changing my dating app location from Budapest, to New York, resulted in 50 matches on Hinge, with not very many swipes, and also, 10 women liking my profile. Most of them were attractive, a few totally hot.
In Budapest, I get sweet f**k all. And nothing happened from 500+ approaches the last 90 days.
Why play on nightmare mode?
Why go somewhere where the people outright do not want to know you?
That's their choice. I respect it, and don't mind. I'm not going to allow that to give me a bad perception. There are also many good people in Budapest also.
Whilst my primary goal is business, the life I want, is not just working all day and just going to bed. I did that for 29 years and it almost made me want to blow my brains out.
I wanted to experience a better quality of life with normal human experiences, hence worked as hard as I have on this.
I have also been patient. I did my first few years, lowering my standards a tonne. I mostly dated fat, or very unattractive women. I felt minimal attraction for the women I dated and settled for women who were about a 4.
I did that, in order to live a better life moving forward. And have worked on myself since I was 29 in order to change my experience.
I think, given I have worked on myself for quite a few years, I think it should be reasonable for me to be able to sleep with someone I alteast find attractive from time to time.
Reflecting on the present predicament, I think things declined and went to shit, due to the Budapest move. Once you are in a very bad location, you will spiral from there.
My product, is a super bad fit for that market.
Cool.
I will go elsewhere.
Once I can be somewhere that just isn't a total bitch, I am sure I will be able to just stop being so caught up in this.
I would like to focus on business, but also do not want to live like an incel. I would like to live the kind of life I have set my vision for, will do the work, and will find some form of solution to this.
I will figure out what has to be done. The situation has ended up becoming complicated. My expectation was that I would get SOMETHING, some small glimmer of hope in BP. Dry spell has just continued despite consistent action, much of that I attribute to location and excessively poor product:market fitment.
-MAC
I could hop around and check different places out for a year pretty much.
Budapest, proved to be OK for quality of life, social life, and also is quite a nice city in general.
But is not a location where I can live the life that I want to live, and have the opportunity to connect with others and form romantic relationships etc.
That's fine. I don't really mind where I have to go in order to have an experience that is a good one. I do believe I deserve it, and there are many places in this world, where people will treat you just fine, regardless of your background or skin colour.
Simply changing my dating app location from Budapest, to New York, resulted in 50 matches on Hinge, with not very many swipes, and also, 10 women liking my profile. Most of them were attractive, a few totally hot.
In Budapest, I get sweet f**k all. And nothing happened from 500+ approaches the last 90 days.
Why play on nightmare mode?
Why go somewhere where the people outright do not want to know you?
That's their choice. I respect it, and don't mind. I'm not going to allow that to give me a bad perception. There are also many good people in Budapest also.
Whilst my primary goal is business, the life I want, is not just working all day and just going to bed. I did that for 29 years and it almost made me want to blow my brains out.
I wanted to experience a better quality of life with normal human experiences, hence worked as hard as I have on this.
I have also been patient. I did my first few years, lowering my standards a tonne. I mostly dated fat, or very unattractive women. I felt minimal attraction for the women I dated and settled for women who were about a 4.
I did that, in order to live a better life moving forward. And have worked on myself since I was 29 in order to change my experience.
I think, given I have worked on myself for quite a few years, I think it should be reasonable for me to be able to sleep with someone I alteast find attractive from time to time.
Reflecting on the present predicament, I think things declined and went to shit, due to the Budapest move. Once you are in a very bad location, you will spiral from there.
My product, is a super bad fit for that market.
Cool.
I will go elsewhere.
Once I can be somewhere that just isn't a total bitch, I am sure I will be able to just stop being so caught up in this.
I would like to focus on business, but also do not want to live like an incel. I would like to live the kind of life I have set my vision for, will do the work, and will find some form of solution to this.
I will figure out what has to be done. The situation has ended up becoming complicated. My expectation was that I would get SOMETHING, some small glimmer of hope in BP. Dry spell has just continued despite consistent action, much of that I attribute to location and excessively poor product:market fitment.
-MAC