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YEAR 3: THE IRONWILL PROJECT: MONEY, MUSCLES, MINDSET - FROM NOTHING TO SOMETHING, MY RELENTLESS JOURNEY

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You have MASSIVELY improved this year Ravi.

Your conversion rate is better compared to 2022, your red shirt year.

There is huge improvement.

You also got all but 1 of those lays in Budapest, a brutally hard city for any man who is not a chad or a man with a certain niche local girls like. Kudos my friend.

Focus on your business. Make 10+ a month, then 20k etc. Then you will have the tools to live where-ever you want. Even the USA if you choose (especially in more expensive places like NYC).

While you are doing this, focus on looksmaxxing. Ignore that waffles clown. He is just a good marketer, nothing more. Maybe he has good intentions, maybe not. Probably yes, but he is hustling.

Build yourself to be the best you can be. And the closer to ScottyGll you shall become. Then you will see an exponential increase in your results.

SMV is king, so take it seriously.

You made a VERY wise decision working with coaches, whether they are the ones in NYC or otherwise. That is a mistake I made. I was so jaded after my experience with a certain somebody that I never gave potentially legit coaches a chance.

Once you are making 5 figures, you can afford the top coaches out there besides.

I am so excited for you.

You have barely begun. As Scotty says, you are in the very early days.

To get to the point where you will see real results, you will need to go all out with looks-maxxing.

Godspeed.
 
For SURE I have improved, bro.

For absolute sure!

The Universe, is more fair than we think.

I simply have to double down, go harder, and I will win.

I am open, honest, listen to feedback, and very transparent.

I tell the raw truth here, because ethics & honesty is a core principle for Andy, and is the ethos I have sought to ingrain.

I can get laid, which is a fucking LEGENDARY WIN!

2 years ago man, I was fucking done & dusted. I have overcome lifelong issues, and this is unbelievable.

The next step, is to obtain QUALITY.

It is possible to do this, man, it will just take hard and smart work.

I need to become better at looks development, I am honest and open about that.

The market decides. The signal the market is giving me: it's not your time yet, Ravi.

So I have to objectively look at myself and figure out how I can be better.

And I will do it.

Believe me, I will do it.

For a start, I need to explore new hair cuts and styles. The hair transplant, was a great move, and I will write about this in the LooksMaxxing Mega Thread. If you look at my YouTube channel, go back to my street interviews, and I looked very different when I was hardcore balding.

I look a bit better now.

However, my looks, are not at the threshold required to be considered above average in 2024's market. And this is FINE. It can be overcome, absolutely.

I will make a proper plan about my next moves, but I am going down the cosmetic procedures route, as well as pushing body hardcore.

Current pic from this morning:


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There are areas for development. This version of myself, is a lot better than last year.

It can take a few years tbh.

The next evolution, needs:

-Botox
-Fillers
-New hairstyle (buzzcut imo)
-Tattooing (sleeve)
-More muscle
-Lean AF
-Teeth whitening
-Skin clearing procedures

No one can shirk the work, man. The only constant, is US. If your product isn't appealing to the market, which is NOT a slight or a indicator of one's potential, we just need to internalise, accept, and then IMPROVE.

I will write a few things about social circle. In the social scenes I am in, with lots of exposure, women naturally start to feel attraction and be drawn to me. I have two kind of persuing me. Just through lots and lots of exposure to me, they eventually see, damn he is a cool ass guy. They can go beyond the looks. Initially, they probably weren't attracted. After actually talking to me, for months, they began to feel something.

This is useful learning, and I will explore more social circle in the locations to come.

Next year, I will try different locations.

3 months in NYC is at the top of that list

Me and Paw may move to Spain, maybe.............I am not sure I would do in Spain, I don't want a repeat of Budapest, which is a very very tough market for foreigners, and brown foreigners, it will be hard as fuck, unless you have some fucking IRON WILL, like myself. I still banged here. But that is from fucking hardcore ass grinding like an animal.

I want to go, where I have some frame. Just some. That is enough for me to make it work!

Writing up my looks plan, got some good imput from my boy Hedon and will send the plan to him also, just reviewing what he sent me atm

KEEP WORKING BROS

You are my fire and motivation when I come here and see action it gives me strength

SO KEEP WORKING

WHEN YOU WIN IT GIVES ME POWER

There are bright days ahead man

My looks, will improve, and I will be happier when I can get some decent quality and some retention

Will stay strong for another year because I think it will take another year of work to get nearer to the looks threshold

I may arrive at it, in 2025 or possibly 2026

I don't know when, but I know, the Universe will give it to me

Because I just will not quit...............

-MAC DADDY
 
Present considerations:

LooksDev Action Plan
(1) Fillers for jaw and cheekbones
(2) Removing buccal fat
(3) Botox

Others:

-Tatto: Sleeve
-Eyelids: Blepharoplasty
-Hair transplant “top up”

I will post more about this in the LooksMaxxing mega thread.
 
MakingAComeback said:
New hairstyle (buzzcut imo)
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You already look pretty intimidating as it is + the 6ft5. Id go for a longer cut which can also cover your forehead a bit.

MakingAComeback said:
I am not sure I would do in Spain, I don't want a repeat of Budapest, which is a very very tough market for foreigners, and brown foreigners
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Spain is notoriously hard, very social circle heavy and underlying racism. A Colombian girl I met told me the people there would talk a heavy dialect when they met her because they could hear she wasn’t Spanish even though she obviously speaks the language.

MakingAComeback said:
(2) Removing buccal fat
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10% bodyfat first before even thinking about this. Nowadays surgeons stick to fillers because the long term saggy skin effect of the buccaneers fat removal is very negative
 
kratjeuh said:
MakingAComeback said:
New hairstyle (buzzcut imo)
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You already look pretty intimidating as it is + the 6ft5. Id go for a longer cut which can also cover your forehead a bit.

MakingAComeback said:
I am not sure I would do in Spain, I don't want a repeat of Budapest, which is a very very tough market for foreigners, and brown foreigners
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Spain is notoriously hard, very social circle heavy and underlying racism. A Colombian girl I met told me the people there would talk a heavy dialect when they met her because they could hear she wasn’t Spanish even though she obviously speaks the language.

MakingAComeback said:
(2) Removing buccal fat
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10% bodyfat first before even thinking about this. Nowadays surgeons stick to fillers because the long term saggy skin effect of the buccaneers fat removal is very negative
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Facts bro, Master Pancake struggled in Spain ans has excellent Spanish language, though I don't recall the context, he may not have been "in the game" so to speak!

Definitely need to drop BF, hardcore.

I will keep MAXXING for the next month or so put some measures in place, the botox is easy, and the fillers, are quite simply and worthwhile.

I can wait until I am leaner for the buccal fat for sure.

-Ravi
 
Increasing Revenue By 70% Through Hardcore Consistency? Joe of DatingUnchained [IronWill Legend]

https://youtu.be/qjHRdEwkaUE?si=NfpDsnylZ90MjbV1

Increasing Revenue By 70% Through Hardcore Consistency? Joe of DatingUnchained [IronWill Legend]

Joe is an INDUSTRY LEADER and the world's number-one expert in dating photography. He hired me, for increasing revenue in 2023 and brand building consistency.

Joe Website & Socials:
https://www.datingunchained.com/
IG: @passionunchainedphotos
FB: Joe Buchoff (The Tinder Whisperer)
YT: @PassionUnchained

As a one on one coaching client, Joe went about increasing revenue in his business, and raised it by 70% through working with me, using The IronWill Method. MILFandCookies

He produces simply unbelievable results, and has unmatched, unsurpassed knowledge and experience, as well as the real world results, proven again, and again, and again.

JOE IS THE MAN!

BE LIKE JOE & THRIVE IN YOUR LIFE!

FLY HIGH & GET TO THE TIPPY TOP OF YOUR INDUSTRY

JOE BECAME THE BEST IN THE WORLD THROUGH HIS UNBELIEVABLE CONSISTENCY AND WORLD CLASS RESULTS

That is why, I give him the title of IronWill LEGEND!

Ready to get SERIOUS?

If you want one on one coaching, to rise to the top of your game, email me:

Ravi: ironwillcoach@gmail.com

00:00 Introducing Joe, Founder of DatingUnchained & PassionUnchained
05:14 Joe’s Entrepreneurial Journey, The Hard Come Up
09:00 Joe’s Badass Resilience: Never Giving In Despite 6 YEARS Of Failure
12:36 How Joe Got Interested In Dating Photography (And Would Become The Best In The World)
20:36 Joe’s Journey with Photography, and The Sacrifices He Made
33:39 Joe & The IronWill Methodology: How Joe Developed WORLD CLASS Consistency
38:46 Dropping Out Of College (Rutgers), Facing Criticism, Being Broke, Suffering, and 2 Years of Homelessness
42:50 Joe’s Goal Setting & Personal Change in 2024
49:45 Joe Rise To Becoming An Industry Leader: From The Hard Years In The Widlerness, To Receiving Public Recognition
54:22 Joe on Success, And How To Follow Joe’s Journey Online
 
AskTheDom said:
Tering Jantje said:
Lmao, no wonder this started off bad, you like Polish women so you KNOW how EE women have this idea in there head that the man need to provide i.e. pay for everything, if not.. then there is no respect for you. LITTERALLY I heared many of them say "a man is the provider and protector, the easiest thing he can so is pay"
The oldschool women strategy and now mostly for EE women: Get the man invested 3 dates before sex, first date
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I’ve been living in Poland for 3 months on and off every year (almost) for the last 12 years.
There are some girls like that in Ukraine/Belarus but Pol d these days is pretty much like Germany/uk.
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Some girls are, some girls aren't.. yes, your experience doesn't reflect others.
 
Please be cautious regarding the blepharoplasty. It looks like one of the more invasive procedures so definitely make sure you get the best surgeon money can buy.
 
Tering Jantje said:
Some girls are, some girls aren't.. yes, your experience doesn't reflect others.
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Mine and every single day gamer that has been to Poland
But if you prefer to hold to your opinion, more than free
 
Tering Jantje said:
Some girls are, some girls aren't.. yes, your experience doesn't reflect others
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Four months ago you barely had 20 lays and you're 36. If you're going to debate one of the most experienced guys in the dating game, you need to be doing much better than that.
 
MOGGER CRISIS CHECKING IN

I want all men to use this website, of course, I want it full of action takers and every guy who is active, supports my mission to save one man at a time and produce success.

However, The Dom is considered a legend, for a reason.

Most of us, pretty much shut the fuck up an do what he tells us to, for a reason.

Guys like this, have earned that respect. Through making unbelievable, life changing impact to other men.

I am transparent, I would be pretty much fucked if it was not for Andy, Radical, The Bastard, Pancakemouse, Rags2Bitches, The Dom, and another one of my guys who is still living well in London and being successful, TimmyTurner. These guys turned my life around and got me into being successful, from pretty much being a total loser man. That was what I was for most of my life.

It is very tough to attract truly high level guys here. Very tough. They don't tend to want to post here, which is a major issue and why we need to rebrand and restructure the forum. So when we get one, we hold on to them for dear life.

The next version of the forum, will be a better space. We will retain dating success, and also push business and physique excellence.

The Dom, is one of the great slayers, been around every corner of the world, slayed 400+ women, in every way you can imagine, and not only that, but has been at the cutting edge of the game for 20 fucking years.

How many people do you know who have that many data points in their brain?

I know very few, and I am deep in this world....

When a guy who is a millionaire, pushes you to go higher in life, you pretty much need to take that as a commandment from God imo. I haven't been driving a Porsche around the idyllic Italian countryside, rising to the top of the corporate ladder. So when a guy like that invests in helping me become better, you better believe I attack every action with full focus and commitment.

Mostly, we at Winner Within, respect the legendary men of self improvement, who stick around here. This has worked for us, for years. We tend to take guidance and instruction from the very senior users. This, is proven to work, and with us generally being coachable, we have kept these guys around. Unless you are going to help me attract guys like that, let's all drop the ego and recognise most of us here, are not the real deal yet. Most. We generally take a lead from the top guys, and that is what we've done here for years now. This has seen the rest of us, become more successful.

Hell, I myself, an mentored and advised by these guys. How many guys help me out in my log? Loads. I listen to them, all, because I WANT TO GET BETTER.

We will continue to be grateful for guys like The Dom, who give up their own time, which they don't need to, to push these other men to greatness.

I don't enjoy some of the feedback myself, but I love the results......

-Ravi
 
AskTheDom said:
Mine and every single day gamer that has been to Poland But if you prefer to hold to your opinion, more than free
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Yes my opinion.. You seem to have facts, which is more important. Thanks.

Crisis_Overcomer said:
Four months ago you barely had 20 lays and you're 36. If you're going to debate one of the most experienced guys in the dating game, you need to be doing much better than that.
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Yes this is me and nothing has changed other than that I had sex with the same woman I already knew. I don't really care about the laycount but I also suck at dating.

MakingAComeback said:
I want all men to use this website, of course, I want it full of action takers and every guy who is active, supports my mission to save one man at a time and produce success.

However, The Dom is considered a legend, for a reason.

Most of us, pretty much shut the fuck up an do what he tells us to, for a reason.

Guys like this, have earned that respect. Through making unbelievable, life changing impact to other men.

The Dom, is one of the great slayers, been around every corner of the world, slayed 400+ women, in every way you can imagine, and not only that, but has been at the cutting edge of the game for 20 fucking years.
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Yeah I can see that but I am not really vibing with the "gatekeeper personality". Which triggers me to be rebellious. It's nothing personal to anyone if you felt attacked and if you did, grow a pair ;-) It's not my intention to use your thread as a device of discussion so I will stop after this post.

I really like seeing you progressing as a man, nothing but love! Peace
 
MakingAComeback said:
Increasing Revenue By 70% Through Hardcore Consistency? Joe of DatingUnchained [IronWill Legend]

https://youtu.be/qjHRdEwkaUE?si=NfpDsnylZ90MjbV1

Increasing Revenue By 70% Through Hardcore Consistency? Joe of DatingUnchained [IronWill Legend]

Joe is an INDUSTRY LEADER and the world's number-one expert in dating photography. He hired me, for increasing revenue in 2023 and brand building consistency.

Joe Website & Socials:
https://www.datingunchained.com/
IG: @passionunchainedphotos
FB: Joe Buchoff (The Tinder Whisperer)
YT: @PassionUnchained

As a one on one coaching client, Joe went about increasing revenue in his business, and raised it by 70% through working with me, using The IronWill Method. @MILFandCookies

He produces simply unbelievable results, and has unmatched, unsurpassed knowledge and experience, as well as the real world results, proven again, and again, and again.

JOE IS THE MAN!

BE LIKE JOE & THRIVE IN YOUR LIFE!

FLY HIGH & GET TO THE TIPPY TOP OF YOUR INDUSTRY

JOE BECAME THE BEST IN THE WORLD THROUGH HIS UNBELIEVABLE CONSISTENCY AND WORLD CLASS RESULTS

That is why, I give him the title of IronWill LEGEND!

Ready to get SERIOUS?

If you want one on one coaching, to rise to the top of your game, email me:

Ravi: ironwillcoach@gmail.com

00:00 Introducing Joe, Founder of DatingUnchained & PassionUnchained
05:14 Joe’s Entrepreneurial Journey, The Hard Come Up
09:00 Joe’s Badass Resilience: Never Giving In Despite 6 YEARS Of Failure
12:36 How Joe Got Interested In Dating Photography (And Would Become The Best In The World)
20:36 Joe’s Journey with Photography, and The Sacrifices He Made
33:39 Joe & The IronWill Methodology: How Joe Developed WORLD CLASS Consistency
38:46 Dropping Out Of College (Rutgers), Facing Criticism, Being Broke, Suffering, and 2 Years of Homelessness
42:50 Joe’s Goal Setting & Personal Change in 2024
49:45 Joe Rise To Becoming An Industry Leader: From The Hard Years In The Widlerness, To Receiving Public Recognition
54:22 Joe on Success, And How To Follow Joe’s Journey Online
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🔥🙏🏼❤️
 
HAPPY NEW YEAR!

The work on goal achievement, will continue.

THE IRONWILL PROJECT: MONEY, MUSCLES, MINDSET
TUESDAY 2ND JAN: WEEK 1

(1) MONEY:
-Coaching (DONE)
-Content Machine: Write and schedule 28 social media posts for the week

(2) MUSCLES:
-Gym: ATG & Squat, Bench, Rows + Arms
-OMAD

(3) MINDSET:
- Online Lead Gen
- Schedule w/ Barista girl

Others:
-Biohacking: Sunrise, Earthing, CT.

Notes:

Focus on biz, is marketing, making offers, and building an audience.

Last year, I grew my YouTube from 48 to 443!

Through consistency and dedication.

I want to break 1k soon.

There are a few things I need to sort: core story, sales page, and some messaging stuff.

Got some help, to dig into these things, and level up.

My friend Ralph is staying with me (@realralphanthony) and is a serious G. Baller, but wants to be around myself for a month, to push his consistency game way up.

Did some night game with him for NYE, which as you'd expect, was quite blackpill. He pulled fairly easily, without much effort, just chatting and being normal, a gal just came back.

I grinded and grinded for multiple hours after his departure, flipping every stone.

Just finding a gal who'd be willing to chat, at all, was a pain in the ass, most were not giving me the time of day, but there was the odd gal, who would kind of atleast talk, though there was no attraction at all.

I got one make out from a very old and ugly woman, lol. It was funny and a bunch of people were staring. One chick walked up and recorded it.

I thought to myself, what do you idiots want me to do, when I try to chat to you, you are not at all interested, so go fuck yourselves lol.

I got two numbers, from 2 other women. 1 texted me the next day to tell me she is seeing someone, and the other sent 2 texts and then stopped responding. She might reply, or maybe not. Oh well.

I am glad Ralph was able to see me approaching and hustling so hard, though he got Blackpilled himself, by seeing the brown struggle!

He'd be chatting to some very receptive women, bring me into set, and the chicks would just switch off before I could say one word. They see brown, it's over. Very rough. Happened every time more or less.

I did my thing, and kept ploughing to oblivion.

There was the odd gal, who would atleast talk, though they were not down to consider what I was actually saying and didn't feel any attraction. Often it's like talking to stone.

You can't take this shit personally, by now, as anyone who reads this log knows, this is the nature of the beast for the unattractive undesirables. And the way through, is being a hardcore motherfucker.

It does not get easier, does not get better, you have to endure the same BS, year after year.

And it's not even you. If conditioning is against you, it's just going to be an uphill battle.

But there is where you find true strength within yourself.

There are some chicks, who will listen and see beyond your skin tone and facial structure. Not many, but some. You have to find those. And be patient. You and I may not find that unicorn, and that's OK.

Business, is slowly showing green shoots. And I am making moves more broadly. Started a panel show with Scotty, which is great. Got some big channels, and other large channels having us on soon also.

Focusing, working, and keeping my mind up.

Body and appearance, def. got better, and my consistency is paying off.

Feeling alright in body and soul, though some days, can be tricky.

I had a good blitz a few weeks ago, and retained one chick who I kept seeing. A gal from Singapore. She was nice. She's left now, but we banged a bunch. And she treated me well. I appreciated it.

With her now gone, getting another conversion, is back on the cards.

Some things I am still working on for mindset:

(1) Ending Comparision: The hard blackpill, is seeing literally all your friends be treated in a normal way. Like they chat, and the women are actually speaking to them normally, asking questions, investing, thinking, maybe this could be a cool dude. Working on accepting and getting over that just isn't easy man. I still feel bad about it, though I do get lays here and there, the only thing that worked for me was numbers game and luck. With huge hustle sometimes you just get some luck. Uphill struggle, is the nature of the game, and it can simply hurt. Comparing yourself to others, who are treated in a more normal way, isn't useful. It creates tension and pain. Working on this, for years now, and it can be tough, but I feel like I am making progress.
(2) Keeping self image right: Self belief, and self image. Especially important for men who are unattractive and undesirable. You just need to be relentless, and very strong. And believe in yourself, and that you have true value, regardless of the bullshit ways yoy may be treated. You have to know inside, you are a great and awesome person.
(3) Patience: I've done this daily, and I have seen, there are some girls, not many, but some small number out there, who will look beyond your physical form and see that you have some substance. I call this, searching for the unicorns. They are out there, it just takes extreme grinding to find them. Being super patient, matters. Some, will have many months of scarcity, and it's not even them. It's just their position in the market. You can't blame yourself for that.
(4) Staying Positive: In Budapest, and places like this, you will get harsh racist objections. Women will openly tell me, they don't like Indian people, I am not their type, etc. I have had times when I was disturbed by this, and others where I shrugged it off. You literally cannot care what these people think of you. They will not like you either way, so f**k 'em. Stoicism is especially important the more unattractive and undesirable you are. Because it is grim out here for such men. Expect to see the ugliness in the human animal, and expect to change the way you view women. It's not even their fault.

I wanted to express the above, and just share things I am working through.

Back to work

-R
 
Great moves w/ Scotty

https://youtu.be/TICYSAu5_ak?si=sVISXcUd3V8-tRic

The mindset component is crucial

In biz, body, and women, it takes proper hustling and not accepting anything less than what you deserve

If I was in a wheelchair, had one arm or leg, I would still hustle

I never give up

That is what matters when all is said and done

Regardless of any difficulties, if you keep going, you will create outcomes in your life

I honestly really love talking to Scotty, he is a legend and a great guy. I also like Ketan a lot (Intellectual Muscle, on YouTube). I am happy to be creating a panel show with us, and to create something awesome.

We are going to have Radical on next time. And we're reaching out to others.

I want you all to strive and truly push for excellence in life.

Because people like me, absolute dogs, who do not fit the mould at all, are out here making moves, because of dedication to growth and achievement.

That is what matters. Not giving up, regardless of the task at hand, is what we as MEN must do in this world.

-R
 
THE IRONWILL PROJECT: MONEY, MUSCLES, MINDSET
TUESDAY 2ND JAN: WEEK 1

THE IRONWILL PROJECT: MONEY, MUSCLES, MINDSET
TUESDAY 2ND JAN: WEEK 1

(1) MONEY:
-Coaching (DONE)
-Content Machine: Write and schedule 28 social media posts for the week (DONE)

(2) MUSCLES:
-Gym: ATG & Squat, Bench, Rows + Arms (DONE)
-OMAD (DONE)

(3) MINDSET:
- Online Lead Gen (DONE)
- Schedule w/ Barista girl (DONE)

Others:
-Biohacking: Sunrise, Earthing, CT (DONE)

Notes:

10/10

Was day 1 for my guy, Ralph, who is doing an inperson retreat with me for 30 days.

Solid and very high level guy (top 1% in money, body, women).

Former investment banker, then did Business Acquisition at Google, had an idea that made him FU money (10 mil) and now is getting my help in content consistency to build his men's self development brand.

People of this calibre, choose IronWill.

Because I am fucking GREAT at what I do.

A top level high performance and consistency coach.

In time, I will make my money, get the body right, and get a real woman to be with.

The come up, continues bros.

We will keep going.

Until we win.

Back tomorrow.

-Ravi
 
THE IRONWILL PROJECT: MONEY, MUSCLES, MINDSET
WEDNESDAY 3RD JAN: WEEK 1

(1) MONEY:
-Coaching Deliver
-Coaching Call
-SM Posts: 4
-Content:
(1) Joe Clips
(2) Ralph video
(3) Blackpill video: Draft, Shoot
(4) Procrastination guide: Draft, Shoot

(2) MUSCLES:
-Stretch & Cardio
-Diet: 150g protein

(3) MINDSET:
-Stay positive & in abundance
-CA
-Online Hustle

Others:
-Biohacking: Sunrise, Earthing, CT

Notes:

Another day, another hustle.

Action.

-Ravi
 
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